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20 minutes ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

People are freaked out over nothing. If I  got a happy Ramadan card from somebody, I would think, that was thoughtful of them to remember me. 

I am sure if Obumer had done something in the white House for Ramadan,  none of you would freak out.

 

Do none of you MDL exchange gifts and so forth. 

 

I have not set foot in a church in years and we got a tree etc.

 

Do you have to believe in ghosts etc to celebrate Halloween. I am pretty sure no one over 6 believes in the Easter bunny, yet.

I somehow have a hard time believing the first thought into your head upon receiving a 'Happy Ramadan' card from someone would be ''oh how thoughtful''... it would not be the first thought from me either.. which would hover somewhere between bewilderment and amusement.

My family grew up around the area of Baltimore where Judaism is very strong, that had a big influence in teaching us to be respectful to other faiths and sending a Happy Holidays card or such a greeting was respectfully appropriate. They responded in kind. I only have a very few Jewish friends that celebrate both holidays. Would you wish a Jehovah's Witness a happy birthday or buy them Christmas gifts? Would you find it a problem if they felt weirded out and insulted if you did?

 

Christmas is really just another secular holiday to me. It holds no religious bearing, but that doesn't mean I ignore the context of the holiday itself and be inconsiderate to others. I never believed in Santa or the Easter bunny, and due to upbringing - never celebrated Halloween either. At least we are not a church state... yet... the UK seems to promote Christmas over all others in a very public way.

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Posted
20 minutes ago, smilesammich said:

the irony being that all other festivities were never really in to begin with, we were just being polite. this has always been a christian nation posing as a secular, all-inclusive nation. that's my take, i'll revisit my opinion when america will accept anything other than a christian potus.

(and catholics are christian so no one go all jfk on me).

 

my aunt is jewish and my cousins were raised jewish and catholic and back when i used to send out xmas cards - i made sure to buy a box that said happy holidays or warm wishes for a wonderful holiday season or something non religious. i always thought i did that because i'm totally non-religious but really, my momma just raised me right - to be considerate of others. deliberately sending out a xmas card to a non christian household is like having a bumper sticker that says my god is bigger than your god - but i guess that's just where america and it's angry little handed president are at right now :lol:

I dont understand why Trump and his base are so angry all the time. Small hands translate into a sense of inferiority. 

Posted
36 minutes ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

 

I am sure if Obumer had done something in the white House for Ramadan,  none of you would freak out.

 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/video/politics/from-thomas-jefferson-to-barack-obama-heres-how-the-white-house-has-celebrated-ramadan/2017/06/17/aed2f440-4fd9-11e7-b74e-0d2785d3083d_video.html

Posted
2 minutes ago, Dunngary said:

I dont understand why Trump and his base are so angry all the time. Small hands translate into a sense of inferiority. 

anger stems from the ever growing frustration in feeling that something yours is being taken from you. america being great was taken from them and they must make it great again. no small feat when you've got toddler paws.

Posted
28 minutes ago, smilesammich said:

the irony being that all other festivities were never really in to begin with, we were just being polite. this has always been a christian nation posing as a secular, all-inclusive nation. that's my take, i'll revisit my opinion when america will accept anything other than a christian potus.

(and catholics are christian so no one go all jfk on me).

 

my aunt is jewish and my cousins were raised jewish and catholic and back when i used to send out xmas cards - i made sure to buy a box that said happy holidays or warm wishes for a wonderful holiday season or something non religious. i always thought i did that because i'm totally non-religious but really, my momma just raised me right - to be considerate of others. deliberately sending out a xmas card to a non christian household is like having a bumper sticker that says my god is bigger than your god - but i guess that's just where america and it's angry little handed president are at right now :lol:

I hate you. I was about go JFK how did you know. I swear I had been just waiting 

Posted
1 minute ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

I hate you. I was about go JFK how did you know. I swear I had been just waiting 

you've probably gone jfk on me before. i've learned to prempt the jfk.

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Posted
58 minutes ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

Ok so most presidents celebrated Ramadan,  and it was no big deal. You made my point 

your point was being all inclusive and saying happy holidays is not a diss towards christmas? in fact, merry christmas never left the whitehouse? war is over if you want it? sweet, we're both cruising the center lane. 😉

Posted
Just now, smilesammich said:

your point was being all inclusive and saying happy holidays is not a diss towards christmas? in fact, merry christmas never left the whitehouse? war is over if you want it? sweet, we're both cruising the center lane. 😉

I never said I had a problem with happt holidays. I think most treat Christmas more secular than religious. 

As for the MOR  everyone wants in on my action. I got another poster also trying to muscle in on my gig. To be the man you got beat the man. 

 

 

Posted
8 minutes ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

I never said I had a problem with happt holidays. I think most treat Christmas more secular than religious. 

As for the MOR  everyone wants in on my action. I got another poster also trying to muscle in on my gig. To be the man you got beat the man. 

 

 

You confuse "trying" and "already occupying". Not the first time. That's okay though, I'm not offended.

Posted
2 minutes ago, bcking said:

You confuse "trying" and "already occupying". Not the first time. That's okay though, I'm not offended.

Sorry champ. There can be only one. I know the whole MOR thing has you spellbound like a teenage boy seeing his first set of boobs , but you just ain't that guy. 

Much like a third tier wrassler coming out in sequins and yelling WOOOOO I am a jet plane flying, kiss stealing,  Rolex wearing son of a gun. It's just a cheap imitation , however your daily obsession with the fruits of my creative genius is and my ability to spin ryhmes and bust slogans is flattering. 

 

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Posted (edited)
1 minute ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

Sorry champ. There can be only one. I know the whole MOR thing has you spellbound like a teenage boy seeing his first set of boobs , but you just ain't that guy. 

Much like a third tier wrassler coming out in sequins and yelling WOOOOO I am a jet plane flying, kiss stealing,  Rolex wearing son of a gun. It's just a cheap imitation , however your daily obsession with the fruits of my creative genius is and my ability to spin ryhmes and bust slogans is flattering. 

 

I am thinking about becoming a righter

You are typically a man of few words. This is a lot of writing for you. I must have hit a nerve. You poor thing.

 

 

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Posted (edited)
6 minutes ago, bcking said:

You are typically a man of few words. This is a lot of writing for you. I must have hit a nerve. You poor thing.

 

 

And I did it all with the tip of my nearly amputated at age two pollex and it would take a lot more than some good natured trash talking on some obscure website to get me excited 

 

Edited by Nature Boy Flair
Posted (edited)
6 minutes ago, Nature Boy Flair said:

And I did it all with the tip of my nearly amputated at age two pollex and it would take a lot more than some good natured trash talking on some obscure website to get me excited 

 

I dunno man you seem a little worked up. It's okay though. It's reasonable when your world view is put into question.

 

The "middle" should go to those whose actions properly reflect it. Not whoever claims it the most or brings it up all the time like a broken record.

 

So as I said... I'll just continue to judge things from the actual middle. You can keep your little club. I don't mind.

Edited by bcking
Posted
1 minute ago, bcking said:

I dunno man you seem a little worked up. It's okay though. It's reasonable when your world view is put into question.

 

The "middle" should go to those whose actions properly reflect it. Not whoever claims it the most.

I have a world view now, very  interesting.

 

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