Leasing office lost lease

[Unidentified 2,930]

I am putting together our package for ROC. I moved into his apartment in 2015 and was added to his lease and we have evidence of that. The leasing office has managed to lose the lease renewal for 2015-2016 but has the other ones. They did give us a "Resident Charges/Payments Ledger" showing both our names and rent payments and attached a standard piece of paper about how to get information about residents. Will this be enough? Apparently, they told my husband they don't usually give affidavits so I am not counting on that happening. 

[shell20 746]

2 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

I am putting together our package for ROC. I moved into his apartment in 2015 and was added to his lease and we have evidence of that. The leasing office has managed to lose the lease renewal for 2015-2016 but has the other ones. They did give us a "Resident Charges/Payments Ledger" showing both our names and rent payments and attached a standard piece of paper about how to get information about residents. Will this be enough? Apparently, they told my husband they don't usually give affidavits so I am not counting on that happening. 

You will be fine.  I didn't  have a joint lease with my husband nor was I on the mortgage or such. I sent my package with no joint bills, no joint mortgage/rent because our life together and circumstances dictated we couldnt do that. I enclosed a covering letter regarding this and if that's not enough for them, then there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I can't manifest something out of thin air unfortunately. I don't know if I will get an RFE or a interview or such, but what I do know is that you have clear evidence of a joint residential/marital home together. Please try not to fret, although I know this harder said than done. 

[ApplyingforN400 126]

16 hours ago, shell20 said:

You will be fine.  I didn't  have a joint lease with my husband nor was I on the mortgage or such. I sent my package with no joint bills, no joint mortgage/rent because our life together and circumstances dictated we couldnt do that. I enclosed a covering letter regarding this and if that's not enough for them, then there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I can't manifest something out of thin air unfortunately. I don't know if I will get an RFE or a interview or such, but what I do know is that you have clear evidence of a joint residential/marital home together. Please try not to fret, although I know this harder said than done. 

Wait why in the world are you telling someone you will be fine BEFORE you got approved. 

 

We know you cant manifiest commingling of finances and Im not going to say you will get deported, but what you mentioned is EXACTLY how you get an RFE, then possibly intent to deny then possibly court order, then possibly deportation. USCIS can not know whats in your heart when it comes to love, they only know that those that love each other go above and beyond to produce certain paperwork to prove their unconditional love. While I dont like to scare people, I also dont like people like you to come here and tell others theyll be fine if they submit nothing while YOU DIDNT EVEN GET APPROVED YET

[Ketsuban 1,034]

I would attach what you have and in your covering letter, explain what happened.

[shell20 746]

2 hours ago, ApplyingforN400 said:

Wait why in the world are you telling someone you will be fine BEFORE you got approved. 

 

We know you cant manifiest commingling of finances and Im not going to say you will get deported, but what you mentioned is EXACTLY how you get an RFE, then possibly intent to deny then possibly court order, then possibly deportation. USCIS can not know whats in your heart when it comes to love, they only know that those that love each other go above and beyond to produce certain paperwork to prove their unconditional love. While I dont like to scare people, I also dont like people like you to come here and tell others theyll be fine if they submit nothing while YOU DIDNT EVEN GET APPROVED YET

Because I actually watch cases similar and have for a year now. Deportation and such now who is trying to scare who. RFE I have been expecting or an interview. I'm am trying to give reassurance to this person and I've seen plenty of people with less approved, what are you doing, apart from spreading your nastiness?

[ApplyingforN400 126]

1 minute ago, shell20 said:

Because I actually watch cases similar and have for a year now. Deportation and such now who is trying to scare who. RFE I have been expecting or an interview. I'm am trying to give reassurance to this person and I've seen plenty of people with less approved, what are you doing, apart from spreading your nastiness?

Nobody is spreading nastiness, deportation is a reality and LAW if you cant prove your marriage is real. 

 

You didnt even tell the person what you included in your letter as an explanation for why you dont have a lease. While they are fine for missing a year, not having joint lease can be very problematic for people. 

[shell20 746]

2 hours ago, ApplyingforN400 said:

Nobody is spreading nastiness, deportation is a reality and LAW if you cant prove your marriage is real. 

 

You didnt even tell the person what you included in your letter as an explanation for why you dont have a lease. While they are fine for missing a year, not having joint lease can be very problematic for people. 

