90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[Paul & Mallory 1,398]

12 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

Andrei and Elizabeth are both living in fantasy land. They are completely delusional.  They both fight against her family who really are only concerned for them.  The way they show their concern may seem a little overbearing but they see thees 2 spiraling out of control and they have a baby on the way.  I think it's out of genuine concern.  I didn't like the father at the beginning but he is making a lot of sense.  A man has to man up and take any job regardless of pride.  But Andrei doesn't want an entry level job.  I think he expects to be making 6 figure off the bat.  Again, delusional.   

 

But Elizabeth doesn't want to talk about her problems.  She'd rather put her head in the sand and just wants to pick out her registry gifts (priorities priorities).  And now they are talking about moving again.  They have no money (other than her income which will end eventually when she becomes too pregnant to work).  And they think that they will move again, breaking their current (new lease).  WHAT IS WRONG WITH THESE PEOPLE?  And when her family questions it, Elizabeth blows up and tells her sisters to butt out.   Grant it, the sisters act like women who control everything about their husbands and the way Andrei acts goes against all that they believe and probably makes them nuts.  But her family seems to try to give genuine advice and not butt in unnecessarily, but Andrei has even turned Elizabeth against her family, making her believe the same non-sense that he seems to believe, that they are against him and are trying to make him indebted to them in some way. ????  This couple makes me mental.   

   

 

I disliked the dad in their previous seasons/shows, too, but am starting to get him now LOL My dad would be the same way, to be honest. If my husband came here, refused to take any job that was almost literally being HANDED to him, AND I got pregnant... AND we couldn't pay our minimum monthly bills... he'd most likely be behaving the same exact way.

[Paul & Mallory 1,398]

On ‎6‎/‎5‎/‎2019 at 2:04 PM, adil-rafa said:

nope not easy for a lot but sometimes a person like this man needs to accept any job offer / he has a baby on the way/ even a mcdonald's job would help /  take the work offered and keep looking for better work 

but this man doesn't seem to be looking for work

and his attitude towards his wife is less than respectable 

she says " we're having a baby" and he says "don't bring that up in my face"

i move out and back in with my dad 

Yessss I feel like that is common sense for anyone! Saying she's TERRORIZING HIM with "HER" (not THEIR) pregnancy. It's really ridiculous.

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

For the Moroccan Azan and Nicole ,  does anyone know what Nicole's father revealed to her about Azan  ?    i missed that part of the show

 

Thanks

[Falcon Cara 378]

5 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

For the Moroccan Azan and Nicole ,  does anyone know what Nicole's father revealed to her about Azan  ?    i missed that part of the show

 

Thanks

He got a Email from someone whom claims to know Azan, and said that his parents and sister do not approve of Nicole and they would never get married, and also stated the business/store was a lie/fake, etc.

 

 

 

 

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

6 minutes ago, Falcon Cara said:

He got a Email from someone whom claims to know Azan, and said that his parents and sister do not approve of Nicole and they would never get married, and also stated the business/store was a lie/fake, etc.

 

 

 

 

well, we all knew the business was fake and i wouldn't approve of her either 

 

but they would go ahead and let him marry just to come to the US / that is morocco

 

she actually didn't know enough about the culture and insulted them with the way she dressed and talked

 

thanks for this info

Edited June 10, 2019 by adil-rafa

[Falcon Cara 378]

23 minutes ago, Paul & Mallory said:

I disliked the dad in their previous seasons/shows, too, but am starting to get him now LOL My dad would be the same way, to be honest. If my husband came here, refused to take any job that was almost literally being HANDED to him, AND I got pregnant... AND we couldn't pay our minimum monthly bills... he'd most likely be behaving the same exact way.

I am still in the Andrea camp, I think there is a lot of bad blood with the sisters and father before he arrived and once he arrived.  But I am starting to like the Dad now, I still can't stand her nasty sisters.

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

15 minutes ago, Falcon Cara said:

He got a Email from someone whom claims to know Azan, and said that his parents and sister do not approve of Nicole and they would never get married, and also stated the business/store was a lie/fake, etc.

