K1 interview and parents disagreement

[AL-MJD 144]

9 minutes ago, Dinesh332 said:

Okay 

1)Boarding passes wen we made a visit

2)hotel bills

3)pictures of our trip 

4)chat logs from Nov 2016

5)chats with her mom and she have made a family group in Facebook wer I chat with her mom, sis 

6)some random emails which we send 

7) screen shots of our video calls and some screenshots of we both called her mom wen we wer on our vacation 

8)we have one love book wer is used to write her letters and things which we wrote wen we wer together Der 

9)images of the package which she send me.. Like 3 or 4 times and which I send her also 

10)*screenshots of call which has duration of hours 

 I think dats it 

I think you are doing really well already, lol.

[AL-MJD 144]

5 minutes ago, Going through said:

You have a lot more than others I've seen on these forums....

He has more than I do lol. But he is from a different and stricter country and culture.

[AL-MJD 144]

7 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

Actually in  my RFE i had to prove (by driving 10 hours to my mom for an  affadivat ) that i has told my mother i was going to marry and i am well over the age of deciding my own life and i am the USC

as for the rings     i would not show photos of exchanging rings /  looks like marriage and you are doing K1 financee

why not just tell them/ let the sparks fly/ you are their child and when you are ready to have children,  most of this will be forgiven

people seem to mellow when grandchilren are there

as for the age 10 years is not that much / we have the big age difference

as for the other above muslim woman / if the man is not muslim (by Islam rules) she is suppose to marry only a muslim man so interviewing in a muslim country this may be an issue

good luck to you both

allah yessir

 

You, my friend, sound like my future hubby. IT'S ALMOST PRECISELY WHAT MY FUTURE HUBBY TELLS ME. 

[Dinesh332 2]

9 minutes ago, Amit&Julie said:

I'm agreeing strongly with everything @Going through and @AL-MJD are saying here. Some of the best proof of your relationship will be proof of your in-person visits: boarding passes, hotel receipts, stamps in your passports. That kind of thing.

 

One note: since you don't have parental approval, it could be more difficult to go the K1 route. If you're traveling or spending time in person together by yourselves before marriage and without chaperones, that could look sketchy to the Indian CO. The CR1 may be the wiser choice... 

I don't know much about CR1, 

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1 minute ago, Dinesh332 said:

I don't know much about CR1, 

It's a spouse visa. Basically, you get married first and THEN apply for a Visa. 

 

If you decide to go with K1, just make sure you don't give proof of your relationship that would make it look like you're already married. Does that make sense?  

[WeGuyGal 1,052]

How'd you two first meet, or got introduced?  Was she previously married?  Does she have kids? 

 

Generally speaking, an Indian man is expected to marry a younger, child-bearing woman, with both families involved in the cultural process. The India-based CO is going to see a 26-yr old Indian male secretly hooking up with a 36-yr old USC female.. without his family involved.. as an attempt to get a green card. That is what a CO will start with. 

[Boiler 46,316]

You have plenty of time during the K1 visit to meet more, involve friends and family.

[JFH 12,191]

15 minutes ago, WeGuyGal said:

The India-based CO is going to see a 26-yr old Indian male secretly hooking up with a 36-yr old USC female.. without his family involved.. as an attempt to get a green card. That is what a CO will start with. 

I agree. Especially as they have only met once (I know, I know it fulfills the requirements .... but wanting to marry someone you've met only once...I couldn't do it and I do get suspicious). 

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19 minutes ago, JFH said:

I agree. Especially as they have only met once (I know, I know it fulfills the requirements .... but wanting to marry someone you've met only once...I couldn't do it and I do get suspicious). 

I have met her only once but hopefully before our interview we will be meeting 3 times.. Does that be helpful

[Dinesh3325 0]

Someone blocked me or something.. I was not able to reply from my original profile.. It's so rude wen someone is trying to get the information and getting blocked.. I created a new profile and im replying from Der guys

[Gul4554 13]

Hi everyone 

Their is any problems with differences?

Just asking 

[Dinesh3325 0]

1 minute ago, Gul4554 said:

Hi everyone 

Their is any problems with differences?

Just asking 

What differences

[Gul4554 13]

Just now, Dinesh3325 said:

What differences

It's not mine but I am just asking if the difference is more than 10 or 15 ?

 

[Boiler 46,316]

Depends, as we say on VJ age is just a number.

[AL-MJD 144]

3 minutes ago, Gul4554 said:

Hi everyone 

Their is any problems with differences?

Just asking 

Wells, my fiancée ever told me that the consulates look for red flags like different customs, age difference, secret relationship among many other things. Sometimes these are the reasons for rejections.

 

They are just preventing fraudulent petitions from getting an approved Visa, and protecting their citizens from fiancé(e)s who are only using the citizens for green cards.