October 2017 I-129F Filers, Part II

[Christy&J 837]

24 minutes ago, BnK said:

Ohhhemmmgeeee!!! So can relate. My boss jst told me last month what my plans are coz the longtime promotion promise may actually happen anytime this year.....but.....of course my mind is already set to OUR future but with all this delay...GOD!!!makes me feel so anxious...ill choose unemployment for a while anytime jst for the love of my life but the feeling of being close to that possible career growth everyday SUCKS!!! i jst wanna move on and not look back.... 🙁😥

 

my mind was set to live in US but, after thinking so long I think how I am gonna give up everything just killing me. I got 2 promotions that I denied and now I am wondering if it was a good decision to deny it.

21 minutes ago, Little_Vixen said:

I feel you babe. It's tough. I am giving up a very promising career too. My education is worth next to nothing in the U.S. and I have to redo everything down to my freaking drivers license. It gets frustrating. I don't know exactly when to quit my job and still be able to train a replacement. My boss wont hire a new person until he knows when I leave and I won't know that until a few weeks in advance. It's stressful for everybody.

My fiancé and I talked about this just this morning, how hard this process is on a relationship. I told him I'd seen several couples break up while being in the last weeks before their approval. The stress had gotten to them. Its heartbreaking.

I've gone into this process knowing it would be a long haul but still I wonder... Sometimes I wish we had just given in and gotten married in December. But it is what it is and we will sit this one out. We will be with out loved ones soon.

it's heartbreaking to see "me, myself" even thought about give up. I didn't understand how couples would easily give up and break up but now I do understand them...oh yes I do ! I am trying my best to distract myself and surround myself with friends, I even travel almost every 2 weeks to distract myself, but the fact I am not getting younger and how many chances I just let it got away it's killing me. Education, maybe mine would be compatible with US but the social security such as retirement, holidays and others I cant list...oh my God this scare me.

 

I mean, I know and believe in myself that I would get a job ...but I don't want " a" job, I want career.

 

it feels good tho to talk to people that sit in the same boat and understand.. thank you so much !

18 minutes ago, SONIA AND MICHAEL said:

it's easy to understand how you feel ... it's a very long process ... that damages our feelings ... 24 hours a day ... we feel ... nerves ... stress ... fear. .. is crazy ... and in many cases ... we have to leave  many things in this way ... lour families ... jobs ... stability ... not easy ... but the reward it is at the end of this difficult process ... we will be with the person we love forever!!! ... 

 

omg!!! sorry for my english 

 

Edited April 26, 2018 by Christy&J

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

8 minutes ago, Yulie77 said:

I’m just getting anxious if we will make it. Here in Germany the summer break is only 6 weeks. I trust we won’t be here in August anymore.....

sure!!!! very soon .... you will have good news!!!! 

[jean baptiste 337]

44 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

I actually really wondering why did you choose K1 ?

also through this process how many times have you fought with your fiancé ?

 

For me, we were debating ourselves either K1 or CR1 but the fact that the whole process K1 ( was ) only 6 months that's why we chose this process. Me and J been having hard time with this process, he is patient but me---it's been rough the fact how I have to gave up my career and promotion due to too long process...today I just found out that one of my coworker got the promotion that supposed  to be mine, he's been working only for few month. it hurts but I accepted it.

J listening to my whining, but at the end he can't do anything- sometimes I am wondering, is it only me or someone out there having the same dilemma too ?

 

hahaha not sure why I am venting now...

all this is difficult because school is out for my daughter and for me, the dental school is out if we don't get to the port of entry late in june or very early in july.

and it's very questionable at this point of the process

[Sarac9 1,122]

5 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

my mind was set to live in US but, after thinking so long I think how I am gonna give up everything just killing me. I got 2 promotions that I denied and now I am wondering if it was a good decision to deny it.

it's heartbreaking to see "me, myself" even thought about give up. I didn't understand how couples would easily give up and break up but now I do understand them...oh yes I do ! I am trying my best to distract myself and surround myself with friends, I even travel almost every 2 weeks to distract myself, but the fact I am not getting younger and how many chances I just let it got away it's killing me. Education, maybe mine would be compatible with US but the holidays, social security such as retirement, holidays and others I cant list...oh my God this scare me.

 

I mean, I know and believe in myself that I would get a job ...but I don't want " a" job, I want career.

 

it feels good tho to talk to people that sit in the same boat and understand.. thank you so much !

 

I feel like you waited this much..just a little more wait will help you with your desicion. But I certainly think this is something  you should talk to your fiance about because you dont want to have any resentment later on down the line. 

[AquariusDevil 16]

Long time lurker but finally got APPROVED!!!!!!

NOA1: 10/13

NOA2: 04/25

Its been a long time coming but we finally crossed the first hurdle....Good luck to those still waiting! Going to update my timeline now!

