Highly tough situation

[Loren Y 2,755]

Visiting from the UK is a lot different then trying to enter from Pakistan. Think there may be a little difficulty in coming from that country. But maybe. 

 

[Aster 24]

Please guys at least advice me , what should be best for me on this stage ?   

 

I have been continuously calling , messaging her and her mother and brothers but no response ....     

[Going through 5,671]

Just now, Aster said:

Please guys at least advice me , what should be best for me on this stage ?   

 

I have been continuously calling , messaging her and her mother and brothers but no response ....     

Have you contacted your friend in the US to see if they can find out anything on your behalf?  That was suggested a few times in this thread.

[Loren Y 2,755]

1 minute ago, JFH said:

I guess what you’re saying is the the K-1 is better than the CR-1 for people who are not sure about their relationship? Why would being able to “bail out until the last minute without commitments” be a bonus? If my husband had said to me “we should do the K-1 instead of getting married and doing the CR-1 in case I need to bail out at the last minute” he wouldn’t see me for dust. 

It's a lot different when you end up living with someone. A relationship based on a few weeks here and a few weeks there are a lot different than living under the same roof. I like to call those Vacation relationship. I've had a ton of " Vacation relationships" but they never really panned out. Takes a lot of visiting to really get to know someone. I had over 7 years of visiting before I decided to do the K1. Not, oh I met this girl let's get married I've known her for a good 24 hours. She has to be the one.

[Aster 24]

6 minutes ago, Going through said:

Have you contacted your friend in the US to see if they can find out anything on your behalf?  That was suggested a few times in this thread.

I called my mother in canada to talk to her mother if she is taking your call ... I said called in night , meanwhile I tried my level best to contact them both ..  I don't want to get my mother or anyone else in this situation ...  I have been trying but no response ... 

 

 

I don't know what people they are 

[Mr.Jose 64]

4 minutes ago, Aster said:

Please guys at least advice me , what should be best for me on this stage ?   

 

I have been continuously calling , messaging her and her mother and brothers but no response ....     

Be a husband and stop being a child. She’s your wife. Clearly people aren’t taking you seriously for whatever reason. 

 

Call her at work. Stop calling her mother, brother, you’re not married to them. 

[Aster 24]

At least reply me and tell me what they want 

 

[Aster 24]

Just now, Mr.Jose said:

Be a husband and stop being a child. She’s your wife. Clearly people aren’t taking you seriously for whatever reason. 

 

Call her at work. Stop calling her mother, brother, you’re not married to them. 

I m calling her , her mother , her brother ..   Anyone pick my call ....   I am calling every body who are living with her and who involved in our marriage ...

[Reqahmed 92]

You should hire a lawyer in USA not in Pakistan to check whether you can extend your interview for longer periods like few months also if it's possible to enter in USA that time so you can contact your wife and solve the person and come back and join interview. You should not cry for your 5 years visit visa it's got no value. If you dismiss this application and enter usa you won't be able to stay there cuz your Immigration will be messed up. So don't worry about visit visa but try if you can use this to enter us and save your marriage life . You need a good lawyer ASAP before anything.

P.S. you said your mum in Canada. Check if she can go to us and speak to your wife.

Edited August 25, 2018 by Reqahmed

[Going through 5,671]

6 minutes ago, Aster said:

I m calling her , her mother , her brother ..   Anyone pick my call ....   I am calling every body who are living with her and who involved in our marriage ...

Does she have a facebook page you can contact her on (or see if she's been posting on there)?  If so, and she's blocked you from seeing the page, might be a sign that she really does not wish to continue the relationship.

 

If she is employed in the US, and you know the number, perhaps you can try reaching out to her where she works.

[Aster 24]

She has a Facebook but she does not use ,    I m seeing on whatsapp the seen double ticks are changing in blue , it's mean she is reading ,  and whatsapp shows online but she is not receiving my call and I m calling her direct line still she is not picking my call 

[Aster 24]

Please be on my situation , I m very tense ....  Please respect my feeling and situation 

[Unidentified 2,930]

Since you know she's reading what your write on WhatsApp, have you flat out asked her if she wants a divorce? 

[Aster 24]

I don't know , what's going on , she is not replying ....  It's bothering me a lot ,   At least tell me what is in her mind ...  I will have to fly other city for interview ,  and I have to book my air ticket , accommodation ,  put leave on work,  documents , etc and one week is  left and  if I don't book then I might not get any seat 

[Going through 5,671]

Was this an arranged marriage?...just wondering as earlier you'd mentioned that the mother and brothers were "involved in the marriage", and they are not speaking to you either.  Possible her family is putting pressure on her (for whatever reason has come up/been discovered) to not continue the marriage?