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[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

7 minutes ago, S20181314 said:

ya. my lawyer told me that it is very important for your wife to submit sufficient evidence. to be honest, I also worry about my husband's future interview. Lol. Even our relationship is valid...

lol..

 

 

 

best wishes for you! try to let your wife write another letter to the CO. and bring it to the interview...

Thank you very much.  I will tell my wife to write to them and we have so many evidence and the Co have it too.  The conversations letter I will be going with, is also a good evidence my dear friend. 

Thank you very much and where is your husband.  Lol.  Do not worry Okay.  All will goes well by God grace 

 

[Boiler 46,322]

How many times have you met?

[S20181314 1]

Just now, Bleek Emmanuel Ja said:

 

He is in China. And i just got back from China. I file my I130 in April. And I still did not receive approval letter. I wish my husband can care bout our case just like you care about yours. I mean he does care. But He knows nothing about immigration. I went to China 5 time in 2 years. Since i am s student. And i know how hard it is to live separate from spouse. It affects me a lot. Every time i came back from China. I will book my next flight immediately. I can't image if I were you, 6 years. It's a long time and I hope CO can understand it too. I really want to ask them how many 6 year does someone have in life. 

 

Best wishes for you

Do your part and God will does the rest. 

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

4 minutes ago, Boiler said:

How many times have you met?

 

4 minutes ago, Boiler said:

How many times have you met?

We have met just once and we got married when we met because the consular ask us to do that when they denied me on the k1 visa because we have not met before she file for it just because she was so sick and she can't come by then Okay.  I don't think the how many time we have met matters to them since we have married Okay. 

 

[S20181314 1]

19 minutes ago, Bleek Emmanuel Ja said:

 

 

Awesome. How long did your K3 took? And how long for CR1?

[JFH 12,191]

6 hours ago, Bleek Emmanuel Ja said:

We have being dating for 6 years now and we got married when we were 5 years. 

Well, that's a stretch really. You only saw her for the first time in your life a little over a year ago. You mean you were talking or emailing for 6 years. 

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

First application was a K1 / they could not appeal

 

we need to know what country / embassy you will go to

very important

and yes,  most of the time the age difference is an issue and may require several applicaitons and proof to get a visa approved 

you need several visits for many embassies to approve like ours

all i can suggest for this interview is to be well prepared / some embassies don't look at the emails or chats / they look at your honesty

quick response to simple questions like "what is her favorite color?" / they can ask the stupidest of questions like they asked my husband what color was my carpet / he did know i just put in hardwood floors 

be confident that you know her well 

be prepared to show love and be responsible for her feelings

know what future plans you have like will you study or work here in the USA

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

Thank you all for your replies and good encouragement for the preparation of my interview.  I will surly come back with a positive answer and testify to you all.  Amen. 

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

20 hours ago, Boiler said:

How many times have you met? We have met twice.  The first time is just for visiting and the second time is when the marriage take place 

 

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

18 hours ago, adil-rafa said:

First application was a K1 / they could not appeal

 

we need to know what country / embassy you will go to

very important

and yes,  most of the time the age difference is an issue and may require several applicaitons and proof to get a visa approved 

you need several visits for many embassies to approve like ours

all i can suggest for this interview is to be well prepared / some embassies don't look at the emails or chats / they look at your honesty

quick response to simple questions like "what is her favorite color?" / they can ask the stupidest of questions like they asked my husband what color was my carpet / he did know i just put in hardwood floors 

be confident that you know her well 

be prepared to show love and be responsible for her feelings

know what future plans you have like will you study or work here in the USA

Thank you very much and I really appreciate your encouragement and your light. 

 

[ASMS 86]

21 hours ago, Bleek Emmanuel Ja said:

 I don't think the how many time we have met matters to them since we have married Okay. 

 

Well it matters in fact, even if you are married. Many couples were denied at the interview  after being married.

 

I know what you mean by true love, and what is being separated from the person that you love.

But the Consular officer won't care about that, you need to actually provide enough evidence of the marital union, and evidence of bonafide relationship, and all the opinions and questions you had received in here are very important if both of you want to be prepared for the interview.

 

So I suggest you to mention the country for example, and to list what kind of evidence you are taking with you to the interview. In that way you will receive more appropriate and helpful opinions.

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

53 minutes ago, ASMS said:

 

Well it matters in fact, even if you are married. Many couples were denied at the interview  after being married.

 

I know what you mean by true love, and what is being separated from the person that you love.

But the Consular officer won't care about that, you need to actually provide enough evidence of the marital union, and evidence of bonafide relationship, and all the opinions and questions you had received in here are very important if both of you want to be prepared for the interview.

 

So I suggest you to mention the country for example, and to list what kind of evidence you are taking with you to the interview. In that way you will receive more appropriate and helpful opinions.

 

53 minutes ago, ASMS said:

Thank you,  I have the marriage pictures,  I have our conversations from 2013 till today,  and I also know much about my wife.  And she as being here twice.  So what kind of evidence and proof do you think I should go to the interview with apart from the ones I  have with me now.  I have the marriage certificate too. My mother and wife was shown in the photo and my friends.   Am not scared or feeling any kind of way Okay.  juse want to know if am good to go, that's all. 

 

Edited January 21, 2018 by Bleek Emmanuel Ja

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

6 minutes ago, Bleek Emmanuel Ja said:

 

Pictures of marriage,  marriage certificate,  Facebook conversations upto date,  and I can tell much about my wife.  And the country is Nigeria Okay 

Pictures 

Edited January 21, 2018 by Bleek Emmanuel Ja

[ASMS 86]

Don't be scared, but Lagos is a very very tough embassy.

I recommend you to read all the reviews in visajourney for that consulate.

 

Is good that you can show proof of communication since the start of the relationship. Take with you not just the pictures of the wedding, but apictures of both of you together in both visits, with the receipts and passport stamps. The marriage certificate is important, but is not evidence of bonafide marriage.

Joint bank accounts are good evidence in case you have it.

[Bleek Emmanuel Ja 1]

2 hours ago, ASMS said:

Don't be scared, but Lagos is a very very tough embassy.

I recommend you to read all the reviews in visajourney for that consulate.

 

Is good that you can show proof of communication since the start of the relationship. Take with you not just the pictures of the wedding, but apictures of both of you together in both visits, with the receipts and passport stamps. The marriage certificate is important, but is not evidence of bonafide marriage.

Joint bank accounts are good evidence in case you have it. 

I have a joint bank account with my wife.