Abusive marraige ended

[Boiler 45,564]

This is RoC not VAWA.

[Nitas_man 3,100]

I would think that police reports, records of staying in a shelter, and one report from one professional would be more than enough.  Couple that with the normal things that were NOT done (joint finances, etc) and it builds a pretty clear picture of the situation.

[Survivor123 6]

3 hours ago, Boiler said:

This is RoC not VAWA.

There is relevant info in that section as it applies fir ROC 751.

 

since my post i have learnt that therapist report can help too.  I will research and guide her on what is required.

[Daisy.Chain 317]

You are certainly legally allowed to go to your home country, but of you will not be able to re-enter the U.S. afterwards without permission.

 

Do you have any family or support system in your home country?

 

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

On 7/13/2018 at 12:54 AM, Daisy.Chain said:

You are certainly legally allowed to go to your home country, but of you will not be able to re-enter the U.S. afterwards without permission.

 

Do you have any family or support system in your home country?

 

Of course she is allowed to go back to her country, but when she says that she can't, she means that she doesn't want to.

 

I think she's leaning towards abuse claims over a regular divorce waiver is that somebody probably schooled her that it would be easiest and fastest.  And she doesn't have much proof of bona fide marriage.  She pretty much admitted in her previous post that she looking for fastest to become USC.

 

And to add, in a lot of these cases it seems that anything that the USC spouse says no to, they consider abuse.  

 

 

Edited July 17, 2018 by Eric-Pris

[Survivor123 6]

On 7/17/2018 at 1:15 PM, Eric-Pris said:

 

Replied to your post on PM - clearly you don't know what abuse it.

Edited February 13, 2019 by Survivor123

[Sandra G. 5,048]

On 7/6/2018 at 12:57 PM, databit said:

Was abuse mentioned in the divorce papers? If not, that is a red flag. If it was, that would help your case.

 

The fact that you are depressed now could easily be attributed to the divorce itself, and that is a common result of divorcing---or so an opposing attorney would argue. And the fact that you are not seeing a psychiatrist? Does that mean you're not taking any meds for the depression? Sounds like the depression is not severe--or so an opposing attorney would argue. Your ex could conceivably sue you for defamation if the abuse could not be proven.

 

Your assumption is wrong, to file the I-751 based on extreme cruelty the  abuse doesn't need to be mentioned in the divorce decree.The depression doesn't have to be major depression, it's not mandatory to take  medication to have the I-751 waiver approved either.

[Sandra G. 5,048]

On 7/8/2018 at 12:53 PM, Survivor123 said:

Dear VJers 

 

Sorry my post was incomplete.  I have proof of abuse, police reports, stayed in shelter etc.

 

Am looking for specific information if psychiatrist or psychologist documentation is required.  I cannot afford more than the free therapist i am seeing.

Ask the psychologist to mention your background,onset of problems, abuse in detail, tests administered and results,  treatement plan and referral, if needed. Ask to have the test BAI, BDI  and PTSI done, please tell the professional that you don't need tests such as TAT,PAC,TAI.