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So, I am married to a USC and before I got married I was on a F-1 visa and completely detached from my family’s status. I am a green card holder and will naturalize as soon as I am able to . I am 21 years old. I don’t know if I have to be a certain age to sponsor someone.

 

My family on the other hand has been here since the 1990s on a F-1 visa and my sister is still an F-2 visa holder. She will be 21 in a year and a half. Now, my dad doesn’t go to school and works. My parents have pretty much screwed us to the point where we did not qualify for DACA and we have lived in the states our whole lives and cannot speak our home language. We simply cannot go back home. 

 

 

They are also unwilling to pay for our education because “all the American kids pay for their own” So, my little sister cannot pay for school (she unfortunately did not receive any scholarships) because she can’t work besides the odd cash jobs here and there and we don’t qualify for aid or loans. So, she won’t be able to enter the work visa lottery after college. We have also tried to enlist in the army but by the time we were both old enough, they have closed their MAVNI program. Anyways, I’m saying all this because I feel like just by ourselves we are at a dead end. My sister has been dating but understandably she has not found any one she wants to marry.  

 

Anyways, I know I still have a year before I could help my sister but is it possible? Can I file an AOS on her behalf? I am also worried because when I filed my paperwork even if I was out of status I did not have any  unlawful presence  but I read somewhere that USCIS is planning to change the law where F-1 students will start gaining unlawful presence starting August.  Is there anyway I could help her stay here? If I do file an AOS for her can she stay here in the states like I did even if she is out of status? Anyone, go through something similar?

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I believe you cannot file aos for sibling. 

 

You can only file AOS for parents but with their immigration history I have doubts that it's possible. 

But I'm sure others will know better. 

K1

29.11.2013 - NoA1

06.02.2014 - NoA2

01.04.2014 - Interview. 

AoS

03.2015 - AoS started.

09.2015 - Green Card received.  

RoC

24.07.2017 - NoA1.

01.08.2018 - RoC approved. 

 

 

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38 minutes ago, Jen45566 said:

So, I am married to a USC and before I got married I was on a F-1 visa and completely detached from my family’s status. I am a green card holder and will naturalize as soon as I am able to . I am 21 years old. I don’t know if I have to be a certain age to sponsor someone.

 

My family on the other hand has been here since the 1990s on a F-1 visa and my sister is still an F-2 visa holder. She will be 21 in a year and a half. Now, my dad doesn’t go to school and works. My parents have pretty much screwed us to the point where we did not qualify for DACA and we have lived in the states our whole lives and cannot speak our home language. We simply cannot go back home. 

 

 

They are also unwilling to pay for our education because “all the American kids pay for their own” So, my little sister cannot pay for school (she unfortunately did not receive any scholarships) because she can’t work besides the odd cash jobs here and there and we don’t qualify for aid or loans. So, she won’t be able to enter the work visa lottery after college. We have also tried to enlist in the army but by the time we were both old enough, they have closed their MAVNI program. Anyways, I’m saying all this because I feel like just by ourselves we are at a dead end. My sister has been dating but understandably she has not found any one she wants to marry.  

 

Anyways, I know I still have a year before I could help my sister but is it possible? Can I file an AOS on her behalf? I am also worried because when I filed my paperwork even if I was out of status I did not have any  unlawful presence  but I read somewhere that USCIS is planning to change the law where F-1 students will start gaining unlawful presence starting August.  Is there anyway I could help her stay here? If I do file an AOS for her can she stay here in the states like I did even if she is out of status? Anyone, go through something similar?

Tough situation.

 

Best option for your sister to stay here is to eventually marry a US Citizen for love, as you did, otherwise it is at least 14 years to petition her as a sibling (much longer if from Philippines or Mexico), and she would have to leave the US then incur issues with the 10 year ban etc. There is no forgiveness for unlawful overstays with a sibling.

 

You can petition for your parents as soon as you naturalize, their overstay is forgiven as an immediate relative and they can adjust within the country without leaving and it would happen within a year. They are immediate family so there are no limits so their priority date is always current. 

