K-1, K-3, or Cr-1?

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On 6/26/2018 at 5:03 PM, Rocko20 said:

How do you know you want to marry this person if you haven't even met yet?

That is a good question, and I would say:

 

I do not want to marry this person without meeting her, because I really can't and it would. We plan to meet and spend time together, get engaged, then set a date, and then get married--just the same process as most marriages.

 

However, anybody can "want" or desire anything, and those thoughts/feelings may feel very convincing, but they are not facts. A desire exists in a person's mind, and not until they act upon it does it involve facts.

 

But if one were to ask me "Do you think you and Mary will get married?" I would say "yes." But that is still a thought/desire, and not a fact.

 

If by some strange twist of fate, Zoë Isabella Kravitz contacted me and said she wanted to marry me, can you understand how I would "want" to marry her, even though we had not met yet?

 

 

Edited July 6, 2018 by contrapuntal62