90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[moemac59 192]

3 minutes ago, Jon&Margz said:

Yes the producer was lurking on Instagram.  A 90 Day Fan site showed the panty scene.  I posted a question:  "Who thinks it was a set-up?".   The producer posted a reply - it wasn't staged.  After a few exchanges (I asked about other couples) - the producer claimed to not know anything.   When I expressed by disbelief that fans know more about the show than the producers ... she said "watching TV is YOUR life .. for her it's a job.. she has a real life away from work" - then DELETE and BLOCKED me.  LOL.  Sharp Producers are salty.  

LOL that is so crazy!! So rude of her to be so condescending in her comment about watching tv is your life. What a beotch!! Way to be a great PR person for the show. Thanks for the info. That is super interesting.

[JFH 12,190]

Oh my, the 90DF Facebook group. What a bunch of armchair experts! I've recently had two arguments there.

 

First be was when simeime said "having a baby helps get a visa so Rachel and Jon should make a baby". I'm not even kidding. They seriously believe that's the case. So the US government will happily overlook 60 fights and bodily injuries because he has a healthy sperm count and her ovaries work. Welcome to America, my friend! The same person believes that the I-130 is the visa application. 

 

Latest one is someone who thinks the Indonesian who claims to be wealthy has "enough money to get dual citizenship in her own" and has no need for an American husband or a green card. Turns out she seriously thought citizenship and residency are one and the same. 

 

They think because they watch 90 DF they are immigration experts. Well I watch "my 600 pound life" but I don't for one minute think I could perform surgery on anyone!  

 

Do you find that people who've never gone through the process are completely clueless? 

[Jon&Margz 132]

2 hours ago, JFH said:

 

Oh my, the 90DF Facebook group. What a bunch of armchair experts! I've recently had two arguments there

 

I have glanced once in a while at Jon and Rachel’s Insta (followourfairytale) and roll my eyes at the idiocy.   Jon actually has said the US wrongly denied his visitor’s visa.  Aside from garbage sorting - Jon, evidently, is an expert on US immigration and knows more than US officials. Other fans chime in how “wrong” it is to keep a husband and wife apart ..  and deflect his fighting history  - “it’s not like anyone died”, “it was when you were young “.   Insane people. 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

9 hours ago, JFH said:

 

Do you find that people who've never gone through the process are completely clueless? 

lord, yes!!!!

 

and this show doesnt help the situation by putting crazy people on the air

[JFH 12,190]

9 hours ago, Jon&Margz said:

I have glanced once in a while at Jon and Rachel’s Insta (followourfairytale) and roll my eyes at the idiocy.   Jon actually has said the US wrongly denied his visitor’s visa.  Aside from garbage sorting - Jon, evidently, is an expert on US immigration and knows more than US officials. Other fans chime in how “wrong” it is to keep a husband and wife apart ..  and deflect his fighting history  - “it’s not like anyone died”, “it was when you were young “.   Insane people. 

It’s quite unbelievable how many people are making excuses for his behavior. It’s bad enough that Rachel makes excuses for him all the time “he’s a rare breed” (then please stop the genetic line right there!) and “he’s not a thief” (given the choice I’d rather lose my iPhone and my money than my teeth and my eyesight)  but when total strangers do it it’s even more worrying. 

 

And it annoys the heck k out of me when people who have committed crimes, however petty, however long ago, refuse to accept that they did wrong. My husband was sentenced in 1990 (for theft, coincidentally) after pleading guilty. He has never once made excuses for what he did or tried to claim some kind of paperwork error or judicial omission. He stole the money. Now, he’s not the man that he was then. And I could have a modicum of empathy for Jon if these flights were almost 30 years ago and he was a changed man. But he said on theTell All (much to Rachel’s discomfort - she looked like she wanted the ground to swallow her up so she could disappear) “I’ll fight again”. 

 

Mark my words, he will end up doing time here. And my husband (who did time) keeps reminding me that if keeps up his “I’m the alpha male” attitude in the joint he won’t last long. 

[Mary Lou 681]

The Indonesian supposedly rich lady, that's coming to Wisconsin is in for a rude awakening. First off, her fiance is a pig! That apartment is disgusting, clothes strewn all over, cups with who knows what sitting in them, plus his daughter lives with him, who he is kicking out since there won't be room for her. How these people just turn on their families for women and men they barely know is beyond me!!! He is more worried about her and her kid. Well the place she is moving is a small town, Baraboo, not far from the summer tourist trap. Yes, its very pretty there, but at most all she will able to do is shop at Walmart. Not to mention being stuck there in winter!! 

[JFH 12,190]

I’ve often wondered how people deal with a huge climate change. I can’t from the U.K. to Washington state - similar climate, same language, bern here many, many times to visit before living and I found it difficult to get used to living here. But when I see profiles here of people from warm countries such as Thailand or India moving to Alaska or Minnesota I just wonder how they will cope. 

 

My brother brought his wife from Mexico to the U.K. and she has lived in the U.K. for almost 10 years now and she still struggles with the winters. 