 

Any overstay you accrued yourself was forgiven through adjustment of status through your USC immediate relative (spouse). 

 

I don't understand the title of this thread - "Are my parents here legally or illegally" - why would you think they are here legally when they have overstayed their visa by decades? If they had received lawful status such as permanent residency you and your sister would have received it too. 

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10 minutes ago, Teemo said:

Tough situation.

 

Best option for your sister to stay here is to eventually marry a US Citizen for love, as you did, otherwise it is at least 14 years to petition her as a sibling (much longer if from Philippines or Mexico), and she would have to leave the US then incur issues with the 10 year ban etc. There is no forgiveness for unlawful overstays with a sibling.

 

You can petition for your parents as soon as you naturalize, their overstay is forgiven as an immediate relative and they can adjust within the country without leaving and it would happen within a year. They are immediate family so there are no limits so their priority date is always current. 

 

Any overstay you accrued yourself was forgiven through adjustment of status through your USC immediate relative (spouse). 

 

I don't understand the title of this thread - "Are my parents here legally or illegally" - why would you think they are here legally when they have overstayed their visa by decades? If they had received lawful status such as permanent residency you and your sister would have received it too. 

It just was something that I was unsure of because my mom always claims up and down that we are legal because student visas don’t expire? I remember with my visa, I got a D/S but not an official expiration date. I don’t know. And, I know I stated that my dad doesn’t go to school which is true but he is enrolled in one of those for profit? English schools where they just mark everyone off. 

 

So so long story short, there’s pretty much no option but marriage for my sister?

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15 minutes ago, Jen45566 said:

It just was something that I was unsure of because my mom always claims up and down that we are legal because student visas don’t expire? I remember with my visa, I got a D/S but not an official expiration date. I don’t know. And, I know I stated that my dad doesn’t go to school which is true but he is enrolled in one of those for profit? English schools where they just mark everyone off. 

 

So so long story short, there’s pretty much no option but marriage for my sister?

D/S means duration of status which means the I-94 is valid as long as the person is doing the activity for which the visa was issued, which in your parents' case would be studying with a full courseload. He isn't, so he is out of status (what he has doesn't count and besides, customary length of time is 4 years plus OPT, not 2 decades). Of course it doesn't mean they can stay forever without being out of lawful status. "Duration of status" is easily Googlable btw. 

 

When you say "my sister is still an F-2 visa holder" - I think what you mean is she entered the country as an F-2 visa holder. As soon as the F-1 visa was no longer valid (when the student stopped taking a full courseload) her visa was no longer valid either and she started accruing unlawful presence. So no, she is not still an F-2 visa holder, she is here unlawfully. The primary way to cure unlawful status while not leaving the country is through a USC immediate family member such as spouse or child over 21. Therefore spouse is pretty much the only option if she does not have a child coming on 21. Btw how old is your sister? If still a minor you should talk to a lawyer about how unlawful presence actually works for minors in terms of a ban on re-entering the country because I am not sure. 

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D/S doesn’t prevent them from being out of status. It does, right now, mean they don’t accrue unlawful presence resulting in a 10 year bar upon exit from the US (barring USCIS or an IJ formally making a determination that they are out of status).

 

That said, there is a change to this interpretation very recently released, making D/S start accumulating unlawful presence after they no longer qualify for their status + the grace period. This starts kicking in soon.

 

AOS is available for a sibling, but only if they are lawfully present in the US and their I-130’s PD is current. That will take 15-25 years right now.

 

Option 2 is to become a USC, petition the parents (overstay is ignored), then have the parent petition the children. ETA: ~7-10 years for that. However, the children need to leave the US and interview abroad. They shouldn’t have a bar upon exit if the above paragraph is followed (leaving before they accumulate unlawful presence).

