90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[Paul & Mallory 1,398]

1 hour ago, Mary Lou said:

I think the English guy looks like a MMA fighter, he looks like he could be violent. Probably when he drinks he fights. I don't remember his age, she's 32, but he was at Uni probably 10 years ago.

I think he's 30s too, I can't remember. I thought the same thing, and all his pictures they showed, or that she has of him, are typical muscle guy pics. The one where he was naked and showing his rear in the full length mirror....  Ok, sir.

 

I agree - I get the impression he's an angry drunk and is prone to bar fights.

[JFH 12,189]

So Rachel and Jon are married. Someone has obtained a copy of their marriage certificate that was issued in the U.K and posted it online. So no K-1 for them. Just wondering if it will be a CR-1 or will she be moving to the U.K. There is also speculation that they have met in person before the filming of the show and made up the story of meeting for the first time just to get on the show. And the speculation also suggests that her youngest child is his. 

[lucybelle 453]

Came here for a small rant- I read the 90 day fiancé Reddit and I don't expect the posters there to know as much about immigration as we do. But there was a suggestion to come over on a visitor visa, then get married in the country and stay. I said it was fraud. And then this person starts telling me I am grossly missinformed and their congressman's office told them it's okay. I'm like- please, I know way more about immigration than they (congressman) do. Heck, I often feel like I know more about immigration than those awful lawyers people hire. I mean on the show they constantly give inaccurate or bad advice!! We find the same thing here- people coming on with bad lawyer advice.

 

Anyways, thought you guys would understand!

 

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[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

2 hours ago, lucybelle said:

Came here for a small rant- I read the 90 day fiancé Reddit and I don't expect the posters there to know as much about immigration as we do. But there was a suggestion to come over on a visitor visa, then get married in the country and stay. I said it was fraud. And then this person starts telling me I am grossly missinformed and their congressman's office told them it's okay. I'm like- please, I know way more about immigration than they (congressman) do. Heck, I often feel like I know more about immigration than those awful lawyers people hire. I mean on the show they constantly give inaccurate or bad advice!! We find the same thing here- people coming on with bad lawyer advice.

 

Anyways, thought you guys would understand!

 

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That's why I usually stick to Immigration or Askimmigration on reddit because people are so misinformed that it's sad. Also with reddit people can down vote you which sucks. 

 

Pm me with a link to that discussion and I will back you up. 

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

Shut the front door but the Mom didn't go to the UK with enough money to get back if she needs to change her ticket.... What kind of stupid mother does that?

[Chris Duffy 1,257]

6 hours ago, Cyberfx1024 said:

Shut the front door but the Mom didn't go to the UK with enough money to get back if she needs to change her ticket.... What kind of stupid mother does that?

And the guy she met still lives with his mommy.

 

Weird couple

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

I think two guys are being catfished.  The black guy with the Filipina who is "too shy" to video chat.  And the hispanic guy with the Colombian who was 3 hours late for the date when he came to visit her in Colombia.  She also doesn't seem to want to video chta or meet.

 

As long as these bobos keep sending money, the girls will pretend to be whomever they think that these guys want.  I bet if they did a reverse image search, the pics were probably stolen from the web.

[Eric-Pris 1,606]

On 8/7/2018 at 9:38 PM, JFH said:

So Rachel and Jon are married. Someone has obtained a copy of their marriage certificate that was issued in the U.K and posted it online. So no K-1 for them. Just wondering if it will be a CR-1 or will she be moving to the U.K. There is also speculation that they have met in person before the filming of the show and made up the story of meeting for the first time just to get on the show. And the speculation also suggests that her youngest child is his. 

There is something about her that irritates me.  Her level of desperation is beyond ridiculous.  Only Darcey tops her.  And her English boyfriend is a REAL criminal.  It's not some bar fight at college.  The guy's been in prison for sure.  Even one of his buddies called him a "criminal".  People don't throw that word around.

Edited August 13, 2018 by Eric-Pris

[Chris Duffy 1,257]

5 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

I think two guys are being catfished.  The black guy with the Filipina who is "too shy" to video chat.  And the hispanic guy with the Colombian who was 3 hours late for the date when he came to visit her in Colombia.  She also doesn't seem to want to video chta or meet.

 

As long as these bobos keep sending money, the girls will pretend to be whomever they think that these guys want.  I bet if they did a reverse image search, the pics were probably stolen from the web.

It fairly common to have a Filipina that age be to shy like that, I have dealt with it on a few occasions.  They girl is just a simple looking province (Country) girl from the pics I have seen. 

 

The dude who is in Colombia is getting the go around, He has not seen a pic of her on webcam live and he said he is sending money weekly.   He is dealing with what appears to be a scammer, and may even be a male, Who knows he was too stupid to have video chats.

