i gave up

[cbd2cai 0]

[Nagishkaw 510]

I mean, c'mon now, you got an individual who is sad, confused, missing his wife, dealing with Cairo embassy, come here for support and he gets blazed for posting a picture of his wife? ?? Effortless effortlessly needs to take it's sickness onto OT ....or the comic books where it belongs.

[effortless 0]

You're so right about that! Delusion and dishonesty seem to be the common MO around here. The defensiveness of certain posters in response to such honesty and reality checks really brings out the cracks in their delusional armour though. Could be more helpful than you'd ever know actually. But if you or anyone else has got nothing to worry about in that department, why get all worked up about it?

Seriously, this forum sometimes is just like on the Asian boards, with overweight, balding 50 yr old American guys trying to bring their 24 yr old gorgeous Vietnamese or Filipina fiancees over here, only with the genders reversed. It's true love right, and it's beautiful!

[Becky&Sam 0]

You're so right about that! Delusion and dishonesty seem to be the common MO around here. The defensiveness of certain posters in response to such honesty and reality checks really brings out the cracks in their delusional armour though. Could be more helpful than you'd ever know actually. But if you or anyone else has got nothing to worry about in that department, why get all worked up about it?

Seriously, this forum sometimes is just like on the Asian boards, with overweight, balding 50 yr old American guys trying to bring their 24 yr old gorgeous Vietnamese or Filipina fiancees over here, only with the genders reversed. It's true love right, and it's beautiful!

so so so judgemental you are about everyone. not a very good quality to have IMO.

[Nagishkaw 510]

You're so right about that! Delusion and dishonesty seem to be the common MO around here. The defensiveness of certain posters in response to such honesty and reality checks really brings out the cracks in their delusional armour though. Could be more helpful than you'd ever know actually. But if you or anyone else has got nothing to worry about in that department, why get all worked up about it?

Seriously, this forum sometimes is just like on the Asian boards, with overweight, balding 50 yr old American guys trying to bring their 24 yr old gorgeous Vietnamese or Filipina fiancees over here, only with the genders reversed. It's true love right, and it's beautiful!

You forgot the part about revealing the secret relationship between Willie Horton and David Duke, and what you should do about it.I recommend you get a new teacher with a more intimate understanding of what you need to learn.

[Together4ever 1]

I believe there is something in the TOS about not making remarks such as accusing another member of fraud and such. I'm sure this will get me flamed too. I would happily tell any of these posters what I think of them without holding back, however I don't see much use in it. This is still a forum for those going through the visa process first and foremost and it can be hellish at best for some. I personally think this kind of drivel is just the usual wolf pack feeding on fresh meat. Now go ahead wolf pack and lash away with your typical "you're just a blah blah blah and I think blah blah blah and insult insult insult." Show us all your depth of character. (I get so sick of this smug bullsh*t.)

[~kiyah~ 14]

You're so right about that! Delusion and dishonesty seem to be the common MO around here. The defensiveness of certain posters in response to such honesty and reality checks really brings out the cracks in their delusional armour though. Could be more helpful than you'd ever know actually. But if you or anyone else has got nothing to worry about in that department, why get all worked up about it?

Seriously, this forum sometimes is just like on the Asian boards, with overweight, balding 50 yr old American guys trying to bring their 24 yr old gorgeous Vietnamese or Filipina fiancees over here, only with the genders reversed. It's true love right, and it's beautiful!

May I ask why you are even on an immigration forum to begin with? I see no timeline, no petition filed for, no local office, etc. Exactly why are you here anyway?

A certain blonde that tried to ruin the lives of many VJers and more specifically members of the ME/NA forum last year by posting a bunch of extremely biast ####### on her blog is suddenly coming to my mind.

~Kiyah~

[peezey 0]

You do quite fine, Jean, while acting as if you are above it all, passive aggressive is far more smug than someone who says what they mean and means what they say.

[peezey 0]

May I ask why you are even on an immigration forum to begin with? I see no timeline, no petition filed for, no local office, etc. Exactly why are you here anyway?

A certain blonde that tried to ruin the lives of many VJers and more specifically members of the ME/NA forum last year by posting a bunch of extremely biast ####### on her blog is suddenly coming to my mind.

