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Another girl from Philippines pretended to love someone and totally changed after receiving a Greencard. Why am I not surprised? Now tell me it's not about the country. I've  never heard that much  ab

Crazy Cat
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Don't let her control your happiness.......divorce her and move on with YOUR life.

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Hi. I need some advice. My wife runaway took my money without my permission  and move out with her new boyfriend l after She receiving her 10years greencard what should i do? I want to report  her to uscis!!!! I dont know what to do. 

In regards to the green card: Nothing you can do unless you can prove she entered into the marriage fraudulently.

 

Go see a divorce attorney.

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ROC Timeline

Service Center: California

90 Day Window Opened.....08/03/17

I-751 Packet Sent................08/04/17

NOA Dated...........................08/07/17

NOA Received......................08/09/17

Check Cashed......................08/09/17

Biometrics Letter Rcvd........08/26/17

Biometrics Appointment......09/07/17

Approval................................08/05/19

 

Naturalization Timeline

Field Office: Santa Ana, CA

90 Day Window Opened.......08/03/18

N-400 Filed (Online)..............08/03/18

Receipt Notice.......................08/03/18

Biometrics Letter Rcvd..........08/20/18

Biometrics Appointment.......09/07/18

Interview Letter Dated...........07/01/19

Interview Letter Rcvd............07/08/19

Interview................................08/05/19

Approval................................08/05/19

Oath.......................................08/22/19

 

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You can divorce her and move on. 

 

There is nothing you can do about the Greencard. USCIS does not help with marriage issues.

AOS, ROC, N-400, & PASSPORT, FOR HUSBAND TO USC

[02/23, 2012]  - DAY 001  (day 0001) (AOS) Mailed package to Chicago Lockbox via USPS overnight
[06/01, 2012]  - DAY 099  (day 0099) 2-year Conditional GC in hand
[05/05, 2014]  - DAY 001  (day 0802) (ROC) Mailed package to Vermont Service Center via USPS overnight

[05/14, 2014]  - DAY 009  (day 0811) Received NOA1 (GC Extended for 1 year)

[01/14, 2016]  - DAY 620  (day 1421) 10-year GC in hand

[02/22, 2017]  - DAY 001  (day 1826) (N-400) Mailed package to Lewisville, TX, via USPS overnight

[01/10, 2018]  - DAY 323  (day 2149) (N-400) Naturalization Oath Ceremony (5 years, 10 months, 19 days)

[01/10, 2018]  - DAY 001  (day 2149) (US Passport) Applied for US Passport, regular processing

01/25, 2018]  - DAY 015  (day 2164) (US Passport) Passport in hand (5 years, 11 months, 3 days from start of Journey.)

 

AOS, N-400, & PASSPORT FOR DAUGHTER [OF HUSBAND TO USC]

[06/14, 2013] - DAY 001 Mailed package to Chicago Lockbox via USPS overnight
[11/21, 2013] - Day 153 SSN and 10-year GC in hand

09/01, 2021]  - (day 3001) (US Passport) Passport in hand (8 years, 2 months, 18 days from start of Journey.)

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Get a divorce and move on. Nothing you can do about her greencard. Maybe this will be a lesson learned kind of thing. 

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2 minutes ago, CJKylie said:

In regards to the green card: Nothing you can do unless you can prove she entered into the marriage fraudulently.

 

Go see a divorce attorney.

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

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Sorry to hear!!!! USCIS wont help in anyway with marriage issues...divorce Attorney and move forward

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Met June 2011

Baby 1 dob      Jan 28, 2013

Baby 2 dob     March 15, 2014

Baby 3 dob     May 11, 2018

Got married February 5, 2014:

USCIS: February 1, 2014:

Sent I-130: February 17, 2014:

NOA1 to NVC August 18, 2014:

Case Complete NVC March 17, 2015

Letter and instructions from NVC for INTERVIEW March 27, 2015

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Medical Exam May 26, 2015

Bio-metrics Appt. May 27, 2015 -

INTERVIEW DAY May 28, 2015 - APPROVED!!!!!!!!

VISA RECEIVED: June 4, 2015

Point of Entry: JULY 14, 2015

SS Card Received: JULY 22, 2015

Green Card Received: AUGUST 27, 2015

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LIFTING CONDITIONS

Date Filed: April 15, 2017

Bio Appt:    June 1, 2017

I551 Stamp: YES - November 17, 2017

NOA:   Feb 16, 2018

Approved: Aug 2, 2018

10yr GC rec'd: AUG 9, 2018

 

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About the greencard, there is nothing you can do really. Unless u can prove she didn’t enter the marriage with good faith....but that‘s almost impossible...

 but if I were you, I‘d just take care of myself.

