VAWA, Part 10

[iwillsurvive 254]

8 minutes ago, TexasVAWA said:

1. Asking money for Drugs. eg, weed, coke and ice. My became heavily addicted to ice. 

2. Broke my tooth with beer bottle 

3. Damaged my car. 

4. Threaten me to call cops for no reason. 

5. Doesn't let me to talk to my family and friends. 

6. Talk bad about my family and friends. 

7. Wife's friends also threatened me because of not giving her money for drugs. 

8. My wife threatens me with  a small knife often that she keeps with her all the time. So,  It's really difficult for me to stay in a same place.

9. tries to distract me by threatening when I get busy with my research work. 

 

I have never reported that to cops to avoid the hassle. I have not collected any evidences. I even deleted most of the good pictures and erased lots of good conversation because of I became so upset with this.  I But now it has become really threatening after she hit my tooth with beer bottle. Now thinking about applying for VAWA.  

 

Are these valid reasons to file for VAWA ? Can anybody tell me how can I proceed for this? 

 

Yesa you have grounds for VAWA. I suggest you obtain proof of your spouse’s citizenship/LPR status before you leave and then go to a shelter and file for a restraining order. Block her on your phone and all social media. Then start therapy and start gathering everything you need for VAWA. Search for domestic violence agencies and pro bono lawyers if you can’t afford to pay for one. 

[TexasVAWA 60]

2 minutes ago, iwillsurvive said:

Yesa you have grounds for VAWA. I suggest you obtain proof of your spouse’s citizenship/LPR status before you leave and then go to a shelter and file for a restraining order. Block her on your phone and all social media. Then start therapy and start gathering everything you need for VAWA. Search for domestic violence agencies and pro bono lawyers if you can’t afford to pay for one. 

Thanks. 

[Mnmnm 11]

30 minutes ago, JJ_1017 said:

Congratulations !!! I filed 2 days after you!!! I got my EAD c31 mailed to me July 1st but I haven’t received my approval letter just yet. I hope I’m next!!! Congrats again!!!!!

I didn’t receive any approval letter. I just got an update through email and website. 

You should make a USCIS account. 

Im sure you’re next 😊

Edited July 19, 2018 by Mnmnm

[JJ_1017 19]

I just made an account, So far my update is still on the “your card was mailed to u” message. @Mnmnm Thank you!! ❤️

[Mnmnm 11]

7 minutes ago, JJ_1017 said:

I just made an account, So far my update is still on the “your card was mailed to u” message. @Mnmnm Thank you!! ❤️

 

7 minutes ago, JJ_1017 said:

I just made an account, So far my update is still on the “your card was mailed to u” message. @Mnmnm Thank you!! ❤️

That was my last update until today where it said that “we approved your case”. Yours is coming very soon 😊

[digonyc 46]

On 15/07/2018 at 8:57 PM, Shallovercome32 said:

Hey, 

So I got the the EAD C31 June 28 and the approval letter came July 10.. Hopefully u get yours soon.. Did you do infopass? 

Yes. They said that ill be get the letter in 2 weeks, thank you.

[Dejoy 13]

2 hours ago, JJ_1017 said:

Congratulations !!! I filed 2 days after you!!! I got my EAD c31 mailed to me July 1st but I haven’t received my approval letter just yet. I hope I’m next!!! Congrats again!!!!!

Congrats!!! I filled 2weeks after you pls pray with me no rfe and no prima facie.

[Dejoy 13]

2 hours ago, Mnmnm said:

Hey guys!

i got my VAWA approval today. Keep your hopes up and believe that God will bring you justice. Thanks to this great country for giving us a chance of good life after we have gone through abuse. 