~Kiyah~

I happen to know this person isn't blonde or a woman, however, since when is a time line and other info necessary to post here and/or have immigration going on in their life? I have never had a time line, and only very briefly listed my location, but thought better of it and removed it.

But carry on with the blinders and the coddling.

[patiently_waiting 0]

OMG! Another hijacked thread.

[~kiyah~ 14]

I happen to know this person isn't blonde or a woman, however, since when is a time line and other info necessary to post here and/or have immigration going on in their life? I have never had a time line, and only very briefly listed my location, but thought better of it and removed it.

But carry on with the blinders and the coddling.

I normally just ignore this kind of #######, but this is exactly the kind of thing that has not only given this forum a bad name, but has driven many users away from VJ altogether.

It is more than quite annoying when you are searching for information that is actually immigration related when you have to sift through a bunch of cat fights between so-called adults who obviously have nothing better to do than lash out at each other in a completely unrelated frenzy. It's all getting really old and quite ugly, it can only be ignored for so long before you either have to speak up or just leave VJ altogether.

I feel really bad that the OP posted this topic is another forum and was asked to also post here by a ME/NA member (as a matter of fact that member was you)...and this is what he gets, put down, his wife put down, etc. This is why I chimed in.

Definitely back to topic please. If more Egypt members have information or encouragement for seka, that is exactly what he needs, and exactly why he came here in the first place.

~kiyah~

[tiredandwornout 0]

I happen to know this person isn't blonde or a woman, however, since when is a time line and other info necessary to post here and/or have immigration going on in their life? I have never had a time line, and only very briefly listed my location, but thought better of it and removed it.

But carry on with the blinders and the coddling.

I normally just ignore this kind of #######, but this is exactly the kind of thing that has not only given this forum a bad name, but has driven many users away from VJ altogether.

It is more than quite annoying when you are searching for information that is actually immigration related when you have to sift through a bunch of cat fights between so-called adults who obviously have nothing better to do than lash out at each other in a completely unrelated frenzy. It's all getting really old and quite ugly, it can only be ignored for so long before you either have to speak up or just leave VJ altogether.

I feel really bad that the OP posted this topic is another forum and was asked to also post here by a ME/NA member (as a matter of fact that member was you)...and this is what he gets, put down, his wife put down, etc. This is why I chimed in.

Definitely back to topic please. If more Egypt members have information or encouragement for seka, that is exactly what he needs, and exactly why he came here in the first place.

~kiyah~

[LaL 418]

I happen to know this person isn't blonde or a woman, however, since when is a time line and other info necessary to post here and/or have immigration going on in their life? I have never had a time line, and only very briefly listed my location, but thought better of it and removed it.

But carry on with the blinders and the coddling.

I normally just ignore this kind of #######, but this is exactly the kind of thing that has not only given this forum a bad name, but has driven many users away from VJ altogether.

It is more than quite annoying when you are searching for information that is actually immigration related when you have to sift through a bunch of cat fights between so-called adults who obviously have nothing better to do than lash out at each other in a completely unrelated frenzy. It's all getting really old and quite ugly, it can only be ignored for so long before you either have to speak up or just leave VJ altogether.

I feel really bad that the OP posted this topic is another forum and was asked to also post here by a ME/NA member (as a matter of fact that member was you)...and this is what he gets, put down, his wife put down, etc. This is why I chimed in.

Definitely back to topic please. If more Egypt members have information or encouragement for seka, that is exactly what he needs, and exactly why he came here in the first place.

~kiyah~

well said Kiyah.

[peezey 0]

I feel really bad that the OP posted this topic is another forum and was asked to also post here by a ME/NA member (as a matter of fact that member was you)...and this is what he gets, put down, his wife put down, etc. This is why I chimed in.

~kiyah~

He got no information in the other forum, and has gotten a ton of information here. I know it must be painful to admit my suggestion to him was a positive one, but there it is.

Let's also not forget MENA forum's reason for existence is not immigration discussion, even though some of that does go on here. Most questions are moved if posted.

Edited May 2, 2007 by peezey

[seka 1]

can any know one explain for me what is this person talking about he speaks English ? is that Englsih guys?