VAWA, Part 10

[Goyo 68]

1 hour ago, Wifetexas said:

Can you please explain to me what is this mean ? I’m sorry but I don’t understand really well. If you can use simple words. Thanks

It might mean that even if you departure the country with Advance Parole when returning to US you can’t be found to be inadmissible to enter to US. Sandra always advise not to leave the country while you case is pending. There is always a risk and is up to the officer to allow you back. 

[gramercy 141]

What if the vawa is approved and differed action was granted? Has anyone here used AP? If so plz share your actual experiences if you don't mind. Thx

[i-need-help-pls 72]

On 6/27/2018 at 9:29 AM, iwillsurvive said:

Cheating is not grounds for VAWA, so don’t mention her doing that as it will only seem vindictive on your side if you do. 

You will need a professional psychological evaluation as proof that you were mentally abused. The psychiatrist/psychologist

needs to diagnose anxiery/depression/PTSD etc. YOu need to attend at least 5-7 therapy sessions. 

If she is physically attacking you, you need a police report/restraining order/hospital records of your injuries. 

write your own affidavit very well and in-depth. have family and friends of the two of you write witness statements about the abuse they saw. have them notarize their statements. THE more statements the better. 

you will also need to submit proof of bonafide marriage, that you lived together and that you are a person of good moral character. 

Thanks for the advice, When i saw the letter and pictures and i asked her she turn it to violence and calling me names .  We went to music concert with friends and we had  argument inside my friend car ,she slapped me in the present of them. We went to oil change shop and we met uncle there,we had misunderstanding and she slapped me  in his present. she always ask for sex after smoking marijuana or when i am back from work and tired,  etc

With all of the above , she threaten me with deportation and gun.

[i-need-help-pls 72]

16 hours ago, sandranj said:

There is a difference between abuse and unpleasant marriage. To file VAWA based on psychological abuse, the person needs to prove EXTREME CRUELTY.

 

1- Depositing a fake check with her name into the joint account is not considered extreme cruelty.

2-  Going to your Country and meeting another man is not considered extreme cruelty, she is a cheater that is it.

3- Her  ex-boyfriend writing a letter to your wife is not considered extreme cruelty.

 

If she physically abused you then you should submit a police report or a shelter letter or a valid restraining order.

Thanks so much Sandra. 

Thanks for the advice, When i saw the letter and pictures and i asked her she turn it to violence and calling me names .  We went to music concert with friends and we had  argument inside my friend car ,she slapped me in the present of them. We went to oil change shop and we met uncle there,we had misunderstanding and she slapped me  in his present. she always ask for sex after smoking marijuana or when i am back from work and tired,  etc

With all of the above , she threaten me with deportation and gun if i report her to police. i just make police report after separation because she can not see me. 

10 minutes ago, i-need-help-pls said:

Thanks for the advice, When i saw the letter and pictures and i asked her she turn it to violence and calling me names .  We went to music concert with friends and we had  argument inside my friend car ,she slapped me in the present of them. We went to oil change shop and we met uncle there,we had misunderstanding and she slapped me  in his present. she always ask for sex after smoking marijuana or when i am back from work and tired,  etc

With all of the above , she threaten me with deportation and gun.

Thanks so much . 

Thanks for the advice, When i saw the letter and pictures and i asked her she turn it to violence and calling me names .  We went to music concert with friends and we had  argument inside my friend car ,she slapped me in the present of them. We went to oil change shop and we met uncle there,we had misunderstanding and she slapped me  in his present. she always ask for sex after smoking marijuana or when i am back from work and tired,  etc

With all of the above , she threaten me with deportation and gun if i report her to police. i just make police report after separation because she can not see me. 

[Valerie899 80]

1 hour ago, i-need-help-pls said:

Thanks so much . 

