90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[Mary Lou 681]

4 hours ago, Penguin_ie said:

 

 

The glasses thing is weird- we are in  a bit of a financial pinch right now too, and I just got new glasses over the internet for $50. Nice ones, too. But I guess she prioritises a ton of flowers at their wedding.

][My guess is Leida is the family yo-yo:  she wants freedom from her stuffy, controlling family, so she goes off to Japan, or ties herself to this American guy, But then she realises the grass isn't greener, and freedom comes with less money to throw around, so she returns.

The preview for next week shows Eric talking with his 2 oldest daughters. They won't go to the wedding, and who could blame them? Also they show Eric talking to the camera alone, visibly upset and crying. That's right, throw your kids to the side cause your new woman has to be number one priority. 😐 I know when Eric and his father went to the barbershop, his dad is less then impressed with what Leida is doing.

[Tinman71 42]

All these couples are insane.

[Tinman71 42]

The American kid with the Russian girl is a sick. I can't believe he thinks bringing the baby home with him he can't comprehend what it takes to raise a baby.

[confusedshoes 193]

I think Steven has been lying to Olga this whole time, when he said he didn't know what a SSN was I was convinced he hadn't actually done the I-129f. I dont even feel like he would meet the requirements for the I-134, though he does have his Grandparents. I really hope Olga realises that he cant do anything for her, and that he can't take her Baby. It seems like he wants her to believe this so that he can get away with it. If it does come to that point and no one tells her, then I really think the producer should step in. There is a child at stake, usually I'm fine with watching these circus acts. 

As for Leida and Eric, They both know what they are getting out of this, Eric chooses to remain blissfully ignorant that he is just a free ride until she gets her Medical License and GC. He's a broken man who has fallen for the oldest trick in the book. 9 times out of 10, if she is that much younger than you, its not because of you.

Coltie and Larissa are highly dysfunctional, but I actually think Colt is the worse of the two. I feel bad for his mother. Also his cousin is just as much of an A**hole as Larissa is a B****. Something about Colt just seems soooo...Slimy. During the BBQ I didn't expect him to jump to Larissa's defence but he should have at least made more of an effort to calm things down, and at the very least he should have defended his mother more.

Kalani and Asuelo are just...dumb. One unwanted pregnancy I can sort of look past but 2? On the plus side The guy seems sweet, still very immature but I feel like his heart is in the right place. Kalani and her Family are drama queens, also totally unrelated but the dad needs to tidy up his beard. 

 

Ashley and Jay seem ok, I don't mind her dropping the friend, once she told her that she didn't care the friend should have dropped it. If he cheats then let her suffer the consequences, she wanted a friend not a babysitter. Jay is young and knows its a bit crazy to rush into a marriage but I do think he wants to be with her. They're infatuated with each other. She has a lot of commitment issues though, it will be interesting to see how this plays out.

 

Fernanda and Jonathan, There are similarities to A & J, Fernanda seems like a nice family oriented girl, though I don't think she is quite ready for all this. Jonathan seems to care about her but needs to grow up from the "Bro" stage in life. His mother needs to stop projecting her mistakes and the immaturity of her son onto Fernanda, she needs to get to know her better. I think if they do manage to stick together Fernanda will be a good influence on Jonathan. 

Edited December 18, 2018 by confusedshoes

[SalishSea 17,988]

I found a Reddit that speculated that BOTH Coltie and Larissa are transgender.  

[moemac59 192]

On 12/16/2018 at 4:01 PM, confusedshoes said:

Oh God, Steven is the worst. What u\is funny is there used to be these youtube videos Staged freak outs, a kid called Steven, If you search: Greatest Freak Out Remote, you will get a video of a Teenager also named Steven who is throwing a tantrum because of a video game. This was who the 90 DF's Steven reminded me of. 

The guy is a complete narcissist, everything is about him, I am really worried for Olga, I really hope she drops this guy soon. She seems like such a sweet girl.

 

All that this is my first post in this thread, but both me and my fiancee watch the show, something about seeing how horrible these people are gives me peace of mind that our k1 will go smoothly. 😅

I've HATE Steven

[debbiedoo 2,339]

14 hours ago, confusedshoes said:

I think Steven has been lying to Olga this whole time, when he said he didn't know what a SSN was I was convinced he hadn't actually done the I-129f. I dont even feel like he would meet the requirements for the I-134, though he does have his Grandparents. I really hope Olga realises that he cant do anything for her, and that he can't take her Baby. It seems like he wants her to believe this so that he can get away with it. If it does come to that point and no one tells her, then I really think the producer should step in. There is a child at stake, usually I'm fine with watching these circus acts. 

paul and I were talking about this - if we worked on the show we would HAVE to tell her he cant just take the baby. doesnt work like that. I dont think he filed for her K1 at all, either.