Timelines:

ROC:

Spoiler

7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received

AOS:

Spoiler

AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received

K-1:

Spoiler

I-129F

12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received

 

NVC

4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017

 

K-1

5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE

 

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17 minutes ago, Teemo said:

still a minor you should talk to a lawyer about how unlawful presence actually works for minors in terms of a ban on re-entering the country because I am not sure. 

Unlawful presence kicks in starting at age 18, if somebody has no existing protection that prevents or tolls unlawful presence.

Timelines:

ROC:

Spoiler

7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received

AOS:

Spoiler

AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received

K-1:

Spoiler

I-129F

12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received

 

NVC

4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017

 

K-1

5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE

 

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5 minutes ago, geowrian said:

Unlawful presence kicks in starting at age 18, if somebody has no existing protection that prevents or tolls unlawful presence.

I thought so but there's some conflicting stuff out there. But essentially if she leaves before age 18 you're saying she has no unlawful presence that would count against a future visa?

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2 hours ago, Jen45566 said:

So, I am married to a USC and before I got married I was on a F-1 visa and completely detached from my family’s status. I am a green card holder and will naturalize as soon as I am able to . I am 21 years old. I don’t know if I have to be a certain age to sponsor someone.

 

My family on the other hand has been here since the 1990s on a F-1 visa and my sister is still an F-2 visa holder. She will be 21 in a year and a half. Now, my dad doesn’t go to school and works. My parents have pretty much screwed us to the point where we did not qualify for DACA and we have lived in the states our whole lives and cannot speak our home language. We simply cannot go back home. 

 

 

They are also unwilling to pay for our education because “all the American kids pay for their own” So, my little sister cannot pay for school (she unfortunately did not receive any scholarships) because she can’t work besides the odd cash jobs here and there and we don’t qualify for aid or loans. So, she won’t be able to enter the work visa lottery after college. We have also tried to enlist in the army but by the time we were both old enough, they have closed their MAVNI program. Anyways, I’m saying all this because I feel like just by ourselves we are at a dead end. My sister has been dating but understandably she has not found any one she wants to marry.  

 

Anyways, I know I still have a year before I could help my sister but is it possible? Can I file an AOS on her behalf? I am also worried because when I filed my paperwork even if I was out of status I did not have any  unlawful presence  but I read somewhere that USCIS is planning to change the law where F-1 students will start gaining unlawful presence starting August.  Is there anyway I could help her stay here? If I do file an AOS for her can she stay here in the states like I did even if she is out of status? Anyone, go through something similar?

Your sister needs to help her self. She is out of status now and basically has only one path to permanent residence, that is marriage to a USC. It is not helpful to cry over spilled milk, what your parents did right or wrong has passed and she is an adult now in the eyes of the law and whatever she does now is on her.

Yes starting in august even d/s i-94s will start to accrue unlawful presence unlike in the past. Unlawful presence means nothing until you leave the country.

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2 hours ago, Teemo said:

I thought so but there's some conflicting stuff out there. But essentially if she leaves before age 18 you're saying she has no unlawful presence that would count against a future visa?

There are other circumstances that prevent or toll unlawful presence while covered....the biggest ones being TPS and DACA. So if somebody turns 18 and has DACA (or whatever other authorized stay / deferred action) approved on day 1 of turning 18, then they won't have any unlawful presence accumulated for the purpose of obtaining a bar so long as they remain covered. Once they lose coverage, the accrual of unlawful presence starts/resumes.

 

If they leave before age 18 then they won't have any bar for an overstay. It doesn't not mean they did not overstay....so getting a non-immigrant visa may be a challenge still (likelihood to overstay again/work/try to find a way to AOS), but no bar upon exit for an overstay.

But the ages here are all over 18 right now anyway IIRC. The D/S should protect them from a bar due to unlawful presence at least until August (?) when the new rules kick in.

