I-129F June, Part II

[vbcm 0]

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

[akdf2014 173]

13 minutes ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Very  sad, bad news  😢😢. Have you ever  met  with  your  fiance in person  within  2 years before  filing  that petition?

I think  the option now, you should  get married  and file for spouse  visa.

 

[George & Roth 1,485]

25 minutes ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Sorry to hear that. Did you submit everything? http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide

 

Any idea why? You should submit again with a stronger amount of support 

[George & Roth 1,485]

4 hours ago, Kari & Atti said:

Well, they told me my fiancé was deported from USA many years ago. Information my fiancé “forgot” to share with me. I feel a bit betrayed and I am having a hard time with it. It might have a fix but just the fact he forgot to mention this event from me throws me off track so much that I have considered (less now, than yesterday) ending our relationship. He is a good man and a bit on the naive side. But still I feel betrayed. 

Haven’t read other replies however I would suggest not doing anything rash. Digest it for a few weeks and think it through. In the end you need to decide but it’s better to take some time before doing so.

[colin57 166]

8 minutes ago, George & Roth said:

Haven’t read other replies however I would suggest not doing anything rash. Digest it for a few weeks and think it through. In the end you need to decide but it’s better to take some time before doing so.

Hi, I am so sorry to hear you got denied, I am sure you are feeling stunned and hurt by the news but I agree with George & Roth, try not to do anything to hasty, try to come to terms with what has happened and see if there is a way forward,  if it helps rant and rave at us on this site to vent your anger!   

[Nearly there 165]

1 hour ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Oh no  .....sorry to hear your news.

[KandW 358]

7 hours ago, Kat&Joel said:

Okay.  I know that this has probably been asked before but I want to check again.  I have seen that some people's beneficiary's have called USCIS.  Is this okay or does the petitioner have to call?  I have seen a few comments on the forum here in which the beneficiary has called and talked to USCIS without issue.  If that's the case then I've got my fiance ready to start calling when we hit 6 months.  He is very good on the phone and also skilled at getting information from people.  Can anyone confirm if this will work?  Otherwise I will have to start calling from work and that's gonna make things a biiiit tricky.

Yes I have rang and spoke to a tier 1 (I’m the beneficiary).

when the tier 2 called back, my fiancé briefly stated that he was passing the phone to me, which the teir 2 was fine with. It does state when pressing the options that it needs to be the representative, applicant or petitioner. 

All you can is try. If they don’t accept the call then get your fiancé to call or do it if your together, if that’s anytime soon. 

[KandW 358]

2 hours ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

I’m sorry to hear this. 

Was you advised this after receiving a letter? If so, what does it say? If not wait until it comes.

i know you had some concerns due to your fiancé and her child overstaying, and I too didn’t think that this would effect the noa2. 

However, I know it’s horribke to have waited so long to be told this, but you still have options. 

Get married and file again. 

I wish you luck, as this can happen to any of us. 

 

[Lotts 1,433]

6 hours ago, George & Roth said:

If it wasn’t for @useful89, @Lotts , @Naes I’m not sure I would survive this. The only people who understand my jerkiness (or at least forgive me for it)

Aww, woke up to this. I have a mantra. I try to make, at least, one person smile or laugh a day. Always trying to bring a bit of positivity, light, and laughter to this dark place we call life. Always strive to be the light. 😘

 

 

5 hours ago, Kari & Atti said:

Well, they told me my fiancé was deported from USA many years ago. Information my fiancé “forgot” to share with me. I feel a bit betrayed and I am having a hard time with it. It might have a fix but just the fact he forgot to mention this event from me throws me off track so much that I have considered (less now, than yesterday) ending our relationship. He is a good man and a bit on the naive side. But still I feel betrayed. 

This is a horrible feeling. I'm sorry you're going through this. Take some time to collect your thoughts. I hope this has no impact on your visa. Remember why you're doing this. Stay positive. Live for the present. Talking of presents... Happy birthday for tomorrow. ☺️🎂 

 

 

2 hours ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Oh nooooo. Really sorry to read this. Would you mind sharing your journey? Maybe we can help you.

 

 

See, this is why I love this forum. Many ups and downs, but we're all here for each other. I'm not a believer in God. Too much rubbish has happened for me to believe that twoddle. I tried. Found it wasn't for me. (Flying Spaghetti Monster is hilarious though)

I'm not going to give others a hard time for their beliefs. What ever brings you hope, comfort and light. 💜

I believe in a greater spirit. My dad. I know he watching over me. (He fed 9 people with 1 turkey once. Rescued me from ending it, helped heal my broken bones, and nursed me back to health. I'm a wimp with the flu. Miracles 😂).