[BnK 367]

7 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

my mind was set to live in US but, after thinking so long I think how I am gonna give up everything just killing me. I got 2 promotions that I denied and now I am wondering if it was a good decision to deny it.

it's heartbreaking to see "me, myself" even thought about give up. I didn't understand how couples would easily give up and break up but now I do understand them...oh yes I do ! I am trying my best to distract myself and surround myself with friends, I even travel almost every 2 weeks to distract myself, but the fact I am not getting younger and how many chances I just let it got away it's killing me. Education, maybe mine would be compatible with US but the holidays, social security such as retirement, holidays and others I cant list...oh my God this scare me.

 

I mean, I know and believe in myself that I would get a job ...but I don't want " a" job, I want career.

 

it feels good tho to talk to people that sit in the same boat and understand.. thank you so much !

 

Just like @Little_Vixen my degree may not mean anything in the US.

 

But weve come this far. We were so full of love and so sure when we started this so a few more weeks shouldnt really hurt (but it actually does). The thought of finally going home to the one we love everyday excites me though. Its only a matter of time... God pleasssse!!! 🙏🙏🙏

 

[DonAnn 266]

Seems like my petition got stuck with that one adjudicator that just don't care... most of the cases after mine in the 28200s are still saying received. How can I have a good day these days?? 😠😭😠😭... fine, I'll try not to get upset and think I have bad luck or think that God didn't hear my prayers...☺

[Little_Vixen 1,869]

24 minutes ago, DonAnn said:

Seems like my petition got stuck with that one adjudicator that just don't care... most of the cases after mine in the 28200s are still saying received. How can I have a good day these days?? 😠😭😠😭... fine, I'll try not to get upset and think I have bad luck or think that God didn't hear my prayers...☺

God hears every prayer, sometimes he just has other things planned for you. Maybe you (or your beneficiary) still have something He needs you to do before you can leave. Maybe your presence there will be very important to someone else so you need to stay just a little longer so that part of His grand scheme can work out. We ultimately can't know His plans. But don't worry, your time will come.

[EllyNelly 385]

On 4/23/2018 at 4:23 PM, emekus94 said:

lol
You're not a criminal 
well that shouldn't take long at all! Wishing you a quick process girly

Lol Daalụ ooo.. Same to you sha... 

Apparently technical difficulties 

[DonAnn 266]

9 minutes ago, Little_Vixen said:

God hears every prayer, sometimes he just has other things planned for you. Maybe you (or your beneficiary) still have something He needs you to do before you can leave. Maybe your presence there will be very important to someone else so you need to stay just a little longer so that part of His grand scheme can work out. We ultimately can't know His plans. But don't worry, your time will come.

Thank you for your kind words. You are right because he remains "an on time God" but I just feel frustrated. Hopefully I will NEVER do this process again (been divorced but I'm still young). Have a great day!

[Sarac9 1,122]

I spoke to tier 2. The guy sounded hungover. He literally told me the same thing as the agent I spoke to a few days ago. 

He said I should definitely hear back something within the time limit

 He also said something interesting that cases which get approved past my own filed date could be because they are easier to find information on

I dont get it. 

My fiance and I have no criminal record. No previous marriages, no children. And there are 5 cases above and below my which are yet to be reviewed. W. T. F 

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

7 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

I spoke to tier 2. The guy sounded hungover. He literally told me the same thing as the agent I spoke to a few days ago. 

He said I should definitely hear back something within the time limit

 He also said something interesting that cases which get approved past my own filed date could be because they are easier to find information on

I dont get it. 

My fiance and I have no criminal record. No previous marriages, no children. And there are 5 cases above and below my which are yet to be reviewed. W. T. F 

I do not understand neither!!!! 

[Meisha&Jake 869]

3 hours ago, Sarac9 said:

GOOD LUCK MY FELLOW OCTOBEARS!!!!

@HTMW @jean baptiste @Katri @SONIA AND MICHAEL @BnK @ToniAnn @Christy&J  And many many of us who are diligently waiting! 

God help us all!

Rooting for you all still!! Cmon USCIS 🙏🏻

[Katri 236]

21 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

I spoke to tier 2. The guy sounded hungover. He literally told me the same thing as the agent I spoke to a few days ago. 

He said I should definitely hear back something within the time limit

 He also said something interesting that cases which get approved past my own filed date could be because they are easier to find information on

I dont get it. 

My fiance and I have no criminal record. No previous marriages, no children. And there are 5 cases above and below my which are yet to be reviewed. W. T. F 

And what means within the time limit??

[Sarac9 1,122]

3 minutes ago, Katri said:

And what means within the time limit??

I don't know!! 

I feel like I cant breathe. I really hate this process. I cant do it.