Timelines:

ROC:

Spoiler

7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received

AOS:

Spoiler

AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received

K-1:

Spoiler

I-129F

12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received

 

NVC

4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017

 

K-1

5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE

 

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35 minutes ago, geowrian said:

There are other circumstances that prevent or toll unlawful presence while covered....the biggest ones being TPS and DACA. So if somebody turns 18 and has DACA (or whatever other authorized stay / deferred action) approved on day 1 of turning 18, then they won't have any unlawful presence accumulated for the purpose of obtaining a bar so long as they remain covered. Once they lose coverage, the accrual of unlawful presence starts/resumes.

 

If they leave before age 18 then they won't have any bar for an overstay. It doesn't not mean they did not overstay....so getting a non-immigrant visa may be a challenge still (likelihood to overstay again/work/try to find a way to AOS), but no bar upon exit for an overstay.

But the ages here are all over 18 right now anyway IIRC. The D/S should protect them from a bar due to unlawful presence at least until August (?) when the new rules kick in.

So if my sister leaves the states before August she will not be subjected to a ban?

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5 minutes ago, Jen45566 said:

So if my sister leaves the states before August she will not be subjected to a ban?

If she was admitted as D/S and never had USCIS or an IJ determine that she is in the US unlawfully, then that's correct.

Timelines:

ROC:

Spoiler

7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received

AOS:

Spoiler

AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received

K-1:

Spoiler

I-129F

12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received

 

NVC

4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017

 

K-1

5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE

 

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" I am also worried because when I filed my paperwork even if I was out of status I did not have any  unlawful presence  but I read somewhere that USCIS is planning to change the law where F-1 students will start gaining unlawful presence starting August."

 

This only applies to those who lost F1 status on or after August 9, 2018, so you should be fine (if everything else was in good order). The directive is here: https://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/USCIS/Outreach/Draft Memorandum for Comment/AccrualofUnlawfulPresenceFJMNonimmigrantsMEMO_v2.pdf

03/04/2016 AOS (EB2-NIW concurrent with I-485) mailed to Lewisville TX Lockbox
03/07/2016 AOS delivered to USCIS and signed
03/12/2016 Case received by Nebraska Service Center (NSC)
03/14/2016 Text notification received for I-140/I-485/I-765/I-131.
04/08/2016 Biometrics notice received for 04/21
04/13/2016 Biometrics early walk-in completed.
04/15/2016 EAD/AP combo card received in mail.

 

Long wait begins...

 

11/04/2016 I-140/485 cases transferred from Nebraska to TCS
12/01/2016 Prepared package for EAD/AP renewal (expires 04/09/2017)
12/23/2016 USCIS suddenly changes several forms, invalidating my EAD/AP renewal package (not yet sent)
12/27/2016 USCIS suddenly reforms the entire NIW criteria system, replacing a 20 years old one. Uncharted waters. 
01/07/2017 (Saturday!) EAD/AP renewal package with new forms received in Phoenix "reception desk"
01/17/2017 EAD/AP renewal case accepted; text/email with receipt numbers was received
01/30/2017 Law firm finally confirms that USCIS has suspended processing all EB2-NIW cases due to new criteria. 
02/23/2017 USCIS slowly starts adjudicating NIW cases again.
04/21/2017 Extended EAD/AP received in mail. Valid for 2 years. 
05/06/2017 Received a massive RFE on I-140 NIW case.
07/20/2017 RFE response received by USCIS (a very long response with 30 pages of docs)
09/14/2017 I-140 NIW approved!!! 
11/28/2017 RFE for new medical issued (plus another request re Supp J for employment which is clearly issued in error)
12/04/2017 RFE received in mail
12/07/2017 repeated medical exam for I-485
12/08/2017 Attorney receives documents for responding to I-485 RFE
12/21/2017 Response to RFE received by USCIS 
02/09/2018 I-485 approval (text, email) :)
02/08/2018 I-485 approval notice issued (the "welcome letter") - I'm LPR now
02/16/2018 Green card received
 
11/14/2022 Filed N-400 online; receipt and biometrics reuse form received online
03/07/2023 N-400 Interview scheduled 
04/xx/2023 N-400 approved, same-day Oath ceremony completed. I'm a US citizen.
05/xx/2023 US passport in hand

 

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