Tourist visa from friend in pakistan

[EmmNM 179]

6 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Please think this through before making any rush decisions.   

 

1.  If he is Muslim (which I assume he is) - his family would not be ok with him hanging out with a female he is not married to.   Let alone one who is already married.  

2.  Divorcing your husband first would be the best option before bringing someone from another country.  Just not worth it.

3.  If you are not from his culture RESEARCH it well!  There are a lot of adjustments that have to be made to make a relationship like this work.  Please make sure you are up for it before you dive too deep.  Not all American woman can handle it and not all Pakistani men can handle an American lots understanding of each other has to be made.

 

Don't be scared by all the horror stories but be ever so educated and get to know this man before you go to far.

 

 

Exactly! I cannot think of one respectable Muslim family ok with their son hanging out alone with a married woman.

Edited July 24, 2018 by EmmNM

[SalishSea 17,936]

OP, someone asked earlier, but I'm not sure if you missed it.......did your husband originally petition you?

[Elizabeth8934 0]

26 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

It is rather difficult for a Pakistani to get a visit Visa to USA invitation letter will be no help.   Best bet might be for you both to vacation in Dubai.  

Thats what he said

[WeGuyGal 1,052]

27 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

It is rather difficult for a Pakistani to get a visit Visa to USA invitation letter will be no help.   Best bet might be for you both to vacation in Dubai.  

Wouldn't the hubby be suspicious of his wife's solo Dubai jaunt? 

 

From what I understand, OP wants to hide the mystery man from current hubby. 

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

2 minutes ago, WeGuyGal said:

Wouldn't the hubby be suspicious of his wife's solo Dubai jaunt? 

 

From what I understand, OP wants to hide the mystery man from current hubby. 

See my response before this one.   

 

I would think so...lol  I recommend after divorce.

Edited July 24, 2018 by Ahmed&Freda

[WeGuyGal 1,052]

4 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

See my response before this one.   

 

I would think so...lol  I recommend after divorce.

Ok yes.. after any divorce

[az2014 381]

So much wrong about this whole scenario.

 

He doesnt need a tourist visa, you go visit him instead.

 

I certainly hope he never gets a tourist visa as its clear he would never return. To be honest I wouldnt blame him eww Pakistan.

[Ben&Zian 4,398]

Uh oh....

[SusieQQQ 11,586]

1 hour ago, Elizabeth8934 said:

Hes has a good income

Then he shouldn’t be worried about the cost of a tourist visa. It’s not expensive to someone with a good income.

[David & Diana R 1,005]

7 hours ago, Mollie09 said:

This won't work out because the odds of him getting a tourist visa (which he needs, there is no replacement for it - no letter from you can help) are so so low.

He said he needs a letter from you because it will "cost less"? Sounds like a scam to me.

Did your husband petition you?

This "lawyer" is a scammer.  He probably sin't even a lawyer because if he was he would know not be saying her providing a letter to him would be cheaper.  I bet 100 bucks she is going to pay for the tourist visa.  You are being scammed...no doubt.  Run and run fast!

[Amadia 711]

9 hours ago, Elizabeth8934 said:

The question is will my spouse know?

NOBODY can answer this question for you.

[Mosisclassified 14]

1 hour ago, David & Zoila said:

This "lawyer" is a scammer.  He probably sin't even a lawyer because if he was he would know not be saying her providing a letter to him would be cheaper.  I bet 100 bucks she is going to pay for the tourist visa.  You are being scammed...no doubt.  Run and run fast!

It kind of makes you wonder if this lawyer previously worked for the IRS and Microsoft tech support making phone calls to sell services and collect money.

 

Op, good luck to you, take the advice given here. Something does not sound right here

 

[Sunnyland 639]

I want to believe this is a troll. I mean, who acts this way?! She has a husband but also wants to bring a a complete stranger "friend" from a high fraud country to see if they hit it off. All of this while the husband does not know about it of course to not to jeopardize her marriage.  This shows a very contradictory behavior. OP,  you have to choose. You can not have your cake and eat it.  And be aware this new person is likely an scammer. 

[Lazybones18 261]

Hi OP I was born in Pakistan and moved to USA 15 years ago. I visit back home almost every year. Some information for you: 

 

1) there is a misconception in Pakistan that a invitation letter is needed from a USC or resident to get a tourist visa to america. When I go back I hear a lot of people say this. You should educate him with the tourist visa process. He is misinformed

 

2) a lot of people from Pakistan are getting visit visas issued now a days in Islamabad. I have 5 friends visit me in the last 3 years from Pakistan. It is not a big deal anymore as long as u have a solid application. 

 

To answer your question. Educate the guy about the visit visa process and have him send a solid application. No invitation letter needed 

 

no comments on the marriage situation 

 

good luck 

[mcdull 474]

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