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52 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i have said this many times

you need to know every little and big thing about your spouse

they can say "what books does she read?"

"what color is her house?" 

"what did she eat for breakfast?"

"what is her weather like?"

"where did she study in school/ college?"

and like us, being from a high fraud country,  the USC needs several qualitiy visits / not just a 10 day vacation

giving an example "if the CO says what did she eat for breakfast this morning?   and you interview at  9 AM, they expect you to say "She is not awake yet as the time is 5/6 hours ahead in  your country/   they do not expect you to say coffee and toast

Best i can say is 'DO not give up/ reapply "

we fought immigration for 6 years and he is now here for almost 3 years

But this is not the CO problem or embassy /  they look for several signals when they read the application and test you in interview

for instance they asked my husband "what does your family think?  he smiled and said they love her

CO said "you smile,  you lie"  as the embassy takes all this so serious,  you must also be completely serious

It's true what you are saying , but in a certain circumstances you can't know everything I meant everything about your wife or husband, it's impossible  unless otherwise ; people do lie saying they knew everything I personal don't believe it, they are things you must have know and things beyond your limit.

But that does not mean he or she is not your husband or wife . I hate lie in my life but people do .

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52 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i have said this many times

you need to know every little and big thing about your spouse

they can say "what books does she read?"

"what color is her house?" 

"what did she eat for breakfast?"

"what is her weather like?"

"where did she study in school/ college?"

and like us, being from a high fraud country,  the USC needs several qualitiy visits / not just a 10 day vacation

giving an example "if the CO says what did she eat for breakfast this morning?   and you interview at  9 AM, they expect you to say "She is not awake yet as the time is 5/6 hours ahead in  your country/   they do not expect you to say coffee and toast

Best i can say is 'DO not give up/ reapply "

we fought immigration for 6 years and he is now here for almost 3 years

But this is not the CO problem or embassy /  they look for several signals when they read the application and test you in interview

for instance they asked my husband "what does your family think?  he smiled and said they love her

CO said "you smile,  you lie"  as the embassy takes all this so serious,  you must also be completely serious

It's true what you are saying , but in a certain circumstances you can't know everything I meant everything about your wife or husband, it's impossible  unless otherwise ; people do lie saying they knew everything I personal don't believe it, they are things you must have know and things beyond your limit.

But that does not mean he or she is not your husband or wife . I hate lie in my life but people do .

52 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i have said this many times

you need to know every little and big thing about your spouse

they can say "what books does she read?"

"what color is her house?" 

"what did she eat for breakfast?"

"what is her weather like?"

"where did she study in school/ college?"

and like us, being from a high fraud country,  the USC needs several qualitiy visits / not just a 10 day vacation

giving an example "if the CO says what did she eat for breakfast this morning?   and you interview at  9 AM, they expect you to say "She is not awake yet as the time is 5/6 hours ahead in  your country/   they do not expect you to say coffee and toast

Best i can say is 'DO not give up/ reapply "

we fought immigration for 6 years and he is now here for almost 3 years

But this is not the CO problem or embassy /  they look for several signals when they read the application and test you in interview

for instance they asked my husband "what does your family think?  he smiled and said they love her

CO said "you smile,  you lie"  as the embassy takes all this so serious,  you must also be completely serious

It's true what you are saying , but in a certain circumstances you can't know everything I meant everything about your wife or husband, it's impossible  unless otherwise ; people do lie saying they knew everything I personal don't believe it, they are things you must have know and things beyond your limit.

But that does not mean he or she is not your husband or wife . I hate lie in my life but people do .

52 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i have said this many times

you need to know every little and big thing about your spouse

they can say "what books does she read?"

"what color is her house?" 

"what did she eat for breakfast?"

"what is her weather like?"

