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6 hours ago, VickeySis said:

Where do you fly in then to the states. Was going to have my fiancé land in Chicago, but he lives in Abu Dhabi  for 4 years and is very familiar with AD airport so would love to go there and I am familiar with Chicago hahahahaHahahaha

I live in Chicago area

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7 hours ago, Tarakazmi10001 said:

Hey guys 

 

is anyone there who had case completed on 13th September? And received interview letter or email for his/her spouse already?

 (Islamabad, Pakistan )

My cc is 20th september from pakistan still waiting for interview letter 

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Got response from NVC , they rejected my Birth , Marriage certificate and Passport , and ask me to resend in Vertical position , i sent them ( this time in Vertical in PDF format ) yesterday , now i am waiting for those documents to be accepted .. I dont know how long it will take . any idea ?

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hey guys, after reading some Posts regarding age difference , it makes me worried about my own case ..

my wife is Caucasian , 21 years old .. and i am 27 ... this is our first marriage . i hope this is not a huge difference ? 

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17 minutes ago, umerdec08 said:

hey guys, after reading some Posts regarding age difference , it makes me worried about my own case ..

my wife is Caucasian , 21 years old .. and i am 27 ... this is our first marriage . i hope this is not a huge difference ? 

Why are you concerned??  Not much age difference and the husband is older which is a Pakistani norm.   

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27 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Why are you concerned??  Not much age difference and the husband is older which is a Pakistani norm.   

well reading a lot of age different post it does confuses me , but i do know that our age difference is good with husband been around 6-7 years old than wife .

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10 minutes ago, umerdec08 said:

well reading a lot of age different post it does confuses me , but i do know that our age difference is good with husband been around 6-7 years old than wife .

Age difference won't be a problem.  Are you same religion?  Have you had enough face time?  

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2 hours ago, umerdec08 said:

well reading a lot of age different post it does confuses me , but i do know that our age difference is good with husband been around 6-7 years old than wife .

This makes me laugh. I am 41(female white US citizen) and my fiancé is 27 Pakistani male. The CO who interviewed my fiancé never once asked him if he was concerned about our age difference nor was she alarmed by it. Age is just a number and when it’s a real relationship and you can see and hear the love the person as for the other these “differences” won’t matter at all! 

 

Good luck to you. May Allah SWT help you worry less 

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5 hours ago, umerdec08 said:

Got response from NVC , they rejected my Birth , Marriage certificate and Passport , and ask me to resend in Vertical position , i sent them ( this time in Vertical in PDF format ) yesterday , now i am waiting for those documents to be accepted .. I dont know how long it will take . any idea ?

I submitted mine on 13-Sept-18 and resubmitted passport on 19-Sept-18 after that receive notification on 02-Oct-18 case status shows at NVC but still not received CC notification. So you can get the idea from the above dates.

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6 hours ago, VickeySis said:

This makes me laugh. I am 41(female white US citizen) and my fiancé is 27 Pakistani male. The CO who interviewed my fiancé never once asked him if he was concerned about our age difference nor was she alarmed by it. Age is just a number and when it’s a real relationship and you can see and hear the love the person as for the other these “differences” won’t matter at all! 

 

Good luck to you. May Allah SWT help you worry less 

Completely not true!

 

  Its very rare that a k-1 visa with that age difference is approved on the first try in Pakistan.  Many are mocked and placed in AP or returned for not enough evidence of bonafide relationship.   It depends on what evidence you had to overcome the age difference coupled with the CO you had conduct the interview AND if there was anything that alarmed them.  

 

My husbands case was returned because his ex wife did not update her CNIC card.   They saw that and then had no interest in anything else.  The fact that I'm with my husband every 5 to 6 months...the many communication detail provided was overlooked.  They didn't care about the genuine care of each other the future hopes and dreams mentioned many times in chats.  They were completely blind sided by his prior marriage.

 

Its true that you can't worry about it only Allah knows the outcome...but don't give false hope that the differences won't matter because they very well could.  Or they can walk out with an approval with no problem.   Hope for the best and prepare for the worse.

 

 

 

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52 minutes ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Completely not true!

 

  Its very rare that a k-1 visa with that age difference is approved on the first try in Pakistan.  Many are mocked and placed in AP or returned for not enough evidence of bonafide relationship.   It depends on what evidence you had to overcome the age difference coupled with the CO you had conduct the interview AND if there was anything that alarmed them.  

 

My husbands case was returned because his ex wife did not update her CNIC card.   They saw that and then had no interest in anything else.  The fact that I'm with my husband every 5 to 6 months...the many communication detail provided was overlooked.  They didn't care about the genuine care of each other the future hopes and dreams mentioned many times in chats.  They were completely blind sided by his prior marriage.

 

Its true that you can't worry about it only Allah knows the outcome...but don't give false hope that the differences won't matter because they very well could.  Or they can walk out with an approval with no problem.   Hope for the best and prepare for the worse.

 

 

 

Well said 110 % true 

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3 hours ago, Ahmed&Freda said:

Completely not true!

 

  Its very rare that a k-1 visa with that age difference is approved on the first try in Pakistan.  Many are mocked and placed in AP or returned for not enough evidence of bonafide relationship.   It depends on what evidence you had to overcome the age difference coupled with the CO you had conduct the interview AND if there was anything that alarmed them.  

 

My husbands case was returned because his ex wife did not update her CNIC card.   They saw that and then had no interest in anything else.  The fact that I'm with my husband every 5 to 6 months...the many communication detail provided was overlooked.  They didn't care about the genuine care of each other the future hopes and dreams mentioned many times in chats.  They were completely blind sided by his prior marriage.

 

Its true that you can't worry about it only Allah knows the outcome...but don't give false hope that the differences won't matter because they very well could.  Or they can walk out with an approval with no problem.   Hope for the best and prepare for the worse.

 

 

 

Wow! Ok wasn’t trying to give false hope to anyone or to make people think they didn’t have to worry. I was previously married and actually went thru the CR1 process back in 2003, in a different country than Pakistan it was also a Muslim country and my experience with that was completely different than this one so I do understand the worry and anxiety and fear that this entire process causes. 

 

What i I was trying to convey and apparently my words were not clear, is that get your stuff in order, anything and everything, every little detail even what you think (for instance your husbands ex wife’s card not being updated that they were no longer married, that is a red flag) I guess my prior experience helped me to not be so worried as the first time. 

 

Good luck to all may aklah SWT join us with our loved ones soon AMEENSUMAMEEN 

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