[p-ana 933]

6 minutes ago, JFH said:

I’ve often wondered how people deal with a huge climate change. I can’t from the U.K. to Washington state - similar climate, same language, bern here many, many times to visit before living and I found it difficult to get used to living here. But when I see profiles here of people from warm countries such as Thailand or India moving to Alaska or Minnesota I just wonder how they will cope. 

 

My brother brought his wife from Mexico to the U.K. and she has lived in the U.K. for almost 10 years now and she still struggles with the winters. 

Lots of layers! And sucking it up. 

[moemac59 192]

I think that I am going to have to check out the 90 day forum on FB. I have got to see this lol

[JFH 12,190]

7 minutes ago, moemac59 said:

I think that I am going to have to check out the 90 day forum on FB. I have got to see this lol

It'll make you want you scream. It's full of people who think the USC has to feed and clothe the immigrant for 10 years, people only come to this country because they are poor, that visas are granted based on how much the individual deserves it, that a green card and citizenship are the same thing, that having children will make the visa process go faster, and other such myths. 

[Mary Lou 681]

49 minutes ago, JFH said:

I’ve often wondered how people deal with a huge climate change. I can’t from the U.K. to Washington state - similar climate, same language, bern here many, many times to visit before living and I found it difficult to get used to living here. But when I see profiles here of people from warm countries such as Thailand or India moving to Alaska or Minnesota I just wonder how they will cope. 

 

My brother brought his wife from Mexico to the U.K. and she has lived in the U.K. for almost 10 years now and she still struggles with the winters. 

Surprisingly, my husband, who is Tropical as he says, loved the cold weather when he got here. Of course the snow was something he couldn't believe. 

[DaveAndAnastasia 2,093]

2 hours ago, JFH said:

I’ve often wondered how people deal with a huge climate change. I can’t from the U.K. to Washington state - similar climate, same language, bern here many, many times to visit before living and I found it difficult to get used to living here. But when I see profiles here of people from warm countries such as Thailand or India moving to Alaska or Minnesota I just wonder how they will cope.

Anastasia's moving from a few hundred miles east and a little north of Moscow to San Diego, which I suspect is easier to cope with, but we'll see next year ...

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

On 10/26/2018 at 10:02 PM, JFH said:

Oh my, the 90DF Facebook group. What a bunch of armchair experts! I've recently had two arguments there.

 

First be was when simeime said "having a baby helps get a visa so Rachel and Jon should make a baby". I'm not even kidding. They seriously believe that's the case. So the US government will happily overlook 60 fights and bodily injuries because he has a healthy sperm count and her ovaries work. Welcome to America, my friend! The same person believes that the I-130 is the visa application. 

 

Latest one is someone who thinks the Indonesian who claims to be wealthy has "enough money to get dual citizenship in her own" and has no need for an American husband or a green card. Turns out she seriously thought citizenship and residency are one and the same. 

 

They think because they watch 90 DF they are immigration experts. Well I watch "my 600 pound life" but I don't for one minute think I could perform surgery on anyone!  

 

Do you find that people who've never gone through the process are completely clueless? 

Yeah I had to go in depth on the 90 Day Fiance reddit page about what all they need to do or what they will probably do in the future to bring him here. Numerous people were asking me in depth questions like they were only commenting but never learned about the exact process to bring someone here. Because more than likely he WILL get denied and be forced to do a waiver. 

[Mary Lou 681]

I don't care for any of these couples. 

 

Colt and his cats, living with momma, is the most dull, emotionless person I've seen. 

 

The young Jamaican guy and his girl don't seem that comfortable with each other. I see another Molly and Luis, seeing as she has 2 young children. While he is just worried about being intimate 3 times a day. 

The Indonesian woman will have her family come soon to see whether they approve of her living here. 

I like the younger Mexican girl, but not her future husband. Something about him irks me. I think he's more worried about having a sweet young thing on his arm for appearances. 

Don't know enough yet about the young couple due to have the baby in Moscow.

I feel like expectations Lelani has for the father of her baby are unrealistic. Seeing is all he knows is gathering firewood and coconuts. 

 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

6 hours ago, Mary Lou said:

I don't care for any of these couples. 

 

Colt and his cats, living with momma, is the most dull, emotionless person I've seen. 

 

The young Jamaican guy and his girl don't seem that comfortable with each other. I see another Molly and Luis, seeing as she has 2 young children. While he is just worried about being intimate 3 times a day. 

The Indonesian woman will have her family come soon to see whether they approve of her living here. 

I like the younger Mexican girl, but not her future husband. Something about him irks me. I think he's more worried about having a sweet young thing on his arm for appearances. 

Don't know enough yet about the young couple due to have the baby in Moscow.

I feel like expectations Lelani has for the father of her baby are unrealistic. Seeing is all he knows is gathering firewood and coconuts. 

 

you summed up my feelings on all of them.

 

the kid with the pregnant chick in moscow is basically getting married cause of a one night stand. way to go 😕

 

i dont see a future for any of them.