October 2017 I-129F Filers, Part II

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

36 minutes ago, Yulie77 said:

I was hoping to move in the summer break, that would be really good for the children. 

me too 

[CaseyCobos 100]

2 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

I actually really wondering why did you choose K1 ?

also through this process how many times have you fought with your fiancé ?

 

For me, we were debating ourselves either K1 or CR1 but the fact that the whole process K1 ( was ) only 6 months that's why we chose this process. Me and J been having hard time with this process, he is patient but me---it's been rough the fact how I have to gave up my career and promotion due to too long process...today I just found out that one of my coworker got the promotion that supposed  to be mine, he's been working only for few month. it hurts but I accepted it.

J listening to my whining, but at the end he can't do anything- sometimes I am wondering, is it only me or someone out there having the same dilemma too ?

 

hahaha not sure why I am venting now...

My and my fiancé thought K1 would only be 5 months max.. thought it would be the faster road to us being together.

 

Like yours, mine is very patient with me. I nag and complain all the time. Within reason of course, but I’m literally just sitting in limbo here (I’m the beneficiary) I have no home, I got rid of all my things, I sent my cat over.. I just feel stuck right now. Can’t wait for this to be over.

[Sarac9 1,122]

1 minute ago, Christy&J said:

I actually really wondering why did you choose K1 ?

also through this process how many times have you fought with your fiancé ?

 

For me, we were debating ourselves either K1 or CR1 but the fact that the whole process K1 ( was ) only 6 months that's why we chose this process. Me and J been having hard time with this process, he is patient but me---it's been rough the fact how I have to gave up my career and promotion due to too long process...today I just found out that one of my coworker got the promotion that supposed  to be mine, he's been working only for few month. it hurts but I accepted it.

J listening to my whining, but at the end he can't do anything- sometimes I am wondering, is it only me or someone out there having the same dilemma too ?

 

hahaha not sure why I am venting now...

Same dilemma minus the career. I have my own business so it's my fiance who had to give up his but he wasn't happy there anymore and rather move here and look for something new and relevant. 

 

I have fought multiple times with my fiance 

Especially when this who process starts getting to you

 My fiance is the cool headed one so sometimes and i mean rarely when he goes through a period of anxiety and feels upset that's when I feel upset. Because we are so close to getting an approval yet it feels so far away... I feel like both of our lives are revolving around this. Its like this think that keeps scratching at you and it drives a wedge between your relationship. 

 

Thank God he has more patience. 

And having you guys helps too ALOT!

 

[Christy&J 837]

1 minute ago, CaseyCobos said:

My and my fiancé thought K1 would only be 5 months max.. thought it would be the faster road to us being together.

 

Like yours, mine is very patient with me. I nag and complain all the time. Within reason of course, but I’m literally just sitting in limbo here (I’m the beneficiary) I have no home, I got rid of all my things, I sent my cat over.. I just feel stuck right now. Can’t wait for this to be over.

I have sent over my baby boy ( fat little pug ) to the state in September as we thought the latest I would be in US Feb. NO !

 

often I wanna give up, I'm trying to be as positive as I could, but the longer I have to wait with this process, the more I have second thought, the more I got cold feet. don't get me wrong, I love this dude and been with him for over 5years.

the question if US is the right place for me to be has been haunting my head lately, about me give up my career so he can continue his career...

 

Oh God I wish I had someone that could read my head and thoughts...

 

 

[BnK 367]

3 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

I actually really wondering why did you choose K1 ?

also through this process how many times have you fought with your fiancé ?

 

For me, we were debating ourselves either K1 or CR1 but the fact that the whole process K1 ( was ) only 6 months that's why we chose this process. Me and J been having hard time with this process, he is patient but me---it's been rough the fact how I have to gave up my career and promotion due to too long process...today I just found out that one of my coworker got the promotion that supposed  to be mine, he's been working only for few month. it hurts but I accepted it.

J listening to my whining, but at the end he can't do anything- sometimes I am wondering, is it only me or someone out there having the same dilemma too ?

 

hahaha not sure why I am venting now...

Ohhhemmmgeeee!!! So can relate. My boss jst told me last month what my plans are coz the longtime promotion promise may actually happen anytime this year.....but.....of course my mind is already set to OUR future but with all this delay...GOD!!!makes me feel so anxious...ill choose unemployment for a while anytime jst for the love of my life but the feeling of being close to that possible career growth everyday SUCKS!!! i jst wanna move on and not look back.... 🙁😥

 

[Katri 236]

31 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

Yea they are very slow. Last week was a rain of approvals almost every day. You know even if it's not my approval I still like to see a bunch of happy posts. Makes me feel hopeful. 

