Getting Sued using I864 part 2

[seantruce 5]

7 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

Please read the TOS: http://www.visajourney.com/content/terms

Dear Unidentified,

 

Can you please direct me to the paragraph you are referring to?

 

Thank you,

Sean

[seantruce 5]

6 minutes ago, Lemonslice said:

How do you suggest the affidavit of support be rewritten so you are responsible for her then?  Maybe she has some mental disability... Would be convenient to get out and say she's scamming you, no?

It should be rewritten to say if she is able to work, that she is required to support herself and if she refuses to work, that she will lose her status. If that were the case, she would work and support herself. The way it is written now, she would be penalized for working.

[seantruce 5]

7 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

google it. 

To me it seems I am the one being trolled by everyone calling me names and insulting me. I do not think I have insulted anyone. I think that I have a good point to make and that many people here take the other position, because they are protected from working by the affidavit of support and can threaten their spouse when they get in a fight like my wife did. Any wimp I would disagree with her, she would bring up affidavit of support and hold it over my head. Am I making my side of the argument and them people are disagreeing with me, which is ok, but then calling me a 10 year old, that is more trollish.

 

I think I am right and I think that upsets people that benefit from the current i864 policy.

[Emily975 11]

21 minutes ago, seantruce said:

My personal mistake... Ok, I should not have married that girl. Many people make that mistake. If I was divorcing an American I would have already been done paying support by now. If someone wants to be here, they should be required to work and not live off any American.

Dood... You are SO wrong. Like this whole topic just makes my mind.... well, blown.

 

First, please google spousal alimony. Did it? Ok. Any spouse, no matter the nationality, citizenship or immigration status can request to be supported by a spouse AFTER the divorce. Main reason being non-equal financial status or inability for one of the spouses to work. Now if the spouse plainly refuses to work (even if they are capable) a lot of courts will not award alimony until they can prove that they are un-employable (which is NOT easy). 

 

So start with first hings first. Divorce your ex. Hire a lawyer, put stuff in writing. Depends on the state, there is stuff that she is entitled to (like half of what you acquired during marriage), but there is stuff she is not (probably spousal support). If you think you got scammed and you have proof (which by your puffs of hot air it looks like you don't) use that. 

 

And yes, my advice does not have much to do with i--864. Read the other topic - it's really hard to enforce (by the beneficiary), especially since it's between sponsor and the government. If you want to you can leave her to go on the food stamps and other government benefits and then, in xy years get sued by the government (or probably not, who knows). 

 

So stop huffing and puffing about how your government hates you (also, that whole logic is SO flawed it hurts, but I don't have time to discuss it) and how someone else should help you out of a hole you dug yourself into. Take a friggin shovel and start shoveling!

[Muffinji 43]

33 minutes ago, seantruce said:

Then I would be ok with reimbursing the government for services.

 

I am trying to be fair. She is just using the system against me. She told me she would never work and I would have to support her forever. She has no physical reason why she cannot work. She just refuses to because the i864 gives her $30k/year in perpetuity for not working.

I get why you say the system is against you and I totally agree that anyone that wants to stay should work themselves and not leech off someone else,

 

however, I’m not well versed with the laws / judiciary system but if you brought her to court with proper evidence of scam, the outcome might not be what she is threatening you with? :/ but first maybe you should make an appointment at your nearest USCIS office and inform them of her being a scammer and see what they would advice you/ is there anything they can do / put in record so that she will not get her green card renewed? (You will however need proof / hard evidence of this) 

rather than trying to demand for a policy change, I think you should instead try to get yourself out of this mess first. 

Demanding for a policy change will not automatically make your problem disappear. 

I believe the first few replies to your first post have good advice on what you can do now.

Good luck. 

 

If you want to discuss with other members on a policy change maybe you should start a topic somewhere else specifically for discussion on it but if you’re going to be emotional over it and just insisting on changing it with no better solution to the current form - that achieves the objective of the current form and addresses the issues you want to change then it’s pretty much spamming/ trolling. Doing it here in this topic is not appropriate. 

 

Edited March 25, 2018 by Muffinji
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