i have few questions

[jasper 0]

well i think everybody knows the situation i have ,me and my wife never get a long so she filed for a divorce iam waiting for it to be ended ,but the nightmare is always haunting me of being denied ,this is a very hard situation that iam going through sometimes i ask myself,what if iam denied then what ??? i made my life here after i gave mine up back in my country ,i love people here ,i really love them so much i,i made friends,i have a job,good payment with benifits i have everything here i entered the marriage in a GOOD faith ,but will the immigration feel me ??? will they know that iam not here to get the GC,i can prove the relationship i have emails and letters and my wife used to send me money i have western union statements ,i think this is the proof of a good marriage and lots of pic me and my wife when she was there and tickets she visited me 4 time every time she stayed with me 3 months and we have airline tickets when she went there and i have tickets shows we came back here together this what i have before relationship is AIRPLANE TICKETS show she traveled there to see me and i have pics and emails and some letters and western union statements show she used to send me money,and during our marriage when i first came here i had some problems i was unable to adjust my status after 7 months because i hired a lawyer and he took my time ,well thats the past i cant go back and change it so i did not have any evidences for the relationship because i did not have a social security or GC or work permit so we could not get a joint bank account or other joint bills,10 months i adjust my status and got CGC so we started having joint bills and bank account this what i have as evidences after i got CGC,joint bank account,joint credit card,joint lease agreement ,joint electric bill,joint car insurance,joint tax return of one year,joint savings cards ,joint samsclub cards ,she has a library card and i have one (that means we go to the library and we have movie cards they are not joint but she has one and i have one ,some pics,and joitn walmart credit card and one utility bill in my name and some in her name and some emails i sent her while i was at work,and i have couseling marriage proof because we went there when i was trying to save our marriage ,thats all i have guys but iam scared if the immigration officer see all this and deny me i dont see why he would deny me the relationship was true i did not marry for the GC i married because i love my wife and i still love her it just did not work because we disagree a lot we really do on evereything because i did not use to be like this but everything changes because my wife had a very bad and abused childhood this is why she is like this i just found out she just told me after a long time of being married but its not her fault i understand its just the f...argument we argue all the time we tried and tried to stop but it did not work so we dicided to get divorced,thats all guys iam typing and crying at the same time ,tell me if i will be denied when i provide all these evidences thanks so much .

[broma25 2]

I do wish posters would use paragraphs, its so hard on your eyes to read a total block of words. Its also much easier to answer specifics when paragraphs are used.

I wish you well!!

[JaEnglishGirl 34]

Well i think everybody knows the situation. My wife and I haven't been getting along so she filed for a divorce. I am waiting for it to be ended, but a nightmare of being denied is constantly haunting me.

This is a very hard situation that I am going through.

Sometimes I ask myself, ,what if I am denied then what ???'

I made my life here after I gave mine up back in my country.

I love people here ,I really love them so much , I made friends, I have a job, good wage with benefits, I have everything here.

I entered the marriage in a GOOD faith, but will Immigration believe me???

Will they know that I am not here just to get a GC?

I have proof of relationship, i have emails and letters and my wife used to send me money i have western union statements.

I think this is proof of a genuine relationship.

I also have lots of pics of me and my wife when she was in my home country and tickets to show she visited me 4 times.

Every time she stayed with me 3 months. I also have tickets shows we came back here together. I also have emails and some letters too.

When i first came here i had some problems i was unable to adjust my status for 7 months because I hired a lawyer and he wasted my time.

I did not have any evidence substantiating the relationship because i did not have a social security or GC or work permit so we could not get a joint bank account or other joint bills.

After 10 months I was able to adjust my status and got a CGC so we started having joint bills and bank account.

This is the evidence I got after I was issued my GC -

joint bank account

joint credit card

joint lease agreement

joint electric bill

joint car insurance

joint tax return of one year

joint savings cards

joint samsclub cards

She has a library card and i have one (that means we go to the same library) and we have movie cards they are not joint but she has one and i have one

photos

joint walmart credit card

emails i sent her while I was at work.

