June 2017 I-129F Filers, Part III

[John & Rose 7,239]

12 minutes ago, Jaquelly said:

Complaining can just be things like, UGH we have been waiting SO long. Which, you know, is normal, but it has happened in the October thread LOL

October filers in the 120 days of waiting range and complaining should talk to @Trinab80.  Today is their 272 with no RFE, I believe.  Trinab80 are complete saints and complaining at 120 days really is not even half of what they have faced.  My prayers and support go to the 100%.

[KBA 542]

24 minutes ago, John & Rose said:

Yes it is.  That was perfectly stated, though.  I cannot even imagine my approval now.  I try to help some of the later filers but I think some of my frustration still leaks out.  I am afraid of the next step.  Right now I know how to wait.  Rose and I are doing that great.  What next???  Unknown and at this point, not even in the realm of possibility in my head.

Yes, we’ve gotten a bit “paralyzed” with prepping for the next steps while waiting this out...I should be super organized and ready but this wait has been defeating 

[John & Rose 7,239]

2 minutes ago, KBA said:

Yes, we’ve gotten a bit “paralyzed” with prepping for the next steps while waiting this out...I should be super organized and ready but this wait has been defeating 

We were too organized.  I'm worried we will need a new CENOMAR (Certificate of No Marriage - required in the Philippines) and new Philippine police certs...we were so proud to get those and have them ready.  Now they are going to expire!

[Meisha&Jake 869]

36 minutes ago, Jaquelly said:

 

I believe you are the same one who told me that you didn't like my negative attitude in the October thread about a month ago.

 

Those of us who have been here for a while (re: since before August of last year) have seen the process go on so many times that we're insensitive to the 'newer' months complaining about the process.

 

Complaining can just be things like, UGH we have been waiting SO long. Which, you know, is normal, but it has happened in the October thread LOL

Yeah because we dont want to read negativity?! 

 

You dont need to explain how long youve been waiting, we can all read.

 

Theres so much petty biccur in these threads, like its a competition?

[Jaquelly 1,647]

2 minutes ago, Meisha&Jake said:

Yeah because we dont want to read negativity?! 

 

You dont need to explain how long youve been waiting, we can all read.

 

Theres so much petty biccur in these threads, like its a competition?

 

We can all read, you're so correct. However, if you're trying to cut me down or make me feel stupid through a computer screen, you're going to have to get in line, sister. I'm not here to make you feel better about the fact that people before you are frustrated. If anything, you should have some empathy and not come in here to start a fight. 

 

You don't like that people are honest and true about the delays that might occur. You don't like that we don't sugar coat things. You chose to come in here and start a discussion about this, when you could have just closed the tab and walked away. Instead, you came in here with YOUR pride and want to start an argument? LOL get out of here.

 

[LydiaP 215]

6 minutes ago, Meisha&Jake said:

Yeah because we dont want to read negativity?! 

 

You dont need to explain how long youve been waiting, we can all read.

 

Theres so much petty biccur in these threads, like its a competition?

Please leave the June thread. It's hard enough hearing about people months after us who are impatient and negative, we certainly don't need, nor want, you here.

[Meisha&Jake 869]

1 minute ago, Jaquelly said:

 

We can all read, you're so correct. However, if you're trying to cut me down or make me feel stupid through a computer screen, you're going to have to get in line, sister. I'm not here to make you feel better about the fact that people before you are frustrated. If anything, you should have some empathy and not come in here to start a fight. 

 

You don't like that people are honest and true about the delays that might occur. You don't like that we don't sugar coat things. You chose to come in here and start a discussion about this, when you could have just closed the tab and walked away. Instead, you came in here with YOUR pride and want to start an argument? LOL get out of here.

 

Sorry where have i said i dont like the delays that occur?

 

Its the fact @John & Rose came in here & said “October filers are complaining” & i simply said not all of us are

 

I have empathy for everyone during this process, it absolutely sucks that some are waiting much much longer than others but why are so many comparing themselves, it causes negativity??

[Meisha&Jake 869]

2 minutes ago, LydiaP said:

Please leave the June thread. It's hard enough hearing about people months after us who are impatient and negative, we certainly don't need, nor want, you here.

