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7 minutes ago, Murph4865 said:

Have a safe trip over to manila and enjoy, i will be 2 days behind you flying out

You too.  Enjoy the weather and stay safe.

PHILIPPINES ONLY!!!  CFO (Commission on Filipinos Overseas) INFO - Can't leave home without it!

 

PDOS (Pre-Departure Registration and Orientation Seminar) is for ages 20-59.  Peer Counseling is for 13-19 years of age.

It is required to have the visa in their passport for PDOS and Peer Counseling.

 

GCP (Guidance and Counseling Program) is for K-1 Fiancee and IR/CR-1 spouse ONLY. 

 

 

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1 hour ago, Paul & Mallory said:

My fiancé (the beneficiary) is in the same boat as you! He'll be losing his job at the end of the year based on him leaving (hopefully) shortly after the first of the year, and he has the same concerns. So far, the only finances that seem to come up as a topic are mine, as the petitioner. I also told him although it may be questioned at the interview in general, I'm not sure how much it matters since whatever job he may or may not have at the time wouldn't be coming with him anyway - he has to leave his job to move here whether that's now, or at the end. My finances are the one that will be "supporting" our household, at least until his status is adjusted and he can apply for jobs.

 

My suggestion, if you haven't already, is just make sure the petitioner provides all applicable financial documents (proof of income, proof of employment, etc.) and also provides a signed Affidavit of Support. It basically states the petitioner is taking full financial support of the beneficiary by them moving to the states.

Yes I think you are right! My only concern right now will be going over to Philadelphia next week until the new year as last time I went I was called into secondary inspection for going over too many times in one year :/ Every time before I had work to prove my ties back to the UK so this time may be a bit more difficult. I just had a lot of annual leave to use so going for a long weekend worked out well for me.

 

I agree with you regarding if it matters too much about jobs as my job isn't carrying over to the US with me either.. I work in the legal field in the UK and my qualifications aren't transferable so I'm embarking on a brand new career anyway! I just hope that it doesn't hinder me by not being employed... and it seems to look like it won't!

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6 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

Who's gonna do this amazing weird crazy estimation and calculation for us Oct, and so on filers when you are done and gone Naes !!

 

you are def like our weather forecast...you let us know either is going to rain or snow :D

 

bwahahahaha weather forecast!

seriously sometimes you guys crack me up so much that I laugh out loud at work! people around me (open office area) think I'm nuts already and I confirm every day by these giggles hahaha

N-400: 12/05/2023 (confirmed fingerprints are re-used)

Interview scheduled for: 05/09/2024

 

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11 minutes ago, Naes said:

I know............ ... _ _ _... :whistle:

 

Edit: I just thought I am so lucky to find my future hubby ... cause maybe the reason I was single...was just me being too weird... oh I'm so not letting him go anywhere

Maybe it is your wierdness that your other half is actually attracted to.

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24 minutes ago, Naes said:

I know............ ... _ _ _... :whistle:

 

Edit: I just thought I am so lucky to find my future hubby ... cause maybe the reason I was single...was just me being too weird... oh I'm so not letting him go anywhere

I said the same thing. I’m too weird and he loves it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Once my fiancé comes he can’t go no where (for a while) I’ve been waiting too looong!

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9 hours ago, Iris Wen said:

Hey there. My fiancée just showed me this message and felt really bad about it, so I wanted to reply to you. I don't know your relation or how long you two have been together, but Iris and I have gone through many ups and downs because of the distance and we even ended up breaking up at one point. But one thing was always true, and that is when we are together we are great! It took quite a while for us to realize that we weren't having problems with each other, it has simply been the distance and everything that comes along with it.

 

When she is down and needs a hug or my support, it is very hard to show that via a video call on my phone. I can just hold her and give her the affection that she needs. Also, the time difference is a killer and really affects our sleeping patterns and thus our moods GREATLY. Once we got to the point where we finally understood this, we were golden. That doesn't mean that it has been easy, but we both have the proper understanding of the situation and we know that it is not permanent.

 

Now, that having been said, Iris still stresses every single day and wants the process to hurry up. She quite religiously checks for updates on our visa status hoping to be able to make progress. She is the worrier in the relationship, just as your fiancé is.

 

If you two are great without all of this stress, then you need to realize that this is not representative of your relationship. A long-distance relationship isn't a true healthy relationship. There are a lot of things that are missing from the relationship. And if you want too long, at some point it becomes unbearable. A long-distance relationship cannot remain long-distance forever.

 

He will need to manage his impatience and his worries. It IS very stressful and some people can't handle it. I hope that you mean enough to him that he will be willing to stick it out. But keep communicating with him and have him communicate with you. You will both need to support each other. Even though he might be the one who is worrying a lot and it is bringing you down, he likely needs a lot of support from you. In the beginning I used to get very upset with Iris because for me, if she wanted to be with me, she would do whatever it takes and she wouldn't get depressed for lose motivation. And when I got upset, it brought her down even more and we would not be good for a while. You need to support him during this time and also let him know how he's affecting you.

 

A lot of us have and are going through this too. You're not alone in this. Iris and I wish you the best of luck and we hope that you can stay strong and make this happen, if this is what you both truly want.

Thank you so so much for this reply. As this is the same that we and I’m sure others have gone through. Everyone in here hoped that we would be with our loved ones before the end of the year, and this extra time has really caused frustrations for all. I know the last few days I have really been down specially when I saw the number right before ours approved. Your reply has given me that push, that hope that everything is going to be fine, what’s a little time when we will have the rest of our lives together. It was very much needed. Thank you and thanks to everyone here for the support and encouragement when we all need it. Even we never met, this is our VJ family and we’re all in this together. YOU ALL ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!!

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1 minute ago, Nicolenpaul said:

I said the same thing. I’m too weird and he loves it. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Once my fiancé comes he can’t go no where (for a while) I’ve been waiting too looong!

Well I told him to find some superglue and inform his employer... I would advice you to do so... don't mention in the interview though ;) 

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16 minutes ago, AZSunshine78 said:

Wrote my congressman today. Will keep you all posted if I hear anything back.

 

I wrote to mine last week. A representative called me this week and said they are going to submit a congressional inquiry on my case yesterday and they will message me when they get a response. They proceeded to say that they will follow up with the USCIS every week until my case is approved. 

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sigh. I don’t think we will get approved this week. I feel it. 

I will make my fiancé write his congressman/ woman today. 

 

Now you all that have already done so. May I ask some questions ?

 

•did you call or did you write an email?

•what did you say/ write? 

•how long does it take to get a response from them? 

•do you think it’s truly helpful or will that result in pissed off USCIS workers and a fat RFE for no reason. 

 

 

Thank you guys. I need something to happen. Day 181. We are financially and emotionally done. We need movement. 

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