Nigerian Fiance denied for tourist visa/ entry. Do we still have a chance? (split)

[Beachbum 1]

I am planning on going to Nigeria to get married and come back to the U.S. and apply for him to come. I do have concerns about my fiance coming to the states. We have never met in person but we met online 3 years ago. Only thing we have proof of our relationship is texting and calling the last 3 years. He tried to come twice already and I got scammed out of $3000.00 Plus he got arrested because someone gave him a false plane ticket to China. Do we still have a chance.  He also tried going through  Canada got denied there too because too many people was going at one time. I was told he better not try anymore before he lose his chances. Please respond back, please and thank you. 

[Penguin_ie 5,995]

*** post split from another thread by another member about another issue.  Please ask questions about your own case in your own thread. *****

 

There is always a chance.  However, you guys getting married on the first visit and then you petitioning for him right away may not be the best option.  You will be dealing with one of the most difficult embassies to get approved in, and only one meeting, and getting married then, are red flags. Why not meet first, have a nice time together, then get married on the second or third meeting?

 

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14 hours ago, Yolanda Kay said:

I am planning on going to Nigeria to get married and come back to the U.S. and apply for him to come. I do have concerns about my fiance coming to the states. We have never met in person but we met online 3 years ago. Only thing we have proof of our relationship is texting and calling the last 3 years. He tried to come twice already and I got scammed out of $3000.00 Plus he got arrested because someone gave him a false plane ticket to China. Do we still have a chance.  He also tried going through  Canada got denied there too because too many people was going at one time. I was told he better not try anymore before he lose his chances. Please respond back, please and thank you. 

I would advise that you use your first visit to get to know him better and not get married during that time. You can always get married later, but it is still your choice.

 

The reason I say this is because based on what you posted, he seems desperate to get to the US. Not saying that he is, but on paper...look at his history.

• Multiple failed attempts to enter the US.
• Multiple failed attempts to enter other countries.
• Using false documents to enter other countries (even if he was an innocent victim of the scam it is still on his record).
• You being already scammed out of a lot of money trying to help him enter the US. 
• You having a relationship with him for 3 years and has not seen each other in person. 

I am sorry, but there are glaring red flags all of over this case. I say make your first trip a productive one and spend sometime getting to know him and his family. If you do decide to marry, make sure you have enough evidence that the relationship is genuine.

 

Lastly, to answer your question, you DO have a chance. But you should proceed with this journey carefully and meticulously. Nigeria has been known to be very tough on  cases and if you have too many red flags or not enough strong evidence, the Embassy will den your case.

[Crazy Cat 42,028]

I agree with @NuestraUnion.  I would also suggest you use the search function of this web site to see the experiences of others regarding Nigerian fiance visas.....

[Abdeslam 47]

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

[payxibka 10,047]

15 hours ago, Yolanda Kay said:

I am planning on going to Nigeria to get married and come back to the U.S. and apply for him to come. I do have concerns about my fiance coming to the states. We have never met in person but we met online 3 years ago. Only thing we have proof of our relationship is texting and calling the last 3 years. He tried to come twice already and I got scammed out of $3000.00 Plus he got arrested because someone gave him a false plane ticket to China. Do we still have a chance.  He also tried going through  Canada got denied there too because too many people was going at one time. I was told he better not try anymore before he lose his chances. Please respond back, please and thank you. 

You are in the wrong forum if you are going to be married in Nigeria.  K-1 forum is for FIANCEE visa not a SPOUSE visa

[Crazy Cat 42,028]

15 minutes ago, Abdeslam said:

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

To what "negative comment" are you referring?  There are PLENTY of threads here on VJ  CLEARLY indicating that Nigeria is a high fraud country in which is difficult for fiances and spouses to obtain immigrant visas.

 

Imo, your comment is reckless.

Edited May 6, 2018 by missileman

[payxibka 10,047]

11 minutes ago, Abdeslam said:

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

What consulate/embassy do you have experience with?

[geowrian 22,337]

41 minutes ago, Abdeslam said:

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

If it's genuine and you can show it to the CO.* Some embassies are much more strict than others, and you need to not only have a valid relationship but also significant evidence showing that valid relationship.

Edited May 6, 2018 by geowrian

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1 hour ago, Abdeslam said:

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

What negatives comments? The OP asked for advice which we offered based on our experience seeing other similar cases here on VJ.

 

If the relationship is genuine. they can still get denied. There are cases ongoing on VJ right now where people have genuine cases are are denied.  All you have to do  is type in  the word "denied" and there will be hundreds to threads of cases where couples were denied.

 

We are just making sure the OP is aware that it is not always a cakewalk. 

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

I would write down my timeline of my relationship, how we met, etc. The problems he has had with visas, and anything else. Look at it and scrutinize it. Have ur best friend look at it and ask her what is her opinion. If there are holes and questions from what u wrote, the CO will see the same. 

 

I dated my husband for five years before we got engaged. I was fortunate in the fact that we could visit every three months. I would have ur fiance meet u a country that does not require a visa. Try the going to Barbados, Haiti, or Dominican Republic to visit and see each other. They are visa free for both of you. It will give you a chance to meet in person before marriage. 

 

I agree with everyone else, regardless of whether your relationship is genuine or not, USCIS expects u to prove u are a loving couple and not ever meeting before getting married is a huge red flag. 

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2 hours ago, NuestraUnion said:

What negatives comments? The OP asked for advice which we offered based on our experience seeing other similar cases here on VJ.

 

If the relationship is genuine. they can still get denied. There are cases ongoing on VJ right now where people have genuine cases are are denied.  All you have to do  is type in  the word "denied" and there will be hundreds to threads of cases where couples were denied.

 

We are just making sure the OP is aware that it is not always a cakewalk. 

Thanks @NuestraUnion .. I'm proof of "genuine case being denied"..the word "Nigeria" it's like deny deny ..we see fraud..

[Illiria 980]

3 hours ago, Abdeslam said:

Dont listen to the negative comment , if your relation is geniune you will have no issue getting him to the us

 

3 hours ago, payxibka said:

What consulate/embassy do you have experience with?

From other posts seems to be from Algeria, K1 not done the interview yet. 

[payxibka 10,047]

5 minutes ago, Illiria said:

 

From other posts seems to be from Algeria, K1 not done the interview yet. 

Figured as much.  I rest my case

[Sunnyland 639]

I hate these "hit and run" threads where the OP posts a weird story and then never replies or comes back.