90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[SalishSea 17,982]

6 minutes ago, Mary Lou said:

I had read online, can't recall the site, that people think Colt is in the high functioning autism spectrum. Now, how these people know this, probably WEbMD. But i do agree, Colt definetly has issues. 

Jon has anger issues, more then just being in fights, he admitted he did bodily harm to someone. As far as i knew, that's assault. 

I would agree.  There is also talk that Colt is transgender.

[Mary Lou 681]

3 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

I would agree.  There is also talk that Colt is transgender.

I hadn't heard the transgender one! 😳

[SalishSea 17,982]

1 minute ago, Mary Lou said:

I hadn't heard the transgender one! 😳

He is a bit busty, I think that's why.

[Mary Lou 681]

19 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

He is a bit busty, I think that's why.

Yes probably, or he lost a huge amount of weight and needs skin reduction surgery. There is zero chemistry between them though. She's all for the GC

[JFH 12,190]

19 hours ago, eieio said:

Since everyone seems to hate on Jon...I have a different view. I don't see fighting as a crime. If two people want to fight...let them. Its not like he is fighting people who do not want to fight. As far as we know he has not been charged with assault.  Very different IMO.  Boxing, wrestling, MMA are just legal forms of fighting....and very popular I might add. Both people agree to fight and the best man...or woman wins.  I remember in high school there would always be a couple of fights a week. Talk would get out who was going to fight who and then they would meet down the street and we would gather around and watch. Soon as one person said they quit....or was clearly beaten...that was it. They cleaned up and went back to school. 

But he's a man in his 30s, not a high school kid. This isn't two boys scrapping over a football. And he has injured someone. The fact of the matter is that he cannot control his temper. He is angry and violent. You only need to look at his Instagram page where he tells people to "choke on a d***" and "go away and die of cancer" to see what kind of person he is. He is vile and repulsive. And I'm pretty open-minded and forgiving, being that I'm married to a felon. As I said before, I could have a modicum of respect for him if that was all in the past and he regretted it. But he is proud of it. And he said on the Tell All he "will fight again". When he starts ranting even his wife can't look him in the eye, she's so ashamed of him. 

 

I wonder if you'd think fighting isn't a crime if you were the victim of his rage? 

[eieio 1,594]

1 minute ago, JFH said:

But he's a man in his 30s, not a high school kid. This isn't two boys scrapping over a football. And he has injured someone. The fact of the matter is that he cannot control his temper. He is angry and violent. You only need to look at his Instagram page where he tells people to "choke on a d***" and "go away and die of cancer" to see what kind of person he is. He is vile and repulsive. And I'm pretty open-minded and forgiving, being that I'm married to a felon. As I said before, I could have a modicum of respect for him if that was all in the past and he regretted it. But he is proud of it. And he said on the Tell All he "will fight again". When he starts ranting even his wife can't look him in the eye, she's so ashamed of him. 

 

I wonder if you'd think fighting isn't a crime if you were the victim of his rage? 

If I was a victim of his rage and I didn't want to fight it would be assault and that is never ok. If we met up and he wanted to fight and I said ...ok...lets go....and we fought that would be just a fight between two guys who wanted settle their differences. If I lost ...and I "sustained bodily harm" that would just be my fault for agreeing to fight him and not causing him ' bodily harm'. Thats the way fights go. You get up..shake hands and go your ways.  People can fight without being full of rage and anger. Look at the best fighters in the world. Anger is usually a detriment to winning.   But...apparently there is some other online evidence about how Jon really is that I have not seen and have no plans to.  

 

Another point that I saw on the show that was not fair to Rachel is someone was saying she was reckless and endangering her child for visiting Jon.  What a joke. They spend what a year online all the time AND she had a camera crew with her. 

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

3 hours ago, Mary Lou said:

I had read online, can't recall the site, that people think Colt is in the high functioning autism spectrum. Now, how these people know this, probably WEbMD. But i do agree, Colt definetly has issues. 

I have read that a few times myself and honestly it could really be either one of those theories. I don't think it's autism but just codependency issues because of his mom. 

[Mary Lou 681]

10 minutes ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

I have read that a few times myself and honestly it could really be either one of those theories. I don't think it's autism but just codependency issues because of his mom. 

It will certainly be interesting who's side persay Colt takes after mom meets her.

[SalishSea 17,982]

42 minutes ago, Mary Lou said:

It will certainly be interesting who's side persay Colt takes after mom meets her.

Yes!  Because there is no WAY Mother will not hate her!

[Mary Lou 681]

7 minutes ago, Jorgedig said:

Yes!  Because there is no WAY Mother will not hate her!

Exactly!!! The preview shows Mother crying

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

4 hours ago, Mary Lou said:

Yes probably, or he lost a huge amount of weight and needs skin reduction surgery. There is zero chemistry between them though. She's all for the GC

Naw even if he lost a lot of weight then it would look better than that trust me unless he weighed 500+. Usually if you lose a lot of weight then the skin starts to sag.

[Mary Lou 681]

2 minutes ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

Naw even if he lost a lot of weight then it would look better than that trust me unless he weighed 500+. Usually if you lose a lot of weight then the skin starts to sag.

No wonder she told him to exercise and shave his beard, which he did lol

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

1 minute ago, Mary Lou said:

No wonder she told him to exercise and shave his beard, which he did lol

I think she will start making him go to the gym and start looking/dressing better. He needs to shell out some money for a decent car with AC. I know he lives in LV but still he can find a decent car for cheap. Also supposedly he works in the same field as me doing IT so he must be pulling in at least $60-80k unless they just stuck him somewhere due to his issues. 

[Mary Lou 681]

1 hour ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

I think she will start making him go to the gym and start looking/dressing better. He needs to shell out some money for a decent car with AC. I know he lives in LV but still he can find a decent car for cheap. Also supposedly he works in the same field as me doing IT so he must be pulling in at least $60-80k unless they just stuck him somewhere due to his issues. 

I almost died when he told her to roll the window down lol I've been in Vegas when the temp has been 118, you need AC. Makes me wonder if he and Mother have it in their apartment. 

I kinda thought he would be making decent money, seems he is just cheap af.

[Jon&Margz 132]

On 10/30/2018 at 4:33 PM, JFH said:

And I'm pretty open-minded and forgiving, being that I'm married to a felon. As I said before, I could have a modicum of respect for him if that was all in the past and he regretted it.

This is the difference!   People make mistakes.  They can either learn and grow ... or live in denial like Jon.   Your husband's story is one to be celebrated.