 

 

 

 

strange that a total stranger would have the father's email ID

i would suspect that is Azan and this is his way of breaking up

moroccans can't say "i don't want you anymore"   but they can say "my mom doesn't approve"

[Falcon Cara 378]

2 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

strange that a total stranger would have the father's email ID

i would suspect that is Azan and this is his way of breaking up

moroccans can't say "i don't want you anymore"   but they can say "my mom doesn't approve"

Interesting, I never thought about that angle

 

Why would he break up when she is a cash cow supplying him money?

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

1 minute ago, Falcon Cara said:

Interesting, I never thought about that angle

 

Why would he break up when she is a cash cow supplying him money?

i think it is getting harder for him to fake the love

and also we know he is talking to other girls  Nicole caught him in this

so,  probably has a new gf

and her money is running out 

[Paul & Mallory 1,398]

58 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i think it is getting harder for him to fake the love

and also we know he is talking to other girls  Nicole caught him in this

so,  probably has a new gf

and her money is running out 

 

1 hour ago, adil-rafa said:

strange that a total stranger would have the father's email ID

i would suspect that is Azan and this is his way of breaking up

moroccans can't say "i don't want you anymore"   but they can say "my mom doesn't approve"

 

I wondered the same thing when I saw that part. Maybe it was Azan himself, or someone Azan put up to it, and was his attempt to get out. But, after all this time, he should know how bull headed Nicole is. She doesn't read between the lines well at all. In fact, I feel like even if he called her and literally said "I don't love you, I don't want to be in this relationship anymore", she still wouldn't get it somehow.

Edited June 10, 2019 by Paul & Mallory

[Mary Lou 681]

6 hours ago, adil-rafa said:

strange that a total stranger would have the father's email ID

i would suspect that is Azan and this is his way of breaking up

moroccans can't say "i don't want you anymore"   but they can say "my mom doesn't approve"

Also the email said Azans mother and sister call Nicole names and make fun of her. So that all makes sense

[JFH 12,189]

I think the email is fake. It showed that it was sent in August but it was clearly Christmas time when they were sitting in Robbalee’s house talking about it. They were talking about it like he received it just that week. Calendar behind his head was showing a winter scene and there were Christmas decorations around the place.  

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

1 hour ago, Mary Lou said:

Also the email said Azans mother and sister call Nicole names and make fun of her. So that all makes sense

i had joined an international penpail site before meeting my husband 

and got proposals daily

if i said "great ,  i always wanted to live in your country"   was told within days "my mom does not approve and wants me to marry my cousin"

mom is important in  most cultures but if a man wants to marry,  he does

this man no longer is interested in Nicole

and that is fairly obvious

and they probably do make fun of her as she showed her arms and legs by wearing tank tops and shorts

they would have also been jealous of her blond hair 

[Mary Lou 681]

4 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i had joined an international penpail site before meeting my husband 

and got proposals daily

if i said "great ,  i always wanted to live in your country"   was told within days "my mom does not approve and wants me to marry my cousin"

mom is important in  most cultures but if a man wants to marry,  he does

this man no longer is interested in Nicole

and that is fairly obvious

and they probably do make fun of her as she showed her arms and legs by wearing tank tops and shorts

they would have also been jealous of her blond hair 

They seemed to accept Mae, her daughter. Is that because she's a child?

I know from reading threads on here about how arms and legs need to be covered and dress modest. I had no idea they were jealous about her blond hair

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

1 hour ago, Mary Lou said:

They seemed to accept Mae, her daughter. Is that because she's a child?

I know from reading threads on here about how arms and legs need to be covered and dress modest. I had no idea they were jealous about her blond hair

all have what i think of as beautiful long black hair and was completely surprised to find out there was a jealousy for the blond hair

 

but what i see most mistakes on 90 day finance is not understanding (or trying to understand) the culture of the other person on both sides

and to me other countries and cultures including food and dress are so interesting

but the Moroco man did not tell her how to dress and she did not ask these questions