I-129F June, Part II

[LydiaP 215]

Alex and I are on Skype all day (and night while we sleep). He's 6 hours ahead of me, but works second shift (and I'm at school teaching and taking classes during that time) so we spend my evenings (his nights) together talking, etc. and then we sleep on the same schedule.

 

We've been going like that now for 18 months. I've visited him twice, both times for two weeks, and he's visited me twice, one week and three weeks. We can't afford any more trips. We're tapped out and just have enough for his AOS when he gets here. We've gone eight months and six months without seeing each other in person and I could hardly stand it. We do things like LetsGaze to watch youtube videos together and we watch movies and play video games (we met in a video game) together but it's not like being together in person and I'm tired of having to sleep with a computer in my room and not my partner. We purchased a new bed (king size) because my full was not going to cut it and the bed is just so huge and I'm alone and I hate it.

I got more junk mail coming today. I'm trying to be focused on my studies and earning my degree, but mostly I just want to kick the wall repeatedly and scream until I can't anymore. I have told my family and friends to stop asking about it - to not ask me about Alex at all. I can't be constantly reminded.

[RobDean 127]

4 minutes ago, SwimminginSync said:

I'm just curious, but do same-sex couple petitions have any different requirements?  I hope the question doesn't sound ignorant or offensive -  not intended to be.

I don't think so no. Same sex or not it is still two people in love asking for a chance to be together. 

[RobDean 127]

1 minute ago, LydiaP said:

Alex and I are on Skype all day (and night while we sleep). He's 6 hours ahead of me, but works second shift (and I'm at school teaching and taking classes during that time) so we spend my evenings (his nights) together talking, etc. and then we sleep on the same schedule.

 

We've been going like that now for 18 months. I've visited him twice, both times for two weeks, and he's visited me twice, one week and three weeks. We can't afford any more trips. We're tapped out and just have enough for his AOS when he gets here. We've gone eight months and six months without seeing each other in person and I could hardly stand it. We do things like LetsGaze to watch youtube videos together and we watch movies and play video games (we met in a video game) together but it's not like being together in person and I'm tired of having to sleep with a computer in my room and not my partner. We purchased a new bed (king size) because my full was not going to cut it and the bed is just so huge and I'm alone and I hate it.

I got more junk mail coming today. I'm trying to be focused on my studies and earning my degree, but mostly I just want to kick the wall repeatedly and scream until I can't anymore. I have told my family and friends to stop asking about it - to not ask me about Alex at all. I can't be constantly reminded.

This literally happens to me every week, my family and friends keep asking why it's taking so long, why the visa isn't out yet, how things are moving, etc. This does get frustrating, but hopefully all this will be an old memory and we will all be reunited with our loved ones. This does make our relationships stronger. At least you got to go visit him too, I feel trapped here because I can't. And he has so much work now that he can't visit again. I really hope this b2 visa I just applied to gets approved. I really miss him in person, I feel like I'm engaged to my phone and computer. 

[Geo_nerd82 253]

So, maybe the scanners and number crunchers will know this better, but has there been a trend to less and less online updates and more hard-copy notices? Or does it seem to be just random patches of that happening?

[vocaledge 3,340]

I dont even know what to say anymore.....

MIDDAY SCAN

 

01/10/2018	2
Your Current Status: Request for Additional Evidence Was Mailed	2
WAC1790351701	1
WAC1790359551	1

3 minutes ago, Geo_nerd82 said:

So, maybe the scanners and number crunchers will know this better, but has there been a trend to less and less online updates and more hard-copy notices? Or does it seem to be just random patches of that happening?

Seems like an increasing trend to me, but I wouldn't want to be quoted on it.

[George & Roth 1,485]

3 hours ago, Britanee7 said:

Can someone help as I have had notification on informed delivery but says it’s a package and not a letter but my fiancé hasn’t ordered anything. Could this be it 

I think it is not it. I have received notification from Informed delivery where they did not have a scan and it was some other package, has happened multiple times. 

 

The USCIS letter did have a scan though. 

 

Good luck, i do hope I am wrong!

[Geo_nerd82 253]

5 minutes ago, vocaledge said:

I dont even know what to say anymore.....

MIDDAY SCAN

 

01/10/2018	2
Your Current Status: Request for Additional Evidence Was Mailed	2
WAC1790351701	1
WAC1790359551	1

Seems like an increasing trend to me, but I wouldn't want to be quoted on it.

HAHA! I quoted you on it! 

 

 

They must be focusing on other form types right now. I know there are a TON of I-30's between a lot of the late June/earliest July applications. 

Edited January 10, 2018 by Geo_nerd82

[blenheim 243]

5 minutes ago, vocaledge said:

I dont even know what to say anymore.....

MIDDAY SCAN

 

01/10/2018	2
Your Current Status: Request for Additional Evidence Was Mailed	2
WAC1790351701	1
WAC1790359551	1

Seems like an increasing trend to me, but I wouldn't want to be quoted on it.

Imagine if indeed these scans are accurate and there is just no other movement ???!!!!?!?!?!??!?!?

[John & Rose 7,239]

10 minutes ago, vocaledge said:

I dont even know what to say anymore.....

MIDDAY SCAN

 

01/10/2018	2
Your Current Status: Request for Additional Evidence Was Mailed	2
WAC1790351701	1
WAC1790359551	1

Seems like an increasing trend to me, but I wouldn't want to be quoted on it.

I do have a couple on my local (500) scan that aren't  on yours.  WAC1790353562 - Name was updated and WAC1790353671 - APPROVED

Edited January 10, 2018 by John & Rose

[Britanee7 49]

5 minutes ago, George & Roth said:

I think it is not it. I have received notification from Informed delivery where they did not have a scan and it was some other package, has happened multiple times. 

 

The USCIS letter did have a scan though. 

 

Good luck, i do hope I am wrong!

Would this show you on the Apple app tho 

[George & Roth 1,485]

12 hours difference in Cambodia. Works out well, 8pm/8am calls every day. 

 

 

[blenheim 243]

So, when are we starting this protest at USCIS?

[colin57 166]

3 minutes ago, John & Rose said:

I do have a couple on my local (500) scan that aren't  on yours.  I ran this a couple hours ago.  WAC1790353562 - Name was updated and WAC1790353671 - APPROVED

That seems to be a 6th June number, maybe they are getting near yours?

[George & Roth 1,485]

1 minute ago, Britanee7 said:

Would this show you on the Apple app tho 

Not sure, I just got the email update every day from USPS informed delivery. I never used the APP.

 

On the email it had on multiple occasions where a package/item was not scanned. So I have seen it a number of times where they did not give a scan and it was always something else. 

 

I remember the same feeling the first time it said I am getting an unscanned package, I was hoping but alas it was something else. 

[Lotts 1,433]

6 hours ago, Lana&Tyler said:

He needs to find out who his congressman is. We live in Maryland and ours is Elijah Cummings. Katie Malone handles immigration related affairs for him. She offered to help us. 

 

He just needs to go to go online and google who the congressman of his state is and send him or her a letter 

I'm so late to the party. 

Woot. 

Where in MD are you? And thank you for this. I'm going to forward this to Mr Poosheen 

(He's poo for filing our papers so damn late) 😂