I feel like I've reached a point where I have accepted the fact that my noa2 is not coming at all. 

I am tired of the feel of disappointment when I check my status and even my mail. And the conservatives say US immigration isn't tough enough. 

Don't lose hope. 

[Little_Vixen 1,869]

4 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

I have sent over my baby boy ( fat little pug ) to the state in September as we thought the latest I would be in US Feb. NO !

 

often I wanna give up, I'm trying to be as positive as I could, but the longer I have to wait with this process, the more I have second thought, the more I got cold feet. don't get me wrong, I love this dude and been with him for over 5years.

the question if US is the right place for me to be has been haunting my head lately, about me give up my career so he can continue his career...

 

Oh God I wish I had someone that could read my head and thoughts...

 

 

I feel you babe. It's tough. I am giving up a very promising career too. My education is worth next to nothing in the U.S. and I have to redo everything down to my freaking drivers license. It gets frustrating. I don't know exactly when to quit my job and still be able to train a replacement. My boss wont hire a new person until he knows when I leave and I won't know that until a few weeks in advance. It's stressful for everybody.

My fiancé and I talked about this just this morning, how hard this process is on a relationship. I told him I'd seen several couples break up while being in the last weeks before their approval. The stress had gotten to them. Its heartbreaking.

I've gone into this process knowing it would be a long haul but still I wonder... Sometimes I wish we had just given in and gotten married in December. But it is what it is and we will sit this one out. We will be with out loved ones soon.

[jean baptiste 337]

19 minutes ago, SONIA AND MICHAEL said:

me too 

oh yes summer  is good for children

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

19 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

I actually really wondering why did you choose K1 ?

also through this process how many times have you fought with your fiancé ?

 

For me, we were debating ourselves either K1 or CR1 but the fact that the whole process K1 ( was ) only 6 months that's why we chose this process. Me and J been having hard time with this process, he is patient but me---it's been rough the fact how I have to gave up my career and promotion due to too long process...today I just found out that one of my coworker got the promotion that supposed  to be mine, he's been working only for few month. it hurts but I accepted it.

J listening to my whining, but at the end he can't do anything- sometimes I am wondering, is it only me or someone out there having the same dilemma too ?

 

hahaha not sure why I am venting now...

it's easy to understand how you feel ... it's a very long process ... that damages our feelings ... 24 hours a day ... we feel ... nerves ... stress ... fear. .. is crazy ... and in many cases ... we have to leave  many things in this way ... lour families ... jobs ... stability ... not easy ... but the reward it is at the end of this difficult process ... we will be with the person we love forever!!! ... 

 

omg!!! sorry for my english 

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

2 minutes ago, jean baptiste said:

oh yes summer  is good for children

[jean baptiste 337]

2 minutes ago, SONIA AND MICHAEL said:

can't wait to see my daughter running around with my fiancee's sibblings children

[Yulie77 49]

2 minutes ago, SONIA AND MICHAEL said:

I’m just getting anxious if we will make it. Here in Germany the summer break is only 6 weeks. I trust we won’t be here in August anymore.....

[Sunrise3 15]

11 minutes ago, Little_Vixen said:

I feel you babe. It's tough. I am giving up a very promising career too. My education is worth next to nothing in the U.S. and I have to redo everything down to my freaking drivers license. It gets frustrating. I don't know exactly when to quit my job and still be able to train a replacement. My boss wont hire a new person until he knows when I leave and I won't know that until a few weeks in advance. It's stressful for everybody.

My fiancé and I talked about this just this morning, how hard this process is on a relationship. I told him I'd seen several couples break up while being in the last weeks before their approval. The stress had gotten to them. Its heartbreaking.

I've gone into this process knowing it would be a long haul but still I wonder... Sometimes I wish we had just given in and gotten married in December. But it is what it is and we will sit this one out. We will be with out loved ones soon.

These are wonderful words!!!

 

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

57 minutes ago, Sarac9 said:

GOOD LUCK MY FELLOW OCTOBEARS!!!!

@HTMW @jean baptiste @Katri @SONIA AND MICHAEL @BnK @ToniAnn @Christy&J  And many many of us who are diligently waiting! 

God help us all!

good luck today Sarac9 !!!!

[SONIA AND MICHAEL 508]

6 minutes ago, jean baptiste said:

can't wait to see my daughter running around with my fiancee's sibblings children

I understand you perfectly!!!! Im sure...  very soooonnn!!!!