 

 

Timeline: 

• March 15, 2017- mailed VAWA package to VSC
• March 20, 2017 - VSC received mail package 
• April 18, 2017 - receipt notice of I-360 fee waiver received  
• April 19, 2017 - update on website that request for RFE was mailed on April 11. They were requesting Good moral. 
• May 3, 2017 - sent RFE reply: Police report, live scan DOJ California, clearance from all the places within last 3 years before VAWA application & declaration of good moral character 
• May 10, 2017 - Vermont received RFE reply. Update on May 11, 2017 that they will start to continue on my application 
• August 25- interview on marriage-base I-485. Requested to put on hold
• September 14 - sent EAD request to Vermont 
• 9/28- received response from VSC to include fees and pics
• 10/2 - response back delivered ; I-912 included
• 10/16- NOA receipt of EAD
• 10/24- letter that they use old biometric 
• 11/15 - update status that work card was mailed 
• 12/28 - AP application  DELIVERED to VSC
• 06/2018 -EAD c9 renewal
• 06/18/18- Receieved approval notice for AP and I-797 of EAD renewal
• 07/10 - EAD c31 card was mailed to me (I never applied for c31)
• 07/18 VAWA approval 

 

 

Congrats!!!

[Cindygodisgood1 57]

On 7/17/2018 at 7:52 AM, Blackangel said:

180 days today that I went to my interview and no answer yet!! 

At the day, the IO said it was approved, but after, I did an infopass and they said it is pending adjudication. 

It’s so frustrating!!!

Geez ! I hope u get good news soon ! Can you tell me how long after your approval did u get your interview notice ? 

[Ziongirl 269]

Hi guys does it mean that they started adjudication of April cases ? Sandraj do you have any May and April cases adjudicated on your side

[i-need-help-pls 72]

8 hours ago, Tortmaster said:

Congratulations!!! I'm so happy for you. Thank your for sharing your timeline

Congratulations, God bless you more.

[Sandra G. 5,048]

15 hours ago, i-need-help-pls said:

@Sandra Thanks so much.

The evaluation list all what leads to my PTSD

1, After smoking Marijuana she always sexually abuse me while intoxicated

2, She don't allow me to speak my native language { Twi } whenever she is around me and if i do, she will grab my phones and destroy it

3, Call harassment anytime i went out or at work, always check my call log and text

4, Beating me in friends present { at birthday party and relaxation center}

5, Restricted from Family and freinds

6, Time control because she don't have driver licence 

7, Threatening to call immigration whenever we  had argument

He wrote that all of the above leads to PTSD 

 

***** The reason i wrote about cheating is that anytime i got to know about it, she turned it to violence,call me names and increase the abuse. A friend witnessed it and he wrote witness letter. 

 

The evaluation list all what leads to my PTSD

1, After smoking Marijuana she always sexually abuse me while intoxicated

2, She don't allow me to speak my native language { Twi } whenever she is around me and if i do, she will grab my phones and destroy it

3, Call harassment anytime i went out or at work, always check my call log and text

4, Beating me in friends present { at birthday party and relaxation center}

5, Restricted from Family and freinds

6, Time control because she don't have driver licence 

7, Threatening to call immigration whenever we  had argument

He wrote that all of the above leads to PTSD 

 

***** The reason i wrote about cheating is that anytime i got to know about it, she turned it to violence,call me names and increase the abuse. A friend witnessed it and he wrote witness letter. 

It seems that you suffered abuse. To prove bonafide marriage ask your mom or any sibling to write an affidavit regarding bonafide marriage,if they don’t speak English they can write in your native language and someone can  translate,but not you.Most sham marriages families don’t even know if their siblings or sons are married. I had cases that people asked my help and told me their families didn’t know about the marriage and of course I didn’t help them.

[Hope953 37]

Good morning everyone, I just got email that my Vawa Is in card production. I’m a March 10th 2017 filer.

[iwillsurvive 254]

35 minutes ago, Hope953 said:

Good morning everyone, I just got email that my Vawa Is in card production. I’m a March 10th 2017 filer.

Congratulations! Your approval letter will be in the mail soon!

[JJ_1017 19]

12 hours ago, Dejoy said:

Congrats!!! I filled 2weeks after you pls pray with me no rfe and no prima facie.

Praying for you and yours is coming soon!