"where did she study in school/ college?"

and like us, being from a high fraud country,  the USC needs several qualitiy visits / not just a 10 day vacation

giving an example "if the CO says what did she eat for breakfast this morning?   and you interview at  9 AM, they expect you to say "She is not awake yet as the time is 5/6 hours ahead in  your country/   they do not expect you to say coffee and toast

Best i can say is 'DO not give up/ reapply "

we fought immigration for 6 years and he is now here for almost 3 years

But this is not the CO problem or embassy /  they look for several signals when they read the application and test you in interview

for instance they asked my husband "what does your family think?  he smiled and said they love her

CO said "you smile,  you lie"  as the embassy takes all this so serious,  you must also be completely serious

It's true what you are saying , but in a certain circumstances you can't know everything I meant everything about your wife or husband, it's impossible  unless otherwise ; people do lie saying they knew everything I personal don't believe it, they are things you must have know and things beyond your limit.

But that does not mean he or she is not your husband or wife . I hate lie in my life but people do .

52 minutes ago, adil-rafa said:

i have said this many times

you need to know every little and big thing about your spouse

they can say "what books does she read?"

"what color is her house?" 

"what did she eat for breakfast?"

"what is her weather like?"

"where did she study in school/ college?"

and like us, being from a high fraud country,  the USC needs several qualitiy visits / not just a 10 day vacation

giving an example "if the CO says what did she eat for breakfast this morning?   and you interview at  9 AM, they expect you to say "She is not awake yet as the time is 5/6 hours ahead in  your country/   they do not expect you to say coffee and toast

Best i can say is 'DO not give up/ reapply "

we fought immigration for 6 years and he is now here for almost 3 years

But this is not the CO problem or embassy /  they look for several signals when they read the application and test you in interview

for instance they asked my husband "what does your family think?  he smiled and said they love her

CO said "you smile,  you lie"  as the embassy takes all this so serious,  you must also be completely serious

It's true what you are saying , but in a certain circumstances you can't know everything I meant everything about your wife or husband, it's impossible  unless otherwise ; people do lie saying they knew everything I personal don't believe it, they are things you must have know and things beyond your limit.

But that does not mean he or she is not your husband or wife . I hate lie in my life but people do .

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you can say a person can not know everything but the embassy expects you have talked over a long period of time and grown into a loving and lasting relationship

 it is up to you to prove that and  from your own post,  no 3 you don't know anything about your wife , family and friends 

the "don't know anything"  is the big issue

you can protest the difference of religion as many marry with religious differences as long as you respect the other's faith

you got good advice

i think others have done an appeal but that takes many months even stretches into over a year

reapply,  USC makes another visit or 2

and learn more about the USC and her life  here

also not mentioned but important,  have plans with your spouse for your life here (work or study )

Posted
1 hour ago, kris&me said:

you can say a person can not know everything but the embassy expects you have talked over a long period of time and grown into a loving and lasting relationship

 it is up to you to prove that and  from your own post,  no 3 you don't know anything about your wife , family and friends 

the "don't know anything"  is the big issue

you can protest the difference of religion as many marry with religious differences as long as you respect the other's faith

you got good advice

i think others have done an appeal but that takes many months even stretches into over a year

reapply,  USC makes another visit or 2

and learn more about the USC and her life  here

also not mentioned but important,  have plans with your spouse for your life here (work or study )

That no 3 was what the USCIS wrote to tell me what the Ghana embassy said about me which they did not even ask me at the time for my interview . 

All what I was interview is seven questions which I did stated above , no anything about my wife family or friends or her workplace issues, nothing like that is ask at the embassy at the time for the interview.

Posted (edited)
18 hours ago, Nash Kumasi said:

(6) what is the funniest thing she did recently ?

(7) what do she like most about her city ?

You can’t answer these?

 

How much time have you spent face to face?

 

Did you marry on her first visit?

 

‘3) you don't know anything about your wife , family and friends .’

 

The comma is important (is it there in the denial?) - three groups could be listed (wife, wife family, and wife friends) but they may only be referring to knowing your wife based on the questions above not being answered. 