 

 

[JFH 12,189]

7 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

And her English boyfriend is a REAL criminal.  It's not some bar fight at college.  The guy's been in prison for sure.  Even one of his buddies called him a "criminal".  People don't throw that word around.

I don't have a problem with his record. My husband is also a "REAL criminal" and has done prison time in California. I believe people can change. My husband's crime was 20 years before I met him. This bloke's crime was obviously more recent than that. But I still don't think she has anything to worry about. I'm a member of the Facebook RAW group and people there have been saying she must be crazy taking a baby to stay with a criminal. He lives with his mother. And just because he's a criminal doesn't mean he'd hurt his girlfriend. There are men that hurt women and those that won't. Ever. My husband is one such man. He's stolen a whole lot. And he fought in prison. But he'd never touch a hair on the head of a woman. Maybe I'm just as crazy. I live with a criminal in a small cabin up a mountain 20 minutes drive from the nearest civilization.

Edited August 14, 2018 by JFH

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

18 hours ago, Eric-Pris said:

There is something about her that irritates me.  Her level of desperation is beyond ridiculous.  Only Darcey tops her.  And her English boyfriend is a REAL criminal.  It's not some bar fight at college.  The guy's been in prison for sure.  Even one of his buddies called him a "criminal".  People don't throw that word around.

Dude, that is the same way I feel about her as well. She UTTERLY REEKS of desperation and it's sad really because she is a cute girl even with the baby weight now. It's like she settles for losers in the USA and thinks she found Prince Charming in the UK, only to find out that he is a loser as well. I know several women like that who complain about having loser x-bf's and having to be a single mom..... Only to date another loser again and get pregnant AGAIN

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

13 hours ago, Chris Duffy said:

It fairly common to have a Filipina that age be to shy like that, I have dealt with it on a few occasions.  They girl is just a simple looking province (Country) girl from the pics I have seen. 

 

The dude who is in Colombia is getting the go around, He has not seen a pic of her on webcam live and he said he is sending money weekly.   He is dealing with what appears to be a scammer, and may even be a male, Who knows he was too stupid to have video chats.

I agree with Duffy on the Filipina because this is still pretty common especially for younger women(20-30s) from the provinces. So it doesn't surprise me one bit at all. 

 

The dude from Colombia is being catfished for sure. He is going there thinking that he will find a 10 when in reality she is probably a 4 or 5. 

[Cyberfx1024 7,980]

11 hours ago, JFH said:

I don't have a problem with his record. My husband is also a "REAL criminal" and has done prison time in California. I believe people can change. My husband's crime was 20 years before I met him. This bloke's crime was obviously more recent than that. But I still don't think she has anything to worry about. I'm a member of the Facebook RAW group and people there have been saying she must be crazy taking a baby to stay with a criminal. He lives with his mother. And just because he's a criminal doesn't mean he'd hurt his girlfriend. There are men that hurt women and those that won't. Ever. My husband is one such man. He's stolen a whole lot. And he fought in prison. But he'd never touch a hair on the head of a woman. Maybe I'm just as crazy. I live with a criminal in a small cabin up a mountain 20 minutes drive from the nearest civilization.

My biggest thing is that not that she is staying with a criminal but that she would go there with her baby and have enough to get home if something happened. 

[Paul & Mallory 1,398]

I thought I'd be interested to see how it panned out for Paul and Karine with them being back this season. Turns out I was wrong, and I don't.  Nothing has even really changed there, other than text translation has upgraded to voice.

 

I started out liking Jesse and Darcey their last season. He, and Amsterdam, remind me so much of my husband and Gothenburg, it was relatable. He also seemed so genuine and nice, and he tried really hard to get her to know his home. She seemed very wrapped up in being able to wear her heels and her makeup and hair. She seems to be no different this time around, but his comments have come off as more and more aggressive than they used to. Of course, they could be cutting it up for dramatic effect and not showing the whole picture, but still. I think she has some self confidence issues and desperately needs to be validated by someone like him. Which isn't healthy.

 

 

My husband and I can't even take Rachel and what's-his-name seriously anymore after we read rumors online that they not only had already met, but were already engaged before getting on the show. Granted, that's the only way it would make it any better than she's taken her baby with her. It's still something I wouldn't do, but it's better than taking her to meet a complete stranger she herself hadn't even met. But who knows. The excessive upchucking on his way to Paddington was a huge turn off for me, I think.

 

 

Colombia chick is a catfish. I'll be surprised if we learn otherwise.

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

Paul and Karine - if they were serious about eachother, they'd both have taken intensive language classes by now. 

New couples- is it me or is the series becoming "more extreme"? It used to be most couples seemed genuine, if a bit clueless.  This time around they all seem to be train wrecks selected for drama potential.