Living hell

[Mike12 0]

 I'm sorry if this is in the wrong area.  I didn't know where to post it. My wife and I have been married here in the United  States for 2 years now. She fights with me almost everyday. Calls me names. She trys to push my buttons all the time. She threatens  divorce. Has stayed out all night... I filed for divorce 7 months ago cause she started a fight with me,cause I didn't agree with her that all people like oral  sex. We was on a trip in Miami  beach. She went off on me. Calling me a cheater and a ####### over and over again.                                                                                              Then silent treatment all the way home. Once we got home,she busted the door in and then took my screw gun and drilled screws into my hardwood floors. Then called her lawyer with me there and told her I was abusing her and wanted a divorce. I walked out and went to stay with my mom for a week. She called police on the 3rd day and said I was  a missing person.. I came back and filed for divorce. She moved out. I found out later the cop that came to r house was calling her daily after that. So I called his supervisor.  Her jobs brings her in contact with cops all day long. I cancelled  divorce and begged her back. Then it got worse.  A woman I dated 3 times years before I met my wife had a child  with her bf.. Then a few years later they broke up. She went after him for child support.  It wasn'  his. They asked her who else and they came after me  . It was mine. I didn't  see or hear from this woman after those first 3 dates. I broke it off with her 2 years before I even started talking to my wife online. Well now my wife calls me a cheater weekly because of it. Tells me im a black p###y eater  . That I have many different women and prostitutes  I see daily. I take this abuse all the time.  I took her back to the  phills cause her mom's  house burnt down. We was gone a month and I took her to many other places. While we was there,she couldn'  find me in the mall. Later at r hotel she said I was cheating on her, and thats  why she couldn'  find me .Back at  the hotel,she kicked me in the chest and shoulder. I couldn't even pick up my arm for a few days after that. Almost daily for 2 years she looks to find things to fight about. She makes up horrible  lies about me and tells her friends that its true and then they hate me. Now last week one of her older friends told her she needs to talk to me more. Well she went nuts on the older Filipina. Then refused to talk to me. Said i betrayed her by talking to her  friend about r relationship. She didnt'  come home for one night. All this time she demands me to pick her up and take her to work. She gives me the silent treatment all the  way there and back. She came home and wanted the code to the WiFi. I told her I dont have it.. She then pushes me 5 times real hard and then slaps  me in the mouth. I call the police. First time in my life. They come over and say there is no marks on my face. They then take pics of my hands front and back. Then they leave. She leaves with them. I took a domestic  violence  restraining order on her the next day. She comes back with the cops to get her stuff a few days later. A younger good looking cop is watching her. U can read body language.  Something is going on with them both. He says to her right in front of me for her to call him. She says ok. They leave. I dissmis restraining  order  one day before hearing.  She comes back the next day and takes all her stuff. Back to the child. She refused to let me ever see her.  Im'  in my 50s. She is in her 30,s. All the sex,hugging and kissing and her youth and beauty has keep me there in this relationship. Now for sometime she has stopped taking birth control cause I'm sure she wants a kid. I do everything else with her so she won't get pregnant. . That makes her angry also.  She wanted me to put her on the deed of my house that   I owned 14 years before her. I wouldn't.  Her friends have husbands with more money which she brings up a lot. I have taken her to downtown New York for 2 weeks. On a cruise to cayman island.. To Disney  world. To San Fran.  Japan,. Back to the Phil's again for a month and many other places during are 2 year marraige.. I paid for her to jump out of a plane and video tape it. I paid her way through school. I bought her a car she doesn drive.  She doesn'  cook,clean,do laundry or add any money to the house. If I ask her,she screams u r broke cause u have to pay all your black prostitutes. The mother of the child is black. I guess that'  where she gets the black part from. She tells all her friends that I gave her a STD. Another lie we have  no std .    She looks through all my stuff. Goes through my truck all the time. She is gone now. She lives for revenge,so I'm sure I'm gonna get served with divorce or something else.       

[Crazy Cat 42,669]

This looks like a troll.......Mods???

Edited February 28, 2018 by missileman

[ThomasNC1988 762]

What is your immigration question?

[Vholde346 351]

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[Penguin_ie 5,997]

**** locked for review *****

[TBoneTX 46,362]

There is no immigration question in either of the OP's threads.  This thread is permanently locked, and the topic is not to be restarted or revisited in any way.  Perhaps the OP should seek counsel/counseling outside this forum.

 

Thread is moved from K-1 Process to the Effects of Major Changes forum, to be paired with the other.

Edited March 1, 2018 by TBoneTX