As hard as it is...go see a divorce attorney and try to move on! 

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I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

Cheating isn’t fraud.

As others have suggested, get divorced and get on with your life.

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ROC Timeline

Service Center: California

90 Day Window Opened.....08/03/17

I-751 Packet Sent................08/04/17

NOA Dated...........................08/07/17

NOA Received......................08/09/17

Check Cashed......................08/09/17

Biometrics Letter Rcvd........08/26/17

Biometrics Appointment......09/07/17

Approval................................08/05/19

 

Naturalization Timeline

Field Office: Santa Ana, CA

90 Day Window Opened.......08/03/18

N-400 Filed (Online)..............08/03/18

Receipt Notice.......................08/03/18

Biometrics Letter Rcvd..........08/20/18

Biometrics Appointment.......09/07/18

Interview Letter Dated...........07/01/19

Interview Letter Rcvd............07/08/19

Interview................................08/05/19

Approval................................08/05/19

Oath.......................................08/22/19

 

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3 minutes ago, Brad35 said:

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

No. It's a proof of marriage going wrong and it happens. 

 

Fraud would be if you'd have proof your spouse married you under false pretense and to gain immigration benefits. 

 

Just divorce. 

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29.11.2013 - NoA1

06.02.2014 - NoA2

01.04.2014 - Interview. 

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03.2015 - AoS started.

09.2015 - Green Card received.  

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4 minutes ago, Brad35 said:

I have proof i took screenshot of her talking to guys online and I have proof that she have pictures taken with other guys hugging and kissing. Would that be enough proof of fraud? 

„just“ because she cheated it doesn‘t mean it‘s fraud automatically!

it just shows that she cheated on you for whatever reason...

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It's awful what she's done, but unfortunately there's nothing you can do about it via immigration without solid proof.  As others have said look up a divorce attorney and cut ties asap.

I'm sorry to hear you've had to go through this.

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I feel so hurt that i want her to go back to her home country. I support her for years! I love her with all my heart but all she do is going outside party and hang out with guys and cheated on me!! Sorry guys i feel emotional. I  just can't believe someone like her would do something like that.

I know it is hurt. But you can't do anything for her to go back to her country. Like others said, you need to see a divorce attorney and move on. It doesn't matter if you love her with all your heart. If someone want to cheat on her/his partner, they will still cheat. No matter how much their partner love them or no matter how nice their partner is. Learn from it and move on.

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DISCLAIMER: I'm not working with USCIS/NVC and never work with them. All my comment based on my own experience and what I read. 

 

"When you have a fight with your partner, remember that it is not you against your partner but it is both of you against the problem" :) 

 

 
I-129F Sent : 2017-05-12

I-129F NOA1 :

I-129F NOA2:

2017-06-17

2017-11-29 (Date on hard copy) / 2017-11-30 (Date USCIS Website/Online Tracker App)

NVC Received Date:                 2018-01-16

NVC Case No. assigned:         2018-01-16

NVC Left:                                    2018-01-20

Consulate Received:                2018-01-22

Packet 3 Received:                   2018-01-27

Packet 3 Sent:                           2018-01-27

Interview Date:                          2018-03-08

Visa Received:                          2018-03-13

US Entry:                                    2018-03-19

SSN Application:                      2018-04-03

SSN Received:                          2018-05-02

Marriage:                                   2018-05-05

Marriage Certificate

Received:                                   2018-05-15

Change name in SSN:             2018-06-04

AOS, AP & EAD submitted:    2018-07-06

NOA 1 (email):                          2018-07-10

NOA 1 (mail):                            2018-07-16

Biometric app:                          2018-08-09

EAD & AP Received:                2018-xx-xx

AOS Interview:                          2018-09-24 
Approval/Denied:                      Approved 

Green Card Received:             2018-09-29

 

 

 

 

 

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I feel so hurt that i want her to go back to her home country. I support her for years! I love her with all my heart but all she do is going outside party and hang out with guys and cheated on me!! Sorry guys i feel emotional. I  just can't believe someone like her would do something like that.

Don't let her control your happiness.......divorce her and move on with YOUR life.

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In summary, it took 13 months for approval of the CR-1.  It took 44 months for approval of the I-751.  It took 4 months for approval of the N-400.   It took 172 days from N-400 application to Oath Ceremony.   It took 6 weeks for Passport, then 7 additional weeks for return of wife's Naturalization Certificate.. 
 

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