Oh and just to let you know got my approval letter around 5 mins ago, no rent lease/mortgage, joint bills, no RFE.  

[ApplyingforN400 126]

14 minutes ago, shell20 said:

Oh and just to let you know got my approval letter around 5 mins ago, no rent lease/mortgage, joint bills, no RFE.  

 

28 minutes ago, shell20 said:

Oh and just to let you know got my approval letter around 5 mins ago, no rent lease/mortgage, joint bills, no RFE.  

Congrats, but I also know this is the internet and I should take everything with a grain of salt. 

 

You're an adult, act like it, its not a competition, even if you got approved without commingling of finances, no one is going to see your post and decide to go against USCIS guidelines on what they expect to see with an application. 

 

To the rest reading, continue collecting as much evidence as you can. 

[shell20 746]

1 minute ago, ApplyingforN400 said:

 

Congrats, but I also know this is the internet and I should take everything with a grain of salt. 

 

You're an adult, act like it, its not a competition, even if you got approved without commingling of finances, no one is going to see your post and decide to go against USCIS guidelines on what they expect to see with an application. 

 

To the rest reading, continue collecting as much evidence as you can. 

I am not going to waste my energy on this conversation. I prefer to remain positive and my positive attitude has seen me through this journey with no RFE's thus far.   If you don't mind I shall leave you to your negative comments and enjoy my approval letter.

[Unidentified 2,930]

On 2/23/2018 at 3:24 PM, shell20 said:

You will be fine.  I didn't  have a joint lease with my husband nor was I on the mortgage or such. I sent my package with no joint bills, no joint mortgage/rent because our life together and circumstances dictated we couldnt do that. I enclosed a covering letter regarding this and if that's not enough for them, then there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I can't manifest something out of thin air unfortunately. I don't know if I will get an RFE or a interview or such, but what I do know is that you have clear evidence of a joint residential/marital home together. Please try not to fret, although I know this harder said than done. 

 

 

5 hours ago, Ketsuban said:

I would attach what you have and in your covering letter, explain what happened.

Thank you guys. I attached what I have and sent it in yesterday. It is what it is, can't send in something I don't have and hopefully we have enough of other evidence of co-mingling that they will be happy and approve us. 

[shell20 746]

10 minutes ago, Unidentified said:

 

 

Thank you guys. I attached what I have and sent it in yesterday. It is what it is, can't send in something I don't have and hopefully we have enough of other evidence of co-mingling that they will be happy and approve us. 

Absolutely you can only send what you have!! It's not just about the rent agreement, they take into account all other co mingling evidence. As you know I didn't have rent/mortgage or any utility bills in my name. We did have a joint bank account that really was rarely used, money was some times transferred from my husbands other account. I guess the thing that got us through was the fact I was on his medical, tax returns and we sent receipts in of such things like buying a dishwasher in my name, plus letters addressed to me at the house, letters addressed to him at the same address, medical bills, photographs together and a couple of affidavits (only 2 if memory serves me correct). The main thing, which is important is I did was write a cover letter and explain the situation and today I was approved with no rfe nor interview. 

 

 Good luck and I hope you don't wait too long for your approval!

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

**** enough with the arguing.  Reply with constructive advice (or personal experiences!) written in a polite manner, or do not post. *****

[NinjaMax 14]

1 hour ago, shell20 said:

Absolutely you can only send what you have!! It's not just about the rent agreement, they take into account all other co mingling evidence. As you know I didn't have rent/mortgage or any utility bills in my name. We did have a joint bank account that really was rarely used, money was some times transferred from my husbands other account. I guess the thing that got us through was the fact I was on his medical, tax returns and we sent receipts in of such things like buying a dishwasher in my name, plus letters addressed to me at the house, letters addressed to him at the same address, medical bills, photographs together and a couple of affidavits (only 2 if memory serves me correct). The main thing, which is important is I did was write a cover letter and explain the situation and today I was approved with no rfe nor interview. 

 

 Good luck and I hope you don't wait too long for your approval!

My ROC window is coming up in April, I am hoping we have enough evidence. I would like your input on it please if you dont mind.

What we have:

- Joint Car ownership
- Joint Auto Insurance
- Joint Chequing account, 1+ year of transaction history
- Pictures from family vacations, possibly airline tickets if we have find them
- We are on the same phone plan together with my wife's parents on it aswell (mother in law's plan)
- New Jersey Drivers licences showing the same address

Thats pretty much it, we do not have a lease in our names because its in my mother in law's name, shes leasing the place for us. Do we need a letter explaining this?

