Illegitimates denied us. Anyone successfully filed the appeal and won? [edited title]

[CadeMcNown 39]

As someone currently going through this long, difficult process, I can't imagine how horrible this would be. I feel for you .

[VanDerFran 10]

9 hours ago, Hank_ said:

I agree that there has to be something else to the situation.   Everything they described seems ideal for an approval.. yet they were denied.

Age gap isn't it.   Largest age gap I seen come through was 37 years.. they were approved.

"Largest age gap I seen come through was 37 years.. they were approved." 

"they?", approval is not made by a team.... and yes one office may not like the idea of big age gap as the other may not like the idea of different religion.

[Cyberbro 4]

Maybe it was my other two wives I'm still married with and the dead body's I keep in the basement or that my fiancé is a chaterbate star that has done human trafficking in her spare time lol 

Kind of funny the conspires theories, I kind of wish their was something so then I would deep down get why.

 

This was the perfect sinaro that they had no reason to deny we just got a on a bad day and thats the process.

Anyone ever been to the DMV in the US and were treated unfairly or rudely, of course you have, what did you do wrong?

did you steal from your teacher in the 3rd grade? they don't need a reason they are marginal workers with a little power over you that day.

 

She is 22 and I'm 48, so? that not a requirement, to be closer in age.

She was never married and has no kids, she has a job in a law office doing IT. I had her stay working so it would show thats she is not a scammer and supports her family because she does that ( and she has 2 older brothers and parents that she is the main support and a young age she started that).

They didn't even listen to our story and show her respect to pay attention. This fat pregnant sat with a coffee in one hand looking away and kept cutting her off when she was trying to talk about love and caring.( you know those the real visa requirements)

 

It's so ### backwards, they should have a review of 3 people if the CO wants to reject, this is years ago peoples lives and a lot of money to just dismiss it like it was a ###### learners permit at the DMV.

 

I was marred and divorced with an other K1 visa relationship from the Dominican republic we got divorced, it happens we are still friendly and life goes on but no rule or condition was not met or exceeded on this case. it was 100% by the book and we got reject for no good reason.

 

 

[Lemonslice 4,859]

1 hour ago, Cyberbro said:

Maybe it was my other two wives I'm still married with and the dead body's I keep in the basement or that my fiancé is a chaterbate star that has done human trafficking in her spare time lol 

Kind of funny the conspires theories, I kind of wish their was something so then I would deep down get why.

 

This was the perfect sinaro that they had no reason to deny we just got a on a bad day and thats the process.

Anyone ever been to the DMV in the US and were treated unfairly or rudely, of course you have, what did you do wrong?

did you steal from your teacher in the 3rd grade? they don't need a reason they are marginal workers with a little power over you that day.

 

She is 22 and I'm 48, so? that not a requirement, to be closer in age.

She was never married and has no kids, she has a job in a law office doing IT. I had her stay working so it would show thats she is not a scammer and supports her family because she does that ( and she has 2 older brothers and parents that she is the main support and a young age she started that).

They didn't even listen to our story and show her respect to pay attention. This fat pregnant sat with a coffee in one hand looking away and kept cutting her off when she was trying to talk about love and caring.( you know those the real visa requirements)

 

It's so ### backwards, they should have a review of 3 people if the CO wants to reject, this is years ago peoples lives and a lot of money to just dismiss it like it was a ###### learners permit at the DMV.

 

I was marred and divorced with an other K1 visa relationship from the Dominican republic we got divorced, it happens we are still friendly and life goes on but no rule or condition was not met or exceeded on this case. it was 100% by the book and we got reject for no good reason.

 

 

Love and caring are not visa requirements. 

 

The officer might have wondered about how much do you really know you fiancée - with so little facetime, they might have found something in the background check that you don't know.  Next time, I suggest you be present at her interview to show your support and that this relationship is important to you.  

[TBoneTX 45,328]

The thread's title has been edited to conform more closely with VJ's policy of using family-friendly language.

[Hank_ 9,174]

7 hours ago, VanDerFran said:

"Largest age gap I seen come through was 37 years.. they were approved." 

"they?", approval is not made by a team.... and yes one office may not like the idea of big age gap as the other may not like the idea of different religion.

Yes ... "they" = petitioner & beneficiary..     

[dynb 17]

13 hours ago, CadeMcNown said:

As someone currently going through this long, difficult process, I can't imagine how horrible this would be. I feel for you .

Sounds like having the petitioner present during the interview helps a lot, especially if the one being petitioned is the nervous type.

[Chris Duffy 1,257]

13 hours ago, Cyberbro said:

Maybe it was my other two wives I'm still married with and the dead body's I keep in the basement or that my fiancé is a chaterbate star that has done human trafficking in her spare time lol 

Kind of funny the conspires theories, I kind of wish their was something so then I would deep down get why.

