Advise needed to relieve stress!

[Cati23 5]

ITS LOng to read and My English is not good but your time is appreciated,,,,,,,,Hi , am 23 year old immigrant ,  Am a conditional residence ( have conditional green card through my husband) we recently got into an argument and somehow he bite himself and called police on me and said i beat him ..police came didn’t listen to me as i was crying and my accent came out so they couldn’t understand what i was explaining i guess, They talked to my husband and then just handcuffed me and got me arrested because my husband had acut on his lip it looked like i beat him which Honestly i don’t fight cause am naturally weak ,, am a conditional resident and all am an immigrant who knows well that any crime could lead me to deportation,,, so Apparently my husband dropped the charges and I didn’t get to see  a Judge..so the case was Closed ,, he has put his hands on me way back for asking him to stop smoking weed as I don’t do any drugs or alcohol,, I didn’t call police cause i was always scared of him ,, am stressed i have a criminal record on something I didn’t do ,, he’s alli have as I don’t have family here ,, i never told his parents about the fact that he hit me ,, cause his parents are divorced and the dad is married to achinese woman ( who wanted my husband to marry her cousin so he can bring her here from China) and my husband ended up marrying me ,, in that case the His step mother and my father in law technically don’t like me ,, i. Only run to afreind for my problems 😭😭 i still stay with my husband things seem to be ok , he apologises everyday for putting me through this but tbh am stressed about what’s going to happen next year when it’s time to file for REMOVAL Of CONDITIONS on my green card will i be denied , or deported ?? Am so Scared as i feel like i have failed my self in life 🤦🏾‍♂️😭 please advise me should I leave and don’t file or should i go ahead i will get my Green card with no problems,,, I would rather leave the country voluntarily than deportation,,, any advise will be highly appreciated,,,, as I cannot deal with the depression anymore ,, i want go to school but am scared of wasting my money and don’t get anything at the end ,,,, also if I expunge the case will that be helpful at all?? The arrested me for Simple battery ( simple domestic violence which is the most scenario on which deportation could occur,, thanks good people advise me please 🙏🏾

[kris&me 572]

CALL 24/7/365

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

no woman or man should live in fear 

try this nuber for help

others here may have a more local number for u if u let us know the city and/or state u r in

also you can call 911 / police and ask for help

he can not have u deported 

if u end up divorced u would have to wait 5 years for citzenship instead of 3 

dont be afraid to report him and get out for your own safety / there r women shelters for abused women

[Cati23 5]

2 minutes ago, kris&me said:

CALL 24/7/365

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

no woman or man should live in fear 

try this nuber for help

others here may have a more local number for u if u let us know the city and/or state u r in

also you can call 911 / police and ask for help

he can not have u deported 

if u end up divorced u would have to wait 5 years for citzenship instead of 3 

dont be afraid to report him and get out for your own safety / there r women shelters for abused women

After reading this my tears just dropped Am going to call the number thanks!

[mymercy 85]

Just like @kris&me said above, no one deserves to remain in an abusive relationship.

call the number or google your local number for women protection against abuse organizations. Get the case reported and documented while you get out of the relationship.

 

As for your removal of condition on your GC, you ain’t getting deported for that. So many cases here have been approved without filing jointly with their spouse as much as it has to do with abuse and you have it documented, you just put all those evidences of report together and file earlier before the 90 days window (I think 6 months earlier or so ... not too sure about this but you can check it out).

 

pls don’t live in fear or depression and hurt yourself in the process ... you’d probably want to divorce him if it’s not working out. You can remove yours condition on GC without your spouse 

[Jameson78 32]

On 7/15/2018 at 6:33 PM, Cati23 said:

ITS LOng to read and My English is not good but your time is appreciated,,,,,,,,Hi , am 23 year old immigrant ,  Am a conditional residence ( have conditional green card through my husband) we recently got into an argument and somehow he bite himself and called police on me and said i beat him ..police came didn’t listen to me as i was crying and my accent came out so they couldn’t understand what i was explaining i guess, They talked to my husband and then just handcuffed me and got me arrested because my husband had acut on his lip it looked like i beat him which Honestly i don’t fight cause am naturally weak ,, am a conditional resident and all am an immigrant who knows well that any crime could lead me to deportation,,, so Apparently my husband dropped the charges and I didn’t get to see  a Judge..so the case was Closed ,, he has put his hands on me way back for asking him to stop smoking weed as I don’t do any drugs or alcohol,, I didn’t call police cause i was always scared of him ,, am stressed i have a criminal record on something I didn’t do ,, he’s alli have as I don’t have family here ,, i never told his parents about the fact that he hit me ,, cause his parents are divorced and the dad is married to achinese woman ( who wanted my husband to marry her cousin so he can bring her here from China) and my husband ended up marrying me ,, in that case the His step mother and my father in law technically don’t like me ,, i. Only run to afreind for my problems 😭😭 i still stay with my husband things seem to be ok , he apologises everyday for putting me through this but tbh am stressed about what’s going to happen next year when it’s time to file for REMOVAL Of CONDITIONS on my green card will i be denied , or deported ?? Am so Scared as i feel like i have failed my self in life 🤦🏾‍♂️😭 please advise me should I leave and don’t file or should i go ahead i will get my Green card with no problems,,, I would rather leave the country voluntarily than deportation,,, any advise will be highly appreciated,,,, as I cannot deal with the depression anymore ,, i want go to school but am scared of wasting my money and don’t get anything at the end ,,,, also if I expunge the case will that be helpful at all?? The arrested me for Simple battery ( simple domestic violence which is the most scenario on which deportation could occur,, thanks good people advise me please 🙏🏾

Lol, you know that they can very quickly work out who bit who, right? Unless you have literally exactly the same teeth and dental records. I hope you haven't naughtily been practicing cannibalism on your spouse, and then pretending that he is pretending that you did it to him....?

[Cati23 5]

3 minutes ago, Jameson78 said:

Lol, you know that they can very quickly work out who bit who, right? Unless you have literally exactly the same teeth and dental records. I hope you haven't naughtily been practicing cannibalism on your spouse, and then pretending that he is pretending that you did it to him....?

Wow I personally i will never bite any body cause i hate blood , i said beat( punch) if I had your number I would send you videos of him explaining why he  leid .. when I asked him. .... he said he wanted to sleep and he didn’t know it would be a big issue,, I have lots of videos I asked him to talk to the judge so it can go off my record he said he will be charged or arrested for false accusations .. that’s all the truth..

[Jameson78 32]

1 minute ago, Cati23 said:

Wow I personally i will never bite any body cause i hate blood , i said beat( punch) if I had your number I would send you videos of him explaining why he  leid .. when I asked him. .... he said he wanted to sleep and he didn’t know it would be a big issue,, I have lots of videos I asked him to talk to the judge so it can go off my record he said he will be charged or arrested for false accusations .. that’s all the truth..

You wrote 'bite', not 'beat' or 'punch.' Do you mean he beat his own ###, like Edward Norton in fight club, and then accused you of doing it?