Denied entry, overstayed, details and questions inside... PLEASE help..

[irving85 0]

I would like thank everyone that provided input, and I apologize if I some how offended anyone with my responses that was not my intention, as I’m unaware of how things go on this forum, I’m a noob.

 

thanks,

[CEE53147 559]

This thread should serve as a warning to others who consider doing the things OP has done.  It mat=y seem cruel but facts are facts.

[Going through 5,671]

1 hour ago, irving85 said:

I would like thank everyone that provided input, and I apologize if I some how offended anyone with my responses that was not my intention, as I’m unaware of how things go on this forum, I’m a noob.

 

thanks,

One thing you may not realize (or maybe you do) is that everyone in this forum wishes the best for your situation (or wishes it could have been a better situation for you) or else they wouldn't have even bothered to try to point out----at length, by some members---the concrete requirements/what's needed for moving forward....and would have just passed up this thread completely.

 

No one wishes you to never see your parents/family again...we all know what it's like to not be able to travel back to our country of origin when a family member is sick, or dying, or going through something traumatic and your first instinct is to "be there".  Or even the first instinct to "be there" when something joyous is happening.  Please don't discredit even those who may have seemed more harsh in their responses (or gave opinions you did not particularly like)...there's some knowledge to be gained from everything.  

 

Honestly----I wish the best for you, and I hope that you can visit with your parents frequently---just be prepared of the strong possibility for your visits to be within Canada.

[geowrian 22,338]

10 hours ago, Boiler said:

Waivers are currently taking c14 months.

Thanks for the update. Dang...this was closer to only 6 months not that long ago...I'm getting whiplash.

[George & Roth 1,485]

5 hours ago, Going through said:

One thing you may not realize (or maybe you do) is that everyone in this forum wishes the best for your situation (or wishes it could have been a better situation for you) or else they wouldn't have even bothered to try to point out----at length, by some members---the concrete requirements/what's needed for moving forward....and would have just passed up this thread completely.

 

No one wishes you to never see your parents/family again...we all know what it's like to not be able to travel back to our country of origin when a family member is sick, or dying, or going through something traumatic and your first instinct is to "be there".  Or even the first instinct to "be there" when something joyous is happening.  Please don't discredit even those who may have seemed more harsh in their responses (or gave opinions you did not particularly like)...there's some knowledge to be gained from everything.  

 

Honestly----I wish the best for you, and I hope that you can visit with your parents frequently---just be prepared of the strong possibility for your visits to be within Canada.

Completely disagree, many people enjoy berating others as it gives them the sense of power they lack in their daily non-internet lives. Sad

 

As for the OP, if you are in love with a USC just marry them for your quickest entry. Prepare for your marriage to be heavily scrutinized due to your past overstay.

 

Cheers and best of luck

[Nitas_man 3,100]

17 hours ago, irving85 said:

I feel i should clarify a few points and provide some context, maybe your response won't be as bleak..

 

first my parents are in route to become citizens in the coming months, so if they do sponsor me it will be done from parents as citizens, so i wonder if this some what alters your input on question 4. 

 

secondly the reason for my overstay (although still unjustified) was to be around my elderly parents and to care for them, especially my mother who was diagnosed with liver disease couple years prior, thankfully as of today her situation has been stabilized, but not cured.. as mentioned multiple times she is an elderly with limited ability for travel, and i fear a day that i cannot be around in time when most needed..

 

thirdly what do you gain when you provide such a response, that is no way helpful and so discouraging... i was told this site has a great community that is very helpful... i hope other posters are not like you..     

Though the answer might seem harsh it is factual.  The ban is automatic and the timelines for your alternative paths are accurate.  Sorry about your situation.  Overcoming a ban is hard - your parents (and anyone else who petitions you) would have to demonstrate a credible "extreme hardship" which will be very difficult for them to prove.  Based on what you have said extreme hardship to your parents or brother if you are unable to immigrate will be nearly impossible to prove.

 

Many of us waited apart from our spouses and family members for months while our petitions were processed, with no chance of time together unless we ponied up vacation time and tickets and travelled to see them.  Those of us that did shake our heads when we hear stories like this.  We really are your peers and if there was a way to help you we would. 

 

Good luck.

[caliliving 606]

48 minutes ago, George & Roth said:

Completely disagree, many people enjoy berating others as it gives them the sense of power they lack in their daily non-internet lives. Sad

 

As for the OP, if you are in love with a USC just marry them for your quickest entry. Prepare for your marriage to be heavily scrutinized due to your past overstay.

 

Cheers and best of luck

As a Canadian citizen I doubt the marriage would be scrutinized. I know about 3 canadians that got d3nied entry and married with no issue. It's a low fraud country. 

The other thing is Canadians were entered as a D/S which means duration of stay? Their is a part in the rule book that says Canadians entered as D/S are duration of stay and exempt from the 3/10 year overstay. 

[csk2b1 44]

1 hour ago, George & Roth said:

Completely disagree, many people enjoy berating others as it gives them the sense of power they lack in their daily non-internet lives. Sad

:Nod:

[geowrian 22,338]

1 hour ago, caliliving said:

The other thing is Canadians were entered as a D/S which means duration of stay? Their is a part in the rule book that says Canadians entered as D/S are duration of stay and exempt from the 3/10 year overstay. 

Yes, if they were not issued an I-94 then they are considered D/S. But if they were issued an I-94 with a 6 month expiration, then the overstay bar still applies.

[caliliving 606]

7 minutes ago, geowrian said:

Yes, if they were not issued an I-94 then they are considered D/S. But if they were issued an I-94 with a 6 month expiration, then the overstay bar still applies.

Gotcha. So if she goes online and has an electronic i94 then the bar could apply? I know pre 2013 Canadians never got an i94 but things have changed. 

But I agree getting a visa anytime soon will be hard. I know border patrol keeps notes and these will be in their notes 

 

[geowrian 22,338]

4 minutes ago, caliliving said:

Gotcha. So if she goes online and has an electronic i94 then the bar could apply? I know pre 2013 Canadians never got an i94 but things have changed. 

But I agree getting a visa anytime soon will be hard. I know border patrol keeps notes and these will be in their notes

Yes, the I-94 should be online if it was after that started doing electronic I-94s vs the paper ones. It's good to check and confirm at least. It doesn't fix the misrepresentation issue, though.

[Penguin_ie 5,996]

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