October 2017 I-129F Filers, Part III

[ToniAnn 395]

Just now, Hemzi said:

Nice I live a little more North of that in Hertfordshire - Borehamwood. We have the film studios in my town. August huh? I would say I'll show you around but I am hoping to be in sunny Texas by then getting married!

My Fiance lives there.. I am hoping to take him back with me. That is my hope. 

[Hemzi 244]

1 minute ago, ToniAnn said:

My Fiance lives there.. I am hoping to take him back with me. That is my hope. 

Ahhh! How do you love grey old London?! I hope that your response is in good enough time for that... I think it should be! 

[ToniAnn 395]

1 minute ago, Hemzi said:

Ahhh! How do you love grey old London?! I hope that your response is in good enough time for that... I think it should be! 

I love it actually.. I also went to see my family in Birmingham, and visited Stratford upon Avon.. Can you imagine if he's not approved (with visa in hand)even then? That would have been over 10 months.. UGH !

[C💏A 90]

7 minutes ago, Hemzi said:

Nice I live a little more North of that in Hertfordshire - Borehamwood. We have the film studios in my town. August huh? I would say I'll show you around but I am hoping to be in sunny Texas by then getting married!

@Hemzi OMG! I live in Watford lol. Near by ☺️

[Hemzi 244]

Just now, ToniAnn said:

I love it actually.. I also went to see my family in Birmingham, and visited Stratford upon Avon.. Can you imagine if he's not approved (with visa in hand)even then? That would have been over 10 months.. UGH !

Ooo nice, if you haven't visited in the summer before can I suggest doing the tour of Buckingham Palace and it's gardens? It opens up for the summer only and it is pretty epic and no I can't imagine because the person who has your RFE is going to look at it soon and get the both of you approved!!!

[DonAnn 266]

16 minutes ago, Hemzi said:

I guess I do have a knack of staying calm in very stressful situations. I have been likened to a robot at times by those around me. It is easy to forget that not everyone can stay calm but I also get very upset when I see upset people. My natural instinct is to do whatever it takes to cheer people up.

 

I didn't accuse anyone here of not being honest, what I actually meant is there are a lot of people who use the K1 system who are not and it's because of that, that the system gets tighter and tighter and honest people have to suffer because of it.

 

If I made anyone feel hurt with my words, I am sorry.

OK I understand where you're coming from and I'm sorry also if I hurt your feelings. I hope we all get approved soon. I just want to see USCIS adjudicators work faster... I'm not knocking them for suspecting some people as not everyone is honest. I just DEFINITELY don't agree with the good suffering for the bad. Petitions should be processed within 6 months and main focus be on the beneficiary because they are the ones that usually deceive American citizens into thinking they are serious when sometimes they are not... 6 months is more than enough time to do background checks or whatever on petitoner so this is why I'm not siding with adjudicators.

[Sarac9 1,122]

You know I like this. We are all venting..its good to just get that out there! It makes us feel alive even though the wait is slowly killing us lol

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

34 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

I gained 4kg.... because of this stress!!!!!! And my wedding dress was recently stitched!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Uscis I hate you for making me fat!!!😭😭😭  I feel like I need to distract myself from all of this and focus more on my diet and work.

Saraaaaaa!!!! How is your day?..

 

 Dont worry... Im sure...

 you will be amazing with your dressss!!!! 

I lose 5 kg.... omg!!!! ...

in 3 days... my day 200 lol... amazing!!!

 

I want my cake for that!!!!

[Hemzi 244]

2 minutes ago, DonAnn said:

OK I understand where you're coming from and I'm sorry also if I hurt your feelings. I hope we all get approved soon. I just want to see USCIS adjudicators work faster... I'm not knocking them for suspecting some people as not everyone is honest. I just DEFINITELY don't agree with the good suffering for the bad. Petitions should be processed within 6 months and main focus be on the beneficiary because they are the ones that usually deceive American citizens into thinking they are serious when sometimes they are not... 6 months is more than enough time to do background checks or whatever on petitoner so this is why I'm not siding with adjudicators.

I agree with this totally! But I am soft haha I always feel sorry for people... I always put myself in someone elses shoes and man when I look at October filed cases... I mean 300 cases submitted on at least 3 or 4 of the days and thennn like 200 on some and then some days it's like 10... *Head Spin*

 

With technology now it should go faster... instead they make us suffer

[Hemzi 244]

8 minutes ago, AlexaF said:

@Hemzi OMG! I live in Watford lol. Near by ☺️

That is totally cool! Haha! Never thought there would be anyone that close by! I went to the Davids Bridal for wedding dress fitting... 

[Sarac9 1,122]

3 minutes ago, SONIA AND MICHAEL said:

Saraaaaaa!!!! How is your day?..

 

 Dont worry... Im sure...

 you will be amazing with your dressss!!!! 

I lose 5 kg.... omg!!!! ...

in 3 days... my day 200 lol... amazing!!!

 

I want my cake for that!!!!

Soniaaaaaa my day went well aside from my own inner turmoil!! 

How is your day!!?? 

I hope you dont reach 200 and you get your approval in the morning!!!

[DonAnn 266]

31 minutes ago, ToniAnn said:

Yes @DonAnn we are ALL spent.. Today is rather heated, and for VERY GOOD reason.. I know @Hemzi is just trying to help. JUST A VERY DIFFICULT DAY all around.. When we see nothing moving, and we are waiting and our cases are not complicated then it becomes a PROBLEM. Normally I am positive as us Jamaicans are friendly, gregarious, and sociable... however, I am being duly tested.. Blessings and love to ALL

Yes that is true of a lot of Jamaicans and we now have an understanding @Hemzi 😊. It's great to share feelings here even if we don't always see eye-to -eye... makes one feel better and know they are not alone

[DonAnn 266]

5 minutes ago, Hemzi said:

I agree with this totally! But I am soft haha I always feel sorry for people... I always put myself in someone elses shoes and man when I look at October filed cases... I mean 300 cases submitted on at least 3 or 4 of the days and thennn like 200 on some and then some days it's like 10... *Head Spin*

 

With technology now it should go faster... instead they make us suffer

Yes unfortunately my Noa 1 was on the day that had the most I believe (10/25/2017). I liked the idea of them using received dates instead as mine was 10/23

[dkmfan85 832]

The whole process is very robotic and inhuman. We don't like things that feel so alien and uncaring, and it just makes things worse. Luckily we have each other here to add some humanity, sympathy and empathy back into the whole process. 

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

2 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

Soniaaaaaa my day went well aside from my own inner turmoil!! 

How is your day!!?? 

I hope you dont reach 200 and you get your approval in the morning!!!

is very strange

..because..

 last two days Im good !!! I dont know why?  dont look my phone every 5 minutes.... just 4 or 5 times during the day!!!

omg!!!! is crazy...

and now I am not nervous... Im angry with this process !lll