Withdrawal retraction

[Unidentified 2,930]

3 minutes ago, MsNina said:

You have to go to the previous pages and you will see. 

I've read everything from the first page to this and I don't see anyone being rude to you. I see people giving you facts and advice. 

[geowrian 22,337]

Just now, MsNina said:

No being fake is not what i need. I just dont need disrespectful feedback.

The truth is "negativity" and you don't need that. False hope is "disrespectful". So what exactly are you looking for here? I'm honestly trying to understand what you hope to gain at this point.

[SusieQQQ 11,586]

1 hour ago, MsNina said:

Thank you..lesson completely learned as soon as i sent. All i need is positive vibes...i am kicking my own ### myself. Lol. Thanks.

With all due respect, it’s not “positive vibes” you need. What you need is a proper understanding of USCIS processes. This is what people are trying to give you. 

[MsNina 184]

4 minutes ago, Trinab80 said:

Clearly from your response you overlooked everything that I and others have said. And hoping negativity on me is childish when I simply stated nothing of negativity. No I don't know you and don't care to know you. I didn't address the negative responses because it was irrelevant. Fact is, you're mad and angry at those trying to give you advice for something that is clearly your fault. That, my dear, is not negative...that is a fact. I read everyone's comments and the common message is here is clear...a withdrawal request cannot be retracted. And will affect you in the long run with other parts of this immigration process because the K1 is only the first step.

 

But you don't have to like what I said, and you can try to insult me all you want, hun! Considering where I'm sitting in this process, already done with the K1 and moving on to the AOS, you would think someone in your predicament would listen to those that have been in your shoes trying to give you sound advice. And when I have difficult situations and ask for assistance on here, I DON'T act like a child and catch an attitude with what advice or negativity is being said. It's called being an adult and accepting criticism whether good or bad. You, my dear should learn how to do that!!!

 

So now, I just watch from the rest of the show as you continue to embarrass yourself even more for something we are simply trying to help you understand and give advice about!!!

I dont care how long you write. Your commentary is rude and not helpful period. And how mature of you to brag about the status of your K1. But thats alright. Karma will take care if you. I never once said anything defensive about anyone else's opinion. Thats exactly what it is...an opinion. Thank you and goodbye.

[MsNina 184]

7 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

I've read everything from the first page to this and I don't see anyone being rude to you. I see people giving you facts and advice. 

Well obviously we have different perspectives.

[Unidentified 2,930]

3 minutes ago, MsNina said:

I dont care how long you write. Your commentary is rude and not helpful period. And how mature of you to brag about the status of your K1. But thats alright. Karma will take care if you. I never once said anything defensive about anyone else's opinion. Thats exactly what it is...an opinion. Thank you and goodbye.

Sweetheart, she is not bragging about her K1. She is telling you that she has gone through the K1 already and knows what she's talking about. Get off your high horse and start listening. 

 

Though it doesn't really matter at this point. What's done is done. Lessoned (hopefully) learned (though I doubt it). Good luck!

1 minute ago, MsNina said:

Well obviously we have different perspectives.

Clearly. And it is sad that you can't accept the facts they're giving you. And I am sure this thread will be closed soon. 

[MsNina 184]

12 minutes ago, SusieQQQ said:

With all due respect, it’s not “positive vibes” you need. What you need is a proper understanding of USCIS processes. This is what people are trying to give you. 

If you dont have anything important to say...then don't say anything. 🤷🏾‍♀️

6 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

Sweetheart, she is not bragging about her K1. She is telling you that she has gone through the K1 already and knows what she's talking about. Get off your high horse and start listening. 

 

Though it doesn't really matter at this point. What's done is done. Lessoned (hopefully) learned (though I doubt it). Good luck!

Clearly. And it is sad that you can't accept the facts they're giving you. And I am sure this thread will be closed soon. 

I am not talking about the so called "facts"

Edited August 22, 2018 by MsNina

[Unidentified 2,930]

1 minute ago, MsNina said:

If you dont have anything important to say...then don't say anything. 🤷🏾‍♀️

So understanding how USCIS works is not important? Isn't that the whole point of immigration?

[Unidentified 2,930]

2 minutes ago, MsNina said:

If you dont have anything important to say...then don't say anything. 🤷🏾‍♀️

I am talking about the so called "facts"

Oh, are you claiming she is giving you "alternative" facts? 

[MsNina 184]

13 minutes ago, geowrian said:

The truth is "negativity" and you don't need that. False hope is "disrespectful". So what exactly are you looking for here? I'm honestly trying to understand what you hope to gain at this point.

If you go to my original post. You will see what i requested. Thanks.

[JayMar2019 2,741]

3 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

Sweetheart, she is not bragging about her K1. She is telling you that she has gone through the K1 already and knows what she's talking about. Get off your high horse and start listening. 

 

Though it doesn't really matter at this point. What's done is done. Lessoned (hopefully) learned (though I doubt it). Good luck!

Clearly. And it is sad that you can't accept the facts they're giving you. And I am sure this thread will be closed soon. 

I really wasn't bragging at all and thank you for stating the obvious. Sad because the truth unfortunately, hurts. Since she seems to have gotten her answers to her situation prior to coming on here and requesting advice, there was no point to this thread being created. Never once did I judge her reasons for doing it (I really don't care, because it's not my relationship/marriage). But 4 people have told her the same thing and she has come back with a defensive response saying "I know the law and it's not withdrawn".....SMH!!!!

 

But thanks again!

[Esme2504 48]

11 hours ago, MsNina said:

I want to continue with the petition. However i sent a request to withdraw due to this stress of waiting...and unknowing our fate together.

I have been waiting for a year and a half for my fiance to finally be with me. & you have been waiting 4 months and gave up? I know its hard to wait but this is longgggg and very stressful process!. There has been times I have given up in my mind but what my heart feels keeps me going.  Good Luck! 

[MsNina 184]

Just now, Esme2504 said:

I have been waiting for a year and a half for my fiance to finally be with me. & you have been waiting 4 months and gave up? I know its hard to wait but this is longgggg and very stressful process!. There has been times I have given up in my mind but what my heart feels keeps me going.  Good Luck! 

No. I have been waiting for him for a year. 4 months..no. it has only been 4 months since we could finally file.

[Unidentified 2,930]

4 months is nothing when it comes to immigration. We did our K1 in almost a year. 

[MsNina 184]

2 minutes ago, Esme2504 said:

I have been waiting for a year and a half for my fiance to finally be with me. & you have been waiting 4 months and gave up? I know its hard to wait but this is longgggg and very stressful process!. There has been times I have given up in my mind but what my heart feels keeps me going.  Good Luck! 

I am not an unreasonable person.