I also have proof of us attending marriage counselling because we were trying to save our marriage.

This is what I have, but I am scared in case the immigration officer sees all this and deny me (Idont see why he would deny me).

The relationship was genuine.

I did not marry for the GC, I got married because i love my wife and i still love her.

It just did not work because we disagree a lot about everything.

It did not used to be like this, but everything changed because my wife had a very bad and abusive childhood.

This is why she is like this.

I've just found out, she has just told me after being married a long time. I don't think it's her fault, I understand but we just argue all the time. We've tried and tried to stop arguing, but we still do so we've decided to get divorced.

I am typing and crying at the same time.

Will I be denied even when I've provide all this evidence?

Thank you.

Ok there we go

Edited May 14, 2007 by AlienUKGirl

[broma25 2]

Hey Thank you that was so kind of you to do that for the OP. I wasnt being critical its a big block is hard on the eyes

[diadromous mermaid 36]

well i think everybody knows the situation i have ,me and my wife never get a long so she filed for a divorce iam waiting for it to be ended ,but the nightmare is always haunting me of being denied ,this is a very hard situation that iam going through sometimes i ask myself,what if iam denied then what ??? i made my life here after i gave mine up back in my country ,i love people here ,i really love them so much i,i made friends,i have a job,good payment with benifits i have everything here i entered the marriage in a GOOD faith ,but will the immigration feel me ??? will they know that iam not here to get the GC,i can prove the relationship i have emails and letters and my wife used to send me money i have western union statements ,i think this is the proof of a good marriage and lots of pic me and my wife when she was there and tickets she visited me 4 time every time she stayed with me 3 months and we have airline tickets when she went there and i have tickets shows we came back here together this what i have before relationship is AIRPLANE TICKETS show she traveled there to see me and i have pics and emails and some letters and western union statements show she used to send me money,and during our marriage when i first came here i had some problems i was unable to adjust my status after 7 months because i hired a lawyer and he took my time ,well thats the past i cant go back and change it so i did not have any evidences for the relationship because i did not have a social security or GC or work permit so we could not get a joint bank account or other joint bills,10 months i adjust my status and got CGC so we started having joint bills and bank account this what i have as evidences after i got CGC,joint bank account,joint credit card,joint lease agreement ,joint electric bill,joint car insurance,joint tax return of one year,joint savings cards ,joint samsclub cards ,she has a library card and i have one (that means we go to the library and we have movie cards they are not joint but she has one and i have one ,some pics,and joitn walmart credit card and one utility bill in my name and some in her name and some emails i sent her while i was at work,and i have couseling marriage proof because we went there when i was trying to save our marriage ,thats all i have guys but iam scared if the immigration officer see all this and deny me i dont see why he would deny me the relationship was true i did not marry for the GC i married because i love my wife and i still love her it just did not work because we disagree a lot we really do on evereything because i did not use to be like this but everything changes because my wife had a very bad and abused childhood this is why she is like this i just found out she just told me after a long time of being married but its not her fault i understand its just the f...argument we argue all the time we tried and tried to stop but it did not work so we dicided to get divorced,thats all guys iam typing and crying at the same time ,tell me if i will be denied when i provide all these evidences thanks so much .

Generally, if you have been approved for a conditional green card, the process to remove conditions requires that you demonstrate that the marriage continued to be viable for the following two years, unless the alien files a waiver, due to divorce. Then, the alien has a responsibility to demonstrate that the bonafide marriage terminated, but that prior to that time, the alien and US citizen lived together and held themselves out to the public as man and wife ~ conducted their lives as a man and wife would. This, normally, would involve commingling of financial affairs, commingling of social and family lives.

If you can show joint finances and joint liabilities and assets upon receipt of the conditional green card, and if you can show that you continued to reside together until the marriage began to unravel, you should fare well.