Feel devastated,hurt,sad,mad,cheated

[Abies 1,713]

21 minutes ago, Brad35 said:

I feel so hurt that i want her to go back to her home country. I support her for years! I love her with all my heart but all she do is going outside party and hang out with guys and cheated on me!! Sorry guys i feel emotional. I  just can't believe someone like her would do something like that.

Accept your loses and move on..

 

What country is she from? 

[Brad35 4]

5 minutes ago, Abies said:

Accept your loses and move on..

 

What country is she from? 

Shes from the phillipines. I met her in dating site. Being 2years with her was amazing experience she love and care for me but after getting her greencard she totally change to whole new person she started to go outside talk to guys online locking herself in the room she dont sleep with my anymore she change her password in her phone. Just find out 1day a friend of her message me on facebook telling me my wife been cheating on me and she knows this guy shes dating behind my back

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Wrong spelling

[Abies 1,713]

1 minute ago, Brad35 said:

Shes from the phillipines. I met her in dating site 2years ago. Being 2years with her was amazing experience she love and care for me but after getting her greencard she totally change to whole new person she started to go outside talk to guys online locking herself in the room she dont sleep with my anymore she change her password in her phone. Just find out 1day a friend of her message me on facebook telling me my wife been cheating on me and she knows this guy shes dating behind my back

Smh.. I think you should call the USEM in Manila to report this issue to them so that other Americans don't go through this.

 

So sorry about this.

[Lemonslice 4,860]

12 minutes ago, Abies said:

Smh.. I think you should call the USEM in Manila to report this issue to them so that other Americans don't go through this.

 

So sorry about this.

And how would they filter out hypothetical future cheaters?

[CJKylie 161]

16 minutes ago, Abies said:

Smh.. I think you should call the USEM in Manila to report this issue to them so that other Americans don't go through this.

You’re kidding, right?

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[Michael2017 368]

50 minutes ago, Brad35 said:

I feel so hurt that i want her to go back to her home country. I support her for years! I love her with all my heart but all she do is going outside party and hang out with guys and

cheated on me!! Sorry guys i feel emotional. I  just can't believe someone like her would do something like that.

 

Sorry to hear, but she is the wrong one. Make sure you get the money back she has stolen, and a quick divorce. Lawyers cost extra $$$

so maybe you can sort it with her directly.

 

 

50 minutes ago, Brad35 said:

 

Edited August 12, 2018 by Michael2017

[felipeTAYA 18]

1 hour ago, Brad35 said:

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

No. That's proof of infidelity. Some examples of proof of fraud; sms, emails, chats "once I get that GC...I'm bouncing", "I just have to be with him until I get thee green card"

[Mrsjackson 300]

2 hours ago, Brad35 said:

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

No because it’s not necessarily fraud. She could have entered the marriage with the right intentions but decided to divorce. Divorcing your petitioner does not automatically equal fraud. 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

2 hours ago, Brad35 said:

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

all that proves is she cheated on you. USIS doesn't care about that.

 

divorce her, do not help with the 10 year greencard and make her do it on her own, mourn, and move on. 

 

you cant 'send her back'.

[Diane and Chris 651]

2 hours ago, Lemonslice said:

And how would they filter out hypothetical future cheaters?

I’m pretty sure @Abieswas being sarcastic.....

[suss6052 32]

2 hours ago, Abies said:

Smh.. I think you should call the USEM in Manila to report this issue to them so that other Americans don't go through this.

 

So sorry about this.

 

9 minutes ago, Diane and Chris said:

I’m pretty sure @Abieswas being sarcastic.....

I'd hope that they were being sarcastic because otherwise it sounds like they wanted to make life difficult for everyone else based on the op's story. 

 

One needs to be careful in matters of love and immigration but just because they grew apart after some time here doesn't mean it was a fraudulent marriage for immigration status. It sucks that the op is still financially responsible for her until she's a citizen or has paid taxes for working 40 quarters but the best advice is to divorce her and move on with your life. 

 

[Daniela M_______ 410]

3 hours ago, Brad35 said:

I feel so hurt that i want her to go back to her home country. I support her for years! I love her with all my heart but all she do is going outside party and hang out with guys and cheated on me!! Sorry guys i feel emotional. I  just can't believe someone like her would do something like that.

This was your choice to do, if the marriage doesn't work you can't blame the other people for an action you decided to take. I get your feelings but she's just not the one for you and you have to take care of your life and not turn it into a revenge situation.

 

I'm not defending her, she's obviously a bad person but maybe it was not a good relationship, I can't imagine if all marriages around the world with people from different countries were called fraud if they fail...

 

[killadocg23 88]

HOw old are you and how old is your wife?

[Unlockable 7,314]

*** Moved to “Effects to Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits***

Edited August 12, 2018 by NuestraUnion

[JFH 12,190]

You can't force someone to love you. It's quite possible that she had very good intentions when she married you. She probably did love you, or believed that she loved you. 

 

Marriages fail all the time. I don't know why people expect marriages to foreign spouses to be any different or have any more staying power than marriage to a local.  Had you been married to a girl from the same state and she cheated on you would you be accusing her of fraud?