K1 interview and parents disagreement

[AL-MJD 144]

Something that may help, and again, I'm not sure because I'm not from India and am also not familliar with India's customs. Since your fiancé is more than happy to visit you many times after approval and before the interview, why not ask her to attend the interview with you?

 

If that is not allowed in the US Consulate in India, ask her to wait outside and bring her passport into the interview to show that she has even accompanied you to the interview for moral support.

 

Trust me, it can help tremendously on your nerves during the interview, so you won't be so nervous. Though again, does not guarantee Visa approval.

 

By the way, for all those who decide to post after me, please try to be positive for the OP's sake. I'm sure he understands and is completely and utterly worried about how genuine his relationship looks. I believe there is now enough posts for everyone to understand his position. But the fact right now is that 2 people believe they are in love and are terrified of being denied a Visa, lets console them instead of adding fuel to the fire.

Edited March 1, 2018 by AL-MJD

[Dinesh332 2]

12 hours ago, AL-MJD said:

Something that may help, and again, I'm not sure because I'm not from India and am also not familliar with India's customs. Since your fiancé is more than happy to visit you many times after approval and before the interview, why not ask her to attend the interview with you?

 

If that is not allowed in the US Consulate in India, ask her to wait outside and bring her passport into the interview to show that she has even accompanied you to the interview for moral support.

 

Trust me, it can help tremendously on your nerves during the interview, so you won't be so nervous. Though again, does not guarantee Visa approval.

 

By the way, for all those who decide to post after me, please try to be positive for the OP's sake. I'm sure he understands and is completely and utterly worried about how genuine his relationship looks. I believe there is now enough posts for everyone to understand his position. But the fact right now is that 2 people believe they are in love and are terrified of being denied a Visa, lets console them instead of adding fuel to the fire.

Yes man.. Seriously I feel like I'm getting punished and there is no other way to get there.. Thanks for understanding my situation

[Dinesh332 2]

On 01/03/2018 at 10:43 PM, Dinesh332 said:

Yes man.. Seriously I feel like I'm getting punished and there is no other way to get there.. Thanks for understanding my situation

Our relationship itself is going terrible because of my ... Dont know Wat to do and don't have anyone to tell

[Dinesh332 2]

On 28/02/2018 at 9:35 PM, Amit&Julie said:

I'm agreeing strongly with everything @Going through and @AL-MJD are saying here. Some of the best proof of your relationship will be proof of your in-person visits: boarding passes, hotel receipts, stamps in your passports. That kind of thing.

 

One note: since you don't have parental approval, it could be more difficult to go the K1 route. If you're traveling or spending time in person together by yourselves before marriage and without chaperones, that could look sketchy to the Indian CO. The CR1 may be the wiser choice... 

Does this CR1 ALSO check with my family and things... I'm so much tensed brother.. Dont know what to do 

[Dinesh332 2]

On 28/02/2018 at 9:35 PM, Amit&Julie said:

I'm agreeing strongly with everything @Going through and @AL-MJD are saying here. Some of the best proof of your relationship will be proof of your in-person visits: boarding passes, hotel receipts, stamps in your passports. That kind of thing.

 

One note: since you don't have parental approval, it could be more difficult to go the K1 route. If you're traveling or spending time in person together by yourselves before marriage and without chaperones, that could look sketchy to the Indian CO. The CR1 may be the wiser choice... 

@Amit&Julie does this CR1 ALSO DELAYS WITH MY PARENTS AND THINGS.. SO MUCH TENSION.. PLEASE HELP ME WITH SOME INFORMATION 

[Boiler 46,316]

Might be less stressful if she was the one to move?

Edited March 3, 2018 by Boiler

[Dinesh332 2]

Just now, Boiler said:

Might be ;less stressful if she was the one to move?

I don't know brother... I wish there was some other way to move to USA... She won't be ready to move here to India..... She is asking me now a days why did u made me love you.. I don't have any answer for that..... Something is gonna happen to me 

[Dinesh332 2]

On 28/02/2018 at 9:35 PM, Amit&Julie said:

I'm agreeing strongly with everything @Going through and @AL-MJD are saying here. Some of the best proof of your relationship will be proof of your in-person visits: boarding passes, hotel receipts, stamps in your passports. That kind of thing.

 

One note: since you don't have parental approval, it could be more difficult to go the K1 route. If you're traveling or spending time in person together by yourselves before marriage and without chaperones, that could look sketchy to the Indian CO. The CR1 may be the wiser choice... 

@Amit&Julie can u please tell me whether there will be any checks with my family regarding CR1

[Going through 5,671]

1 hour ago, Dinesh332 said:

@Amit&Julie can u please tell me whether there will be any checks with my family regarding CR1

There are background checks on both you and your fiancee.  The CO will expect your family to know about your marriage considering the country you come from.  Eventually you are going to have to tell your parents about your fiancee/plans on getting married....they don't have to approve, (and your visa cannot be denied based solely on the parent disapproving, if that is your fear) but they should know about it.  

 

Yes, it may shock them.  It will shock them even more if you tell them years down the road after you're already married/she's pregnant.

[Amit&Julie 180]

Dinesh, I know what you and your significant other are going through is hard. I think before you do anything rash, you should keep trying to spend time in person together as much as possible. Bring the family members who are on your side, if possible, when you visit each other. Be 110% sure about this girl before you decide to tell your parents, and consult with your "ally" relatives on the best way to tell them. For example, pick a good time, when you're all relaxed and already in a good mood. Make sure you do have some family members on your side that have met the girl and can help convince the rest of the family that she's good and you two are a good match. "Toot gayi jo ungli utthi Paanchon mili to ban gaye mutthi" and all that. Have a backup plan in case this does not go so well. Assure your parents that you love them also.

 

In short, spend more time with this girl. Get family members on your side. Be patient. You really should tell your parents about her when it is safe for you to do so. Best wishes for you both.    

[WeGuyGal 1,052]

On 3/3/2018 at 12:34 PM, Dinesh332 said:

I don't know brother... I wish there was some other way to move to USA... She won't be ready to move here to India..... She is asking me now a days why did u made me love you.. I don't have any answer for that..... Something is gonna happen to me 

That seems to say just about all. Desperation to get to the US? 

Moving across the world for someone you've met just once, being engaged or marrying a relative stranger is a huge flag. You've still not answered how you two met, has she been married before, does she have any kids? These are things that COs in India look for. 

Edited March 5, 2018 by WeGuyGal