Thanks for the advice, When i saw the letter and pictures and i asked her she turn it to violence and calling me names .  We went to music concert with friends and we had  argument inside my friend car ,she slapped me in the present of them. We went to oil change shop and we met uncle there,we had misunderstanding and she slapped me  in his present. she always ask for sex after smoking marijuana or when i am back from work and tired,  etc

With all of the above , she threaten me with deportation and gun if i report her to police. i just make police report after separation because she can not see me. 

You are welcome! That is actually considered physical abuse and mental abuse. You must write a good affidavit, you can search in the internet just put how to write a personal affidavit for vawa. Write as much as you can in how she mistreated you and slapped you infront of your families and friends. You can also attend a psychologist/psychiatrist  and see if he see you have signs of pstd or anxiety and write you an affidavit about it. If you have police reports, have a copy of those as evidence of she doing harm to you. Make all the people who saw she being physically abusive with you, write an affidavit explaining what they saw and addressing she was mean towards you. What you described about sounds like she was bullying you which can count towards mental abuse and also slapping you, which counts as physical violence. Also all affidavits if you can, have them notarized. Wish you good luck! 

[i-need-help-pls 72]

15 minutes ago, Valerie899 said:

You are welcome! That is actually considered physical abuse and mental abuse. You must write a good affidavit, you can search in the internet just put how to write a personal affidavit for vawa. Write as much as you can in how she mistreated you and slapped you infront of your families and friends. You can also attend a psychologist/psychiatrist  and see if he see you have signs of pstd or anxiety and write you an affidavit about it. If you have police reports, have a copy of those as evidence of she doing harm to you. Make all the people who saw she being physically abusive with you, write an affidavit explaining what they saw and addressing she was mean towards you. What you described about sounds like she was bullying you which can count towards mental abuse and also slapping you, which counts as physical violence. Also all affidavits if you can, have them notarized. Wish you good luck! 

Okay, Thanks so much. God bless you more.

[Dharmaraj 81]

Hi wifetexas,

i have travelled in advance parole and came back with out any problem if you have pending case no criminal record or deportation order you can travel and come back.

[Pinkrlion 2,724]

11 hours ago, Florecita_Bella said:

Currently I do not live in the state where I lived before, I ask:

Can the precinct of the state where I live now give me a good moral charter even though I lived in a different state before?

Thanks for your recovery!

You will also need police certificate from your home country if you lived in the US 3 years or less.

[digonyc 46]

9 hours ago, gramercy said:

What if the vawa is approved and differed action was granted? Has anyone here used AP? If so plz share your actual experiences if you don't mind. Thx

 

i did twice. Never a problem!

[gramercy 141]

@digonyc have u also been out of status?

[Cindygodisgood1 57]

Guys anxiety taking over me !! Its been a looooonnnnggg journey when I got a copy of my vawa approval it said it was approved on may the 25th 2018 does anyone know how long it takes for VSC to send it to my local office????

[iwillsurvive 254]

41 minutes ago, Cindygodisgood1 said:

Guys anxiety taking over me !! Its been a looooonnnnggg journey when I got a copy of my vawa approval it said it was approved on may the 25th 2018 does anyone know how long it takes for VSC to send it to my local office????

VSC will usually send your case to the national benefits center within a few weeks. Since USCIS is pretty unreliable when it comes to online updates, you may or may not get a notification. They do typically send you a courtesy notice of transfer though. The NBC usually takes 30-45 days according to Sandra (I am on day 27 after receiving my transfer update). Then the NBC will transfer your case to your local office and the waiting starts all over again. 

[TBoneTX 45,852]

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[Kleenex12 107]

6 hours ago, TBoneTX said:

Some repetitious posts have been removed.  Please post text just once.  Thanks for remembering.

I know right!! Some people just post a lot of repeated things over and over 🙄🙄🙄

[Romero_2000 18]

Congratulations to al the approvals!!! I am a January 2017 filer so I hope I hear something soon. They received my GMC RFE on 5/31/2018. Keeping my fingers crossed and praying a lot. Anxiety hits me that it could be denied but I'm trying to stay positive.

 

 

I have only submitted my I360, no PF only GMC RFE.

 

God bless us all!