 

This was the perfect sinaro that they had no reason to deny we just got a on a bad day and thats the process.

Anyone ever been to the DMV in the US and were treated unfairly or rudely, of course you have, what did you do wrong?

did you steal from your teacher in the 3rd grade? they don't need a reason they are marginal workers with a little power over you that day.

 

She is 22 and I'm 48, so? that not a requirement, to be closer in age.

She was never married and has no kids, she has a job in a law office doing IT. I had her stay working so it would show thats she is not a scammer and supports her family because she does that ( and she has 2 older brothers and parents that she is the main support and a young age she started that).

They didn't even listen to our story and show her respect to pay attention. This fat pregnant sat with a coffee in one hand looking away and kept cutting her off when she was trying to talk about love and caring.( you know those the real visa requirements)

 

It's so ### backwards, they should have a review of 3 people if the CO wants to reject, this is years ago peoples lives and a lot of money to just dismiss it like it was a ###### learners permit at the DMV.

 

I was marred and divorced with an other K1 visa relationship from the Dominican republic we got divorced, it happens we are still friendly and life goes on but no rule or condition was not met or exceeded on this case. it was 100% by the book and we got reject for no good reason.

 

 

When I did my last K1 interview in Manila, I saw a particular female CO who appeared to be a (removed). I was thinking to myself I hope I don't get her as my CO.

 

I am pretty good reading people and she appeared to be trouble, and with my past history she might try to make an issue.

 

Thankfully I got a male CO and it was only a few questions and nothing about my past K1's.

 

Get married and file again, or do like some guys do.  They get married in Philippines and make a few trips a year to visit their wife

 

 

Edited August 10, 2018 by Ontarkie
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[Hank_ 9,174]

Ya there was one like that when we went through as well, she was at the window next to the one we were called to ... nasty, yelling .. I think she got off on denying visas.  Whereas the guy that interviewed my wife was friendly, chatted with both of us, and was very quick to switch to Tagalog if my wife hesitated with answering a question .. which totally caught her off guard when he did that.  

 

I also think the Filipino pre-screener plays a big part in the process..  

[Lucky_Mimi 87]

1 hour ago, Hank_ said:

Ya there was one like that when we went through as well, she was at the window next to the one we were called to ... nasty, yelling .. I think she got off on denying visas.  Whereas the guy that interviewed my wife was friendly, chatted with both of us, and was very quick to switch to Tagalog if my wife hesitated with answering a question .. which totally caught her off guard when he did that.  

 

I also think the Filipino pre-screener plays a big part in the process..  

Scarrry!! Does that mean the k1 visa approval relies on the hand of the CO we'll be assigned to? Are the interviewees randomly called? Whew 😲

[Hank_ 9,174]

8 minutes ago, Filipina_2018 said:

Scarrry!! Does that mean the k1 visa approval relies on the hand of the CO we'll be assigned to? Are the interviewees randomly called? Whew 😲

Of course .. that is the job of the CO - interview the applicant, make a decision.    The case file is reviewed again after the interview - which is when everyone experiences AP for a time.   But the CO for the interview is the almighty OZ..

 

 

The interview is 3-5 minutes long, which is why I also believe the pre-screen'er plays an important part in the process.

Edited August 10, 2018 by Hank_

[Tokenfreak 223]

After reading these posts in this topic I am getting worried now. What if we get a bad CO that just wants to deny us?  I am planning on being at the interview with my fiancee' so I hope that helps our chances as we would be devastated if we were denied.

[Jaquelly 1,647]

18 minutes ago, Tokenfreak said:

After reading these posts in this topic I am getting worried now. What if we get a bad CO that just wants to deny us?  I am planning on being at the interview with my fiancee' so I hope that helps our chances as we would be devastated if we were denied.

 

You could drive yourself absolutely sick if you let yourself think that way. The only thing that you can do is go in prepared and hope for the best. If you worry that you'll have a bad experience, you'll psych yourself out.

[Tokenfreak 223]

3 minutes ago, Jaquelly said:

 

You could drive yourself absolutely sick if you let yourself think that way. The only thing that you can do is go in prepared and hope for the best. If you worry that you'll have a bad experience, you'll psych yourself out.

Yeah you are right I just need to clam down, pray and hope for the best.  Its all I can do I suppose.

[Jaquelly 1,647]

6 minutes ago, Tokenfreak said:

Yeah you are right I just need to clam down, pray and hope for the best.  Its all I can do I suppose.

It really is. Don't forget, you are not alone. So many of us have gone through it. We know that pain, frustration, fear and hope. I hope that, for all of you, you get good news soon.