Is it too late to open up a joint credit card or put me as a user on my wifes existing credit cards?

Thank you for your time! Congrats on your approval

[shell20 746]

3 hours ago, NinjaMax said:

My ROC window is coming up in April, I am hoping we have enough evidence. I would like your input on it please if you dont mind.

What we have:

- Joint Car ownership
- Joint Auto Insurance
- Joint Chequing account, 1+ year of transaction history
- Pictures from family vacations, possibly airline tickets if we have find them
- We are on the same phone plan together with my wife's parents on it aswell (mother in law's plan)
- New Jersey Drivers licences showing the same address

Thats pretty much it, we do not have a lease in our names because its in my mother in law's name, shes leasing the place for us. Do we need a letter explaining this?

Is it too late to open up a joint credit card or put me as a user on my wifes existing credit cards?

Thank you for your time! Congrats on your approval

Tax returns are important do you have them?. You know something, I didn't even have a driving licence, no insurance. What I sent was a joint account, but the joint account was not really active. I sent every receipt from my husband over the years, he is an accountant.

 

I sent mail received by him at the same address, mail to me, cards, credit card bills (we don't have a joint credit card bill). I sent me on his medical insurance and all medical bills. receipts. I did not send life insurance although I am on it , there is no statement, however you can send a window shot of it, if no statement. I sent pictures lots of pictures of our family at Christmas, airline tickets. 

 

I sent 10lbs of evidence, none of a joint mortgage, rent nor utility bills. I can't do that if I am not on them.  

 

What else did we send? Hmm, tax returns, medical bills, cards from my family and friends, joint Christmas cards, his mail, my mail, photos ,  receipts for workmen I paid for and a dishwasher  and just normal every day life things. 

 

So you have so much more than I did. However, what I did do was write a cover letter, explaining our situation without going into the personal reasons. Had they asked with an RFE I would have explained our situation in more detail.  Did I expect a RFE, yes I did and that is transparent in my old posts,  an interview crossed my mind, but you know what,  they are not stupid people at the USCIS ,they tend to know a genuine case when they see one and they DO read that cover letter. You will be fine, I got told off for that today for saying that, but hey ho, I know your case  is genuine and I am not a USCIS representative. Good luck.

[NinjaMax 14]

14 minutes ago, shell20 said:

Tax returns are important do you have them?. You know something, I didn't even have a driving licence, no insurance. What I sent was a joint account, but the joint account was not really active. I sent every receipt from my husband over the years, he is an accountant.

 

I sent mail received by him at the same address, mail to me, cards, credit card bills (we don't have a joint credit card bill). I sent me on his medical insurance and all medical bills. receipts. I did not send life insurance although I am on it , there is no statement, however you can send a window shot of it, if no statement. I sent pictures lots of pictures of our family at Christmas, airline tickets. 

 

I sent 10lbs of evidence, none of a joint mortgage, rent nor utility bills. I can't do that if I am not on them.  

 

What else did we send? Hmm, tax returns, medical bills, cards from my family and friends, joint Christmas cards, his mail, my mail, photos ,  receipts for workmen I paid for and a dishwasher  and just normal every day life things. 

 

So you have so much more than I did. However, what I did do was write a cover letter, explaining our situation without going into the personal reasons. Had they asked with an RFE I would have explained our situation in more detail.  Did I expect a RFE, yes I did and that is transparent in my old posts,  an interview crossed my mind, but you know what,  they are not stupid people at the USCIS ,they tend to know a genuine case when they see one and they DO read that cover letter. You will be fine, I got told off for that today for saying that, but hey ho, I know your case  is genuine and I am not a USCIS representative. Good luck.

Thank you for responding.

We dont have any tax returns, we were kind of being supported by our families during this whole process to help us get our things together. My wife was in school and I started work just recently (I am the beneficiary)

I do not have medical insurance but my wife is on her mothers plan.

So you're saying that sending mail that we both receive to the same address qualifies as evidence? even though both our names do not appear on the same pieces of mail?

Thats why I am including copies of our drivers licences with the same address, as you have to prove to the Motor Vehicle Commission that you received mail to that address and we both did.