 

 

Edited by Illiria

K-1 Met:2002 Dating :2003 I-129F Sent : 2013-06-01 I-129F NOA2 : 2013-08-20 Medical: 2013-12-20 Interview Date : 2014-01-22 POE: 2014-02-19 Wedding: 2014-03-18

AOS/EAD Date Filed : 2014-04-04 BioAppt: 2014-05-13 EAD in Production: 2014-07-08 Interview date: 2014-07-14 Green Card received: 2014-07-19

ROC Date Filed: 2016-04-26 Cheque Cashed: 2016-05-10 NOA1: 2016-04-28 Biometrics: 2016-06-30 Approved: 11-08-2016 Green Card Received: 11-18-2016

 

Citizenship Date Filed: 2017-04-18 Cheque Cashed: 2017-04-24- NOA1:2017-04-21  Biometrics: 2017-05-19 Inline: 2017-07-12 Interview Date: 2018-02-13 Oath: 2018-03-15

Posted
6 minutes ago, Illiria said:

You seriously can’t answer these?

 

How much time have you spent face to face?

 

Did you marry on her first visit?

 

 

Really or seriously ! It seems you are out of the contents . Please do read the contents platform very well what I am talking about , not of what you are just asking me pleased . I have no problem with all this questions you just wrote.

Posted (edited)
1 hour ago, Nash Kumasi said:

Really or seriously ! It seems you are out of the contents . Please do read the contents platform very well what I am talking about , not of what you are just asking me pleased . I have no problem with all this questions you just wrote.

Eh? I did read what you have written. 

 

You couldn’t answer questions about the last funny thing you wife said and what she likes about her city, two things that most people could answer even if she doesn’t like her city tell them that she doesn’t and why not. I am sure your wife isn’t serious all of the time and has said something funny or shown you a humorous quote or something she found online?

 

You questioned them putting something they didn’t ask in the revoke and I stated that if the point 3 from them was copied verbatim then they could mean only the part about not knowing the wife based on your interview responses rather than knowing your wife’s family or your wife’s friends. They are known for using standard sentances in these letters so sometimes they might not fit exactly. 

 

I asked those questions as they are things that either lead to people not knowing their spouse or would look bad to the consulate. 

Edited by Illiria

K-1 Met:2002 Dating :2003 I-129F Sent : 2013-06-01 I-129F NOA2 : 2013-08-20 Medical: 2013-12-20 Interview Date : 2014-01-22 POE: 2014-02-19 Wedding: 2014-03-18

AOS/EAD Date Filed : 2014-04-04 BioAppt: 2014-05-13 EAD in Production: 2014-07-08 Interview date: 2014-07-14 Green Card received: 2014-07-19

ROC Date Filed: 2016-04-26 Cheque Cashed: 2016-05-10 NOA1: 2016-04-28 Biometrics: 2016-06-30 Approved: 11-08-2016 Green Card Received: 11-18-2016

 

Citizenship Date Filed: 2017-04-18 Cheque Cashed: 2017-04-24- NOA1:2017-04-21  Biometrics: 2017-05-19 Inline: 2017-07-12 Interview Date: 2018-02-13 Oath: 2018-03-15

Posted
1 hour ago, Illiria said:

Eh? I did read what you have written. 

 

You couldn’t answer questions about the last funny thing you wife said and what she likes about her city, two things that most people could answer even if she doesn’t like her city tell them that she doesn’t and why not. I am sure your wife isn’t serious all of the time and has said something funny or shown you a humorous quote or something she found online?

 

You questioned them putting something they didn’t ask in the revoke and I stated that if the point 3 from them was copied verbatim then they could mean only the part about not knowing the wife based on your interview responses rather than knowing your wife’s family or your wife’s friends. They are known for using standard sentances in these letters so sometimes they might not fit exactly. 

 

I asked those questions as they are things that either lead to people not knowing their spouse or would look bad to the consulate. 

That is how you saw it illlria but I don't see it that way , what about that ? Because those working in the consular they used psycology to determine their judgment in any case but that does not meant everything they do over there it's right or they get it correct ,do you know why because they are a human being and when we said a human being it means ( not hundred percent correct ) .

 

Then Illiria if really you had read my content very well and understood well the basis of that content and at the long last you come with your analysis, it really meant something negative on your ( psycology ) 

 

I never been in the united States first of all , then how can I knew what is going on over there that my wife like about her city ! Don't make fun of your self please.

