Complicated case. I need an advise please!

[EricT 6]

Just now, Dee elle said:

Hmmm  ... there is a very true statement that says.... foolishness is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting to get a different outcome....    mmm mm

I appreciate your time to spent to help me out, but please be nice. I have broke up with her couple of times before but came back because I loved her.

[EricT 6]

1 minute ago, Dee elle said:

I am sorry this is offending you.. it is the truth though, that, without something changing, doing the same thing, approaching the issues the same way, will never result in anything but the same outcome... for example.. if the titanic was to sail again, following the same  route, without doing something different, the ship would sink again!!!  Its about looking underneath the actions to what is causing the action, and learning from what has gone on in the past, and being prepared to acknowledge that it wasn't getting the desired outcome, and trying a different solution.. I am being honest with you, I didn't call you foolish, I simply shared a truth.

I read your previous comment where you said you knew these things, and would eventually break up with her . I wish you well in the journey. I wont post again here, 

I have never said don't post here, but its much easier to see things without feelings. I didn't want to offend you, I am sorry. I really appreciate that you are trying to help me. My example is this though. If you went fishing one day and didn't catch anything, wouldn't you go fishing to the same spot again? Of course you would... with a hope you will catch a fish this time

[caliliving 606]

6 minutes ago, EricT said:

I have never said don't post here, but its much easier to see things without feelings. I didn't want to offend you, I am sorry. I really appreciate that you are trying to help me. My example is this though. If you went fishing one day and didn't catch anything, wouldn't you go fishing to the same spot again? Of course you would... with a hope you will catch a fish this time

It's time to go find someone else

[Boiler 45,579]

Plenty more fish in the sea.

[EricT 6]

Just now, caliliving said:

It's time to go find someone else

Agree.. but not right now 

Just now, Boiler said:

Plenty more fish in the sea.

:))

[caliliving 606]

1 minute ago, EricT said:

Agree.. but not right now 

Ok then keep us posted on how it works with her. 

Btw how old r u and how old is she?

Edited January 9, 2018 by caliliving

[EricT 6]

Just now, caliliving said:

Ok then keep us posted on how it works with her. 

 

I definitely will as soon anything new comes up. Thanks everybody for support and advises!

[EricT 6]

1 minute ago, Dee elle said:

My reason for not posting any more is my choice.. Definitely  not doing it because of your comment.. you are quite correct, you never said not to post 😁

For me.. in answer to your question about fishing.. Yes I would try it a few times but would change my bait, then look elsewhere prteey soon if it wasn't any better... hope is one thing... wisdom also is important .. bye!! 

Thank you. Bye.

[caliliving 606]

58 minutes ago, EricT said:

Thank you. Bye.

how old is she and how old are you? 

[EricT 6]

3 minutes ago, caliliving said:

how old is she and how old are you? 

Im 48 she is 36

[Khallaf 650]

8 hours ago, EricT said:

Im 48 she is 36

@EricTI have sent you a message

[EricT 6]

We broke up this morning....

[SusieQQQ 11,586]

30 minutes ago, EricT said:

We broke up this morning....

Well done.  Mourn and then move on.

[EricT 6]

12 minutes ago, SusieQQQ said:

Well done.  Mourn and then move on.

Thanks for your support!

[Going through 5,671]

1 hour ago, EricT said:

We broke up this morning....

You said you've broken up with her a few times in the past and then went back to her...hopefully you are stronger this time