more documents needed about family history

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remember i got 221g for affidavit of sopport. i submitted my husband's tax papers on 25th of april. and today they returned my passport asking for more papers.

now the want to know the whole family history names of all the relatives(mother ,father, brothers sisters, in -laws cousins uncles ants grand parents , niece nephew)everybody

we are not even touch with our cousins and uncle ants from where do i get their addresses and phone nos thats rediculous the embassy people are just bothering us

i love my husband otherwise sometimes i feel like not even going back to these people with these stupid documents

we dont even have ration cards and voters card where do i get that?

i dont know what to do? pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease help i'll die of tention how do i go about it please any body help