 

Not answering the funniest thing that my wife did recently doesn't disqualified my privileged for she not been my real wife llliria  or meant I don't know my wife ,

Because she been with me two times in Ghana !

 

Posted
1 hour ago, caliliving said:

How many visits did she have? And for how long? 

What are your age gaps?

 

 

They don't revoke for njothing and you probably had alot of red flags. 

She visited two times and coming again this year in April if God permit , her work in the hospital will not allowed her to stay long with me , so most of the time they gave her two weeks from her workplace to come to me .

I am going to be 49 and she too going to be 44 this year .

So the gab age is 5 years .

I don't have a any red flag but the country does as people used to say , and I don't think it has something to do about my case ,because what I was saying it's different to what some people are asking or telling me .

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7 minutes ago, Nash Kumasi said:

She visited two times and coming again this year in April if God permit , her work in the hospital will not allowed her to stay long with me , so most of the time they gave her two weeks from her workplace to come to me .

I am going to be 49 and she too going to be 44 this year .

So the gab age is 5 years .

I don't have a any red flag but the country does as people used to say , and I don't think it has something to do about my case ,because what I was saying it's different to what some people are asking or telling me .

your age is fine.. she needs longer visits. i know that sucks, but that is what ghana wants. you are at the hardest embassay.  you need to prepare much more and really take the interview seirously! you need to know EVERYTHING about her! seriously study and answer the questions as best you can and not be a smart mouth. not saying you are, but they are interviewing you. 
has she met your family? does your family know about her? do you have pictures with her and your family??? 

Posted
16 hours ago, Nash Kumasi said:

I don't really know what she like about her city , 

This concerns me. Surely it's going to be your city too? Isn't this going to be your home together, where you build a life (and possibly family) together? Surely, as a married couple planning your lives together, you've talked about the area, what the scenery is like there, what there is to do on the weekends, her favourite restaurants, where she goes shopping, if her friends and family live close by....

 

What on earth do you two talk about if it's not each other? 

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I-130 filed: February 5, 2016

NOA1: February 8, 2016 Nebraska

NOA2: July 21, 2016

Interview: December 6, 2016 London

POE: December 19, 2016 Las Vegas

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Interview: March 22, 2021 Seattle

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30 minutes ago, Nash Kumasi said:

That is how you saw it illlria but I don't see it that way , what about that ? Because those working in the consular they used psycology to determine their judgment in any case but that does not meant everything they do over there it's right or they get it correct ,do you know why because they are a human being and when we said a human being it means ( not hundred percent correct ) .

 

Then Illiria if really you had read my content very well and understood well the basis of that content and at the long last you come with your analysis, it really meant something negative on your ( psycology ) 

 

I never been in the united States first of all , then how can I knew what is going on over there that my wife like about her city ! Don't make fun of your self please.

 

Not answering the funniest thing that my wife did recently doesn't disqualified my privileged for she not been my real wife llliria  or meant I don't know my wife ,

Because she been with me two times in Ghana !

 

they dont use psychology! they asked you questions about your wife and relationship with her. and obviously you did not know those.  that makes even a normal person question the relationship. i have not been to my home country in a long time but i know what my mom does for fun and what her favorite parts of the city are and i would be talking to my spouse much more then i talk to my mother.

 

 

Posted
3 minutes ago, caliliving said:

they dont use psychology! they asked you questions about your wife and relationship with her. and obviously you did not know those.  that makes even a normal person question the relationship. i have not been to my home country in a long time but i know what my mom does for fun and what her favorite parts of the city are and i would be talking to my spouse much more then i talk to my mother.

 

 

This is not relevant to the contents pleased 

Posted
8 minutes ago, JFH said:

This concerns me. Surely it's going to be your city too? Isn't this going to be your home together, where you build a life (and possibly family) together? Surely, as a married couple planning your lives together, you've talked about the area, what the scenery is like there, what there is to do on the weekends, her favourite restaurants, where she goes shopping, if her friends and family live close by....

 

What on earth do you two talk about if it's not each other? 

Ok it going to be my city too ,you right but that does not mean I will surely know what she likes most about that city , you all trying to change the real content of which I am talking about  and acting like as if I don't know about my wife !

 
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