90 Day Fiance -- season ??? [merged threads]

[JFH 12,189]

58 minutes ago, Sparkle Sparkle said:

Who else thinks there's something not quite right about  Blake and Jasmine?

Definitely! 
 

Applied for DV lottery with her sister, was not selected, so set up a dating profile using her sister’s location to meet a man in that area so she could get a fiancé or spouse visa to live closer to her sister. She’ll be divorcing him as soon as she gets her GC. 

[Sparkle Sparkle 913]

14 minutes ago, JFH said:

Definitely! 
 

Applied for DV lottery with her sister, was not selected, so set up a dating profile using her sister’s location to meet a man in that area so she could get a fiancé or spouse visa to live closer to her sister. She’ll be divorcing him as soon as she gets her GC. 

Exactly she is not even giving him a chance... He treats him like some virus.... His friends see it but he does not see it and he is just too protective of her

 

[JFH 12,189]

3 minutes ago, Sparkle Sparkle said:

Exactly she is not even giving him a chance... He treats him like some virus.... His friends see it but he does not see it and he is just too protective of her

 

If it wasn’t for the story about her sister I could kind of understand her attitude. I spent a lot of time in Scandinavia during my university days (studied Scandinavian Philology) and I know a lot of people there can seem to be very cold, very reserved. I can be that way too. When I first met my husband’s family I was like that. They are very much into hugging and kissing and very loud and always wanting to “let’s hang out!” (and I’ve been here over three years now and I still don’t understand this concept of “hanging out” or what the term actually means) and I’m not like that at all. They may have thought I was rude because I was so quiet. So I really do get that. And when I first saw her on the show I was prepared to give her a chance because she was definitely a fish out of water when she first landed in LA. 
 

But it’s gone further than that with her. He seems to be a massive inconvenience to her. He has served his purpose, he got her into the country. Now she’s just treading water with him until she gets her GC. She’s being cruel to him. 

[debbiedoo 2,339]

all i know is i really hope next seasons couples are better than this season.

[JFH 12,189]

5 minutes ago, debbiedoo said:

all i know is i really hope next seasons couples are better than this season.

Have you seen the preview? I have and I’m not hopeful...

[debbiedoo 2,339]

15 hours ago, JFH said:

Have you seen the preview? I have and I’m not hopeful...

I have. Yes 🙄

[Sunny_Skies 22]

On ‎12‎/‎31‎/‎2019 at 8:27 PM, Mary Lou said:

Anfisa 😂

She's nothing like she was portrayed on the show. And she's mild to almost every batch of couples that has appeared since.

[Mary Lou 681]

1 hour ago, Sunny_Skies said:

She's nothing like she was portrayed on the show. And she's mild to almost every batch of couples that has appeared since.

I liked her, she was no nonsense. And now we know more and more of the show is scripted. 

[Sunny_Skies 22]

10 hours ago, Mary Lou said:

I liked her, she was no nonsense. And now we know more and more of the show is scripted. 

Yes exactly! And since Jorge has been away she has been independent. She deserved her green card.

[sl1pstream 551]

So for some reason my fiancee got an email from the show about two months ago telling us that they were interested in us. We didn't respond.

 

Anyone know how they get people's info? It seemed super creepy that they knew we started the process.

Edited February 13, 2020 by sl1pstream

[Penguin_ie 5,992]

56 minutes ago, sl1pstream said:

So for some reason my fiancee got an email from the show about two months ago telling us that they were interested in us. We didn't respond.

 

Anyone know how they get people's info? It seemed super creepy that they knew we started the process.

Not sure on email, but we know the producers come phishing here. They will PM members and sometimes even blatantly post for good stories.  We shut them down as soon as we see them.

[sl1pstream 551]

36 minutes ago, Penguin_ie said:

Not sure on email, but we know the producers come phishing here. They will PM members and sometimes even blatantly post for good stories.  We shut them down as soon as we see them.

I wasn't a member yet. If any of us were in some community it'd make sense, but we weren't. It was just weird.

[Prizm123 1,086]

On 2/13/2020 at 5:10 AM, sl1pstream said:

So for some reason my fiancee got an email from the show about two months ago telling us that they were interested in us. We didn't respond.

 

Anyone know how they get people's info? It seemed super creepy that they knew we started the process.

they contacted me also

 

i am thinking they really wanted a girl from Ukraine named Natalie....

[JFH 12,189]

On 2/11/2020 at 5:46 PM, Sunny_Skies said:

She deserved her green card.

Grrrr... I hate that phrase. Like a GC is some kind of prize or Medal of Honor. It’s too closely linked to the idea that us foreign spouses should be “grateful” to our USC spouses for bringing us here. I don’t feel I’ve done anything to deserve a prize. I’m a wife like any other. I go to work, do the grocery shopping, watch TV, walk the dog, just like any American does. What makes foreign spouses any different? What’s expected of us that you wouldn’t expect of anyone born here? 

Edited February 16, 2020 by JFH

[Nature Boy 2.0 8,369]

I am sure if they selected most of us here, the show would be canceled for lack of ratings. It seems like they get crazier every year. I doubt a normal well adjusted couple like Loren and Alexei, would make the cut now