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[Kelvin Ly 0]

put her to work .

when my fiancee comes here i will put her in a nail shop. working 12 hours/day will cure the homesickness.

Thai,

ehhehe, that what you thought heh? Have you hear a lot of horror stories about wife working in the Nail shop? hahah, if you have not then, give it a shot then you will see. How your life will be miserable? Nail Shop is the worst environment to have your love one work in there. There are so many noisy and low class people work there. All they do are 8 and talk on other people business.. If you want trouble, then try it. For me, I will not do that. I dont' want another BS from those crowd of people. Other thing is the health of your love one, cuz those Nail Chemical is not good for the SKin and Health.

Home sickness will take time to cure it.

Yeah, I hear ya . I think I should run some porn sites and have her updated them for me on a daily basic. that way she won't get bored at work and making some good money for the family in NAM . she's been taken care of her family since she was 11 years old. poor chick . I will call her up tonight and ask her to take some computer class. like programming or web designs etc .. tons of money to be made online .

P.s maybe di buon ba'n is another option ....like buy the stuffs for cheap and sell them back for a higher price .

To Thai

I'm not sure if you're serious or joking. If you're serious, then I don't see how an 11-year-old girl can take care A family. What kinda work an 11-year-old girl could do, or how much money she could make to support a family? And if she's been busy "taking care" of her family, what about her school? Did she stop going to school in order "to work" to support the family? Then she can just go ahead and take "some computer class, like programming or web design"? Can anybody just go ahead making tons of money online by taking "some computer class" like programming or web design? I don't see that happening, my friend.

How about "buon ban", buying stuff for cheap and sell them back for a higher price? I think EVERY single person on this planet unsderstand this "philosophy". At least, you too, know this basic concept in business. But HOW, is another complete different story.

I read some of your post, you just make a fool out of yourself (both when you are seriously and joking).

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To CK&Tydi

I believe your "horror stories" about Vietnamese Nail Salon. I think some of them are true, maybe most of them. But again, as Vietnamese immigrants, we are the minority in this "hot pot" country, we are sometimes the victims of prejudice. Why making a stereotype among ourself? You can not say that all manicurist/pedicurist are low class. How do you define "low class"? You look down on those people who did not have a chance of education like you and have a good job like you? Then higher-class-people (compare to you) with better jobs and more money than you will look down you you, and so on. I don't care what you do, how much money you make, or what kinda job you do, as long as you process good morals, good principles, and values, you will be respected. If you drive a nice car, live in a beautiful big house, and you're a jackass, then sorry, you' belong with other jackass(es).

For nail people, it's a hard job. You need to work hard to earn that good money. Because it's an easy-to-learn and quick-to-make-good-money job, many people have been rushing into this field. Sinnce there are many many people, there are many kinds of people. In such environments, you need to classify what is good to learn and what is bad to avoid. In other fields, it's the same thing.

My point is don't prejudice certain group of people just because of what they do. Look at yourself first before judging other people.

Edited May 29, 2007 by Kelvin Ly