 

14 hours ago, confusedshoes said:

Kalani and Asuelo are just...dumb. One unwanted pregnancy I can sort of look past but 2? On the plus side The guy seems sweet, still very immature but I feel like his heart is in the right place. Kalani and her Family are drama queens, also totally unrelated but the dad needs to tidy up his beard. 

love the guy hate her. shes acting like she wasnt there when she got pregnant. sorry, doesnt work like that. take responsibility for your own lack of family planning. there are other options safe to use during breast feeding

 

 

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

21 minutes ago, debbiedoo said:

paul and I were talking about this - if we worked on the show we would HAVE to tell her he cant just take the baby. doesnt work like that. I dont think he filed for her K1 at all, either. 

I would bet $100 that he did not file for her at all at this point in time. 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

27 minutes ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

I would bet $100 that he did not file for her at all at this point in time. 

yeah. i think all he wants is to get that baby that he cant even care for to the US

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

Just now, debbiedoo said:

yeah. i think all he wants is to get that baby that he cant even care for to the US

I was screaming that he can't even take care of himself and he wants to take of his newborn son ALONE... What does he think that his grandmother would take care of the baby?

[debbiedoo 2,339]

14 minutes ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

I was screaming that he can't even take care of himself and he wants to take of his newborn son ALONE... What does he think that his grandmother would take care of the baby?

hes an idiot. all this ' he needs a father' ummm he needs his MUM

[Eric-Pris 1,607]

sometimes it's better to have no father than an idiot for a father.

[confusedshoes 193]

1 hour ago, Eric-Pris said:

sometimes it's better to have no father than an idiot for a father.

seriously, the way he blows up at here makes me worry for her and the child, She is incredibly patient, a child has no chill, Who's to say his little tantrums wont become physical in the near future.

[Villanelle 4,122]

Theres an obvious solution here- Kalani is having a baby she doesnt want and Steven is desperate for a kid. She should just give it to Steven! LOL. But seriously, I know some peoples parents that have told them we didnt want you (a girl) we wanted a boy or vice versa, and its painful to the kid. Cant imagine having a video of your mom crying saying how shes upset shes pregnant with you that aired on TV. Even sadder is people are usually on their best behavior when they know they are being filmed. What horrible things must go on when the cameras are off?

 

The producers usually dont step in. They did when they had to tell Paul that Karinie had a miscarriage because they spoke Portuguese/English and could translate what the Dr was saying. (better then him finding out with his translator app)- but typically Producers just stand by and watch with out getting involved. (They also got involved in the Family Chantel dinner fight because it was a physical altercation) But Im not that worried about Steven leaving Russia with the baby. First because its MOTHER RUSSIA. Its hard to take babies out of any country but Russia has very strict policies and theres no way Steven is leaving Russia with a baby alone.  

 

Side note- Stevens father is not a dead beat dad- he is actually just DEAD. Seriously. Steven acts like his dad abandoned him- ummm he passed away- thats totally different then being 'abandoned' by a dead beat parent. 

[JuniorMints 66]

Kalani needs to stop telling her sister about every issue between her and Asuelo, and her sister needs to butt out of their business.  It's not her family's job to "watch him" and how he acts with the baby.  First time parents aren't perfect and he will learn how to take care of the baby, I can tell he loves her and the baby so much, he's a sweet guy.  And she does need to stop blaming him for getting pregnant again... takes 2 Kalani!  

 

I saw online that Larissa has been arrested twice for domestic violence, mug shot and everything.  Underneath, he likes her drama and is her puppet, no surprises about her arrests.  Larissa and his cousin at the BBQ are so much alike, hotheads, his cousin probably secretly likes Larissa and may be jealous of Coltie, that's why he gets so mad lol. 

 

I also don't believe that Steven has or will ever file for Olga's visa.  I feel sorry for her, she seems sincere.  And did he really think he would go there and get her visa in 8 weeks and bring them home with him?   It's like he made the whole trip just to get the baby and bring him back with him.  And how could he even think of taking an infant still nursing away from his mommy???  He has no way to take care of a baby.  The baby was screaming for mommy after only 3 hours inside the embassy getting his passport, what does Steven think he's going to do all by himself with a newborn?

 

Leida's family is refusing to come back for a wedding, sounds like they've cut her off, maybe disowned her.  Eric has no business attempting to support another human being, looks like child support leaves him broke.  Leida should have gone back with her family, she's just asking to suffer in his financial stress, not to mention her son, too.