K1 beneficiary : Nervous Mom ..PLS HELP

[Yanajill 2]

My son was a K2 beneficiary when my fiance/now husband petitioned us, during the interview they didn't asked anything about my son although I prepared a notarized letter, signed by his biological father that he is authorizing me to bring our son to USA under K2 visa. 

I'm from Philippines our law says that if the child is below 7 yrs old , the mother has the full custody. 

 

 

[Knome 245]

Just now, Yanajill said:

My son was a K2 beneficiary when my fiance/now husband petitioned us, during the interview they didn't asked anything about my son although I prepared a notarized letter, signed by his biological father that he is authorizing me to bring our son to USA under K2 visa. 

I'm from Philippines our law says that if the child is below 7 yrs old , the mother has the full custody. 

 

 

thanks a lot ...that gave me some hope...what about when you entered USA ..did they asked anything that time ???

[Crazy Cat 42,035]

1 minute ago, Knome said:

thanks a lot ...that gave me some hope...what about when you entered USA ..did they asked anything that time ???

I thought you said the father will not give permission for the daughter to live in the US.......THAT IS THE ISSUE! 

[Yanajill 2]

They didn't asked anything too.

Is ur child has passport already?

 

They just checked the passport and visa.

[Crazy Cat 42,035]

Bringing a child into the US without FULL authority to do so will result in extremely severe penalties......I wouldn't try it without either an authenticated permission letter from the father or a valid court order authorizing it......failure to do this properly will result in catastrophic results, imo.

[Unidentified 2,930]

As a woman, I am appalled by other women's total lack of respect for the person who helped you be able to actually be a mother.  

[Yanajill 2]

16 minutes ago, Knome said:

thanks a lot ...that gave me some hope...what about when you entered USA ..did they asked anything that time ???

They never asked anything when we enter, except the passport and checked the visas

 

Is your child has passport already? 

 

[Roel 7,193]

So let's assume you will manage to enter the US with the child.. 

 

And then the father will raise hell, contact the police, immigration, etc and notify them that you kidnap the child abroad without his permission. Really want to risk that? 

 

Imagine if the situation would be reverse - how would you feel if your ex would suddenly just take away your kid to some other country where you can't even go? Pretty bad huh? 

[Yanajill 2]

Just sharing bout my experience, but as what I had said I had a notarized letter from his biological dad authorizing me to bring him. 

 

Still best for u to do is having a notarized consent from his father to avoid any future problem.

 

I would agree Roel's statement, he is right. 

Edited July 29, 2018 by Yanajill

[Crazy Cat 42,035]

3 minutes ago, Roel said:

So let's assume you will manage to enter the US with the child.. 

 

And then the father will raise hell, contact the police, immigration, etc and notify them that you kidnap the child abroad without his permission. Really want to risk that? 

 

Imagine if the situation would be reverse - how would you feel if your ex would suddenly just take away your kid to some other country where you can't even go? Pretty bad huh? 

In mind, the OP is playing with fire if she even tries to do this without the full authority of the father and/or the law.

[JayHouser 209]

Everyone is quick to judge in this thread despite not knowing what kind of father this person is or the family situation.. So her choices are not get married and raise her kid in India or leave her kid behind? Have some perspective.

[Crazy Cat 42,035]

1 minute ago, JayHouser said:

Everyone is quick to judge in this thread despite not knowing what kind of father this person is or the family situation.. So her choices are not get married and raise her kid in India or leave her kid behind? Have some perspective.

You can not bring a child into the US without proper legal authority........regardless of "what kind of father this is".......this thread concerns a LEGAL question, nothing else.

[Bob & Karla 162]

Hi.. I had the same issue with the father my second child. He doesn't want I take my kid with me when I move to USA and I asked for a lawyer and I got a Judge permission for that, and for everything , full custody over my 4 years-old kid. I have my document  with Apostille of Hague for international use so I won't have any problem in any airport around the world and for get any documentation like visa, ID, passport for my son neither and the father can not report you for kidnapping her because you have the judge's order.  So, my suggestion is you need make sure how the laws in your country works regarding this subject and looking for help. That is a problem you need to solve in your country before you move to USA. Success!!

Edited July 29, 2018 by Bob & Karla

[Knome 245]

51 minutes ago, Yanajill said:

They didn't asked anything too.

Is ur child has passport already?

 

They just checked the passport and visa.

Yes its ready n with me

[Knome 245]

I am really thankful to all the ppl out here for sharing thr views ...i know its not right to do anything illegal thats why i tried to explain it all to her father before hand...i know if i will go to court i will win this argument...bt i really wanted to avoid all the drama n complexities it will bring and and also its going to affect my daughter...and idk how long time it will b taking ...here judiciary system is not that fast enough...thts why i was trying to find out other options...i really dnt hav any evil intentions in my head and i really was willing to send my daughter to him in evry vacation if he has given agreement...as a mother i hav left with no other options and i cant leave my daughter behind...n like he has already started his new life by getting married...i want to start my life again to...i m feeling dissappointed ...i will go and fight in court..all i can do now