Anyway... i'm going to share this with you. Maybe you'll find some hope in my greater being. He tells me to hang in there, if I really want something then I have work hard for it, remain positive, keep smiling, enjoy the good, and put my right foot forward. "Time heals all".

 

So, here's to a new day. Sending love and positive vibes. May your thoughts, prayers, wishes, rituals, spells, yellings at your cat bring you closer to this finish line. 

 

May the force be with you. 

 

 

[Kari & Atti 411]

4 hours ago, Ana Maria said:

What about marry in a country you both can enter without a VISA?

Then k-3 petition to bring in your spouse?

Does it carry any more weight?

 

Yes, I believe that would be another option. 

[msscarlette 488]

4 hours ago, Ana Maria said:

What about marry in a country you both can enter without a VISA?

Then k-3 petition to bring in your spouse?

Does it carry any more weight?

 

Yes, it better to marry in a country that both can enter. K3 visa is obsolete. CR1 visa is used for spouses who are married less than a year. The process is longer than K1 but the beneficiary would be a legal permanent resident after receiving the green card when she enters the US POE.

[Kari & Atti 411]

2 hours ago, colin57 said:

Hi, I am so sorry to hear you got denied, I am sure you are feeling stunned and hurt by the news but I agree with George & Roth, try not to do anything to hasty, try to come to terms with what has happened and see if there is a way forward,  if it helps rant and rave at us on this site to vent your anger!   

We haven’t received a denial just yet. They didn’t tell me that when I went to local office, they just said this had happened and maybe I wanted to contact an immigration attorney. I’m not angry any longer. I was angry for about two hours when I found out. Right now I’m just hurt and unsure of what to do in terms of my relationship because I been betrayed. I know time will put everything in place and fortunately or unfortunately having signed up for this process, time is what we have most of 🤔 I have decided to wait for an official response and then make a decision based on facts. But my relationship with my fiancé is currently broken in pieces and that makes me sad. I have a lot of work ahead of me. Thanks for the support you guys.

[Kari & Atti 411]

3 minutes ago, msscarlette said:

Yes, it better to marry in a country that both can enter. K3 visa is obsolete. CR1 visa is used for spouses who are married less than a year. The process is longer than K1 but the beneficiary would be a legal permanent resident after receiving the green card when she enters the US POE.

Will look into it! Thanks 

[noraliz73 243]

6 hours ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Did they give a reason?

[vocaledge 3,340]

10 hours ago, George & Roth said:

If it wasn’t for @useful89, @Lotts , @Naes I’m not sure I would survive this. The only people who understand my jerkiness (or at least forgive me for it)

@George & Roth - dude - I understand your jerkiness, and I forgave you already for it... I just felt that in this environment it was a bit too disrespectful to be silent about it, thats all.  I dont hate you or have any ill will man... its all good.

 

9 hours ago, Kari & Atti said:

Hello my fellow comrads,

I have taken a few days to digest a bit of a sour moment in my visa journey. As you all know from what I shared earlier on the forum, I had an appointment scheduled  Jan 4th with the local immigration office where I live. It didn’t go well for me to say the least but they were very helpful and shed some light into my case (this is the good part) they do share information above the level of a tier 1, (thank god for that 🙄 I think 🤔) although the information shared has brought a huge wedge to my relationship with my fiancé right now and I’m not sure if I can pull myself out of this one.

I sincerely thought about contacting a few of you via private message because I’m really heartbroken and feel like I can’t find a way out if this. I am in need of prayer or just good energy sent my way because I don’t know what to do right now. 

 

9 hours ago, Kari & Atti said:

Well, they told me my fiancé was deported from USA many years ago. Information my fiancé “forgot” to share with me. I feel a bit betrayed and I am having a hard time with it. It might have a fix but just the fact he forgot to mention this event from me throws me off track so much that I have considered (less now, than yesterday) ending our relationship. He is a good man and a bit on the naive side. But still I feel betrayed. 

 

9 hours ago, Kari & Atti said:

That’s is exactly what he said! We never spoke in deep detail about his visits here. Based on what he is telling me now he was embarrassed that it happened to him and was told that he would be able to return 6 years after with no problem. He said he never tried though because it left a bad taste for him. He is very chill and doesn’t dwell on negative events, that’s his overall personality and how he deals with things in general. So it’s not out of character for him to do something like that. I just feel he should have known better than that and told me about this event. Am I being too difficult?

If you wanna PM me, please feel free... I'd rather not discuss trust in an open setting, but I'm happy to talk things through with you if you still want some advice, or just someone to vent to and discuss this with.   Sorry to hear you're going through it.

 

6 hours ago, vbcm said:

We just got denied  they didn't even request for more evidence

Wow.  I'm sorry for your news.  On a selfish point, I hope you can let us know if they gave you any reason, perhaps we can think of a way to appeal to help you, but this kind of knowledge would definitely be useful to other people too.