Exscuse me?! Maybe you want to read the October thread, i never asked @John & Rose & @Jaquelly to leave there!

[Jaquelly 1,647]

Just now, Meisha&Jake said:

Sorry where have i said i dont like the delays that occur?

 

Its the fact @John & Rose came in here & said “October filers are complaining” & i simply said not all of us are

 

I have empathy for everyone during this process, it absolutely sucks that some are waiting much much longer than others but why are so many comparing themselves, it causes negativity??

 

I am not going to continue to play stupid with someone who has come into another thread, one where people before them have been waiting AGES for their process to continue. 

 

I tell you what. You come back after your day 200, 220, 230. 260. You tell me how much you know then. You're rude, and you coming in here to say you don't like that they don't like that other people complaining is incredibly immature, given the situation.

[LydiaP 215]

1 minute ago, Meisha&Jake said:

Sorry where have i said i dont like the delays that occur?

 

Its the fact @John & Rose came in here & said “October filers are complaining” & i simply said not all of us are

 

I have empathy for everyone during this process, it absolutely sucks that some are waiting much much longer than others but why are so many comparing themselves, it causes negativity??

Why would you come in here and say that? You attempted to undercut his credibility by quickly jumping to the "not all of us!" point. He didn't say "all of the October filers are complaining" so you should not have said anything.

1 minute ago, Meisha&Jake said:

Exscuse me?! Maybe you want to read the October thread, i never asked @John & Rose & @Jaquelly to leave there!

Reported.

[Meisha&Jake 869]

Just now, Jaquelly said:

 

I am not going to continue to play stupid with someone who has come into another thread, one where people before them have been waiting AGES for their process to continue. 

 

I tell you what. You come back after your day 200, 220, 230. 260. You tell me how much you know then. You're rude, and you coming in here to say you don't like that they don't like that other people complaining is incredibly immature, given the situation.

1. Stop making this personal

 

2. You’ve misread my first post, i asked John why he said October filers are complaining - not all of is are/were!

[Jaquelly 1,647]

Here's the part that kills me about this website, and people in general.

 

Some people have good information. They've been through a process and have been through other processes with other people. They've seen things happen repeatedly, and know the trends and understand processing times.

 

They've held hands with their friends and even helped people they didn't necessarily get along with because there's a common respect.

 

When July filers came into the June thread to talk about their approvals, I was irate because there were people in June who still hadn't got their NOA2 and I thought it was rude.

 

Just as, you know, I asked people in July to lay off of people in August who were getting their NOA2s first because their feelings were a bit hurt and they felt attacked. People did. Common respect.

 

So why is it, you know, that some of us offer that guidance, those facts, those timelines provided, and all we get is a fit about our negativity?

 

If you don't like it, why are you posting here?

[Lotts 1,433]

... is it safe to come out yet?

 

GEE WHIZZ! So, Presidents Day, huh? I'm loving this American culture. Can't wait to experience all this. Eventually...

 

So... Is Presidents' Day where you're supposed to leave milk and cookies out?

Ooooh boy! I'm leaving some out for Obama or Lincoln. 😂😂 Fingers crossed!

[Jaquelly 1,647]

1 minute ago, Lotts said:

... is it safe to come out yet?

 

GEE WHIZZ! So, Presidents Day, huh? I'm loving this American culture. Can't wait to experience all this. Eventually...

 

So... Is Presidents' Day where you're supposed to leave milk and cookies out?

Ooooh boy! I'm leaving some out for Obama or Lincoln. 😂😂 Fingers crossed!

 

President's Day! Not everyone is off of work, but if you are, you don't know why and you don't even eat hot dogs.

[Lotts 1,433]

Just now, Jaquelly said:

 

President's Day! Not everyone is off of work, but if you are, you don't know why and you don't even eat hot dogs.

... I was joking. 😂

 

I don't like hotdogs. Frank's are awful. Love me a good Cumberland... Proper sausage. Ugh. Gonna miss proper sausages. And cheese. Proper, good cheese. 😭

I'm gonna lose so much weight 😂😂😂😂