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And be careful, she can put you not only in financial troubles but in legal too if she already plays against the law. Cut all ties with her, you never know what she can do or say in the future if you don't divorce or better get the annulment by fraud, she could make you responsible for some other fraud

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To me it would be a no-brainer.  Immediate divorce, withdraw sponsorship and tell her I'd go with her to the interview to support her  so she'd let me know when it was, (assuming it's before the divor

Ontarkie
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~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from K1 P&P - As this forum is where these topics are discussed.~~    Mod hat off   Do not wait for an interview. Many times the int

ThomasNC1988
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@LumbertJones just a couple of questions you don't have to answer if you don't want to, but I'm curious as to if there were any signs. What country is she from? Is there a big age difference? This las

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16 minutes ago, MeAlone said:

it all depends of the judge and how do you make your case. The annulment has grounds, check your state the annulment application and see, consummated or not, doesn't matter, you can get the annulment by fraud, attach all chats or evidence in writing, make a latter explaining and, ask for annulment, in case the judge doesn't see enough evidence for annulment, gives you a simple divorce anyway. But as I see you can get the Annulment by Fraud

It has more to do with the laws of the state than the judge. Nothing is 100 percent but I would really like to know what state (or judge) will refuse an annulment where your spouse chooses to not live with you and you have never had physical relations. Not to mention the other factors in this case.

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2 minutes ago, RO_AH said:

It has more to do with the laws of the state than the judge. Nothing is 100 percent but I would really like to know what state (or judge) will refuse an annulment where your spouse chooses to not live with you and you have never had physical relations. Not to mention the other factors in this case.

Both. Nothing is sure but anyways he will get at least the divorce. And yes, he has all the grounds but better the evidence IN WRITING. Start chatting with her in text or Facebook and get the screenshots of what she is saying

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2 hours ago, Esme2504 said:

This is why they should screen harder at the interview. This is BS, their is real couples out there that really love each other and not able to get a visa and some ppl who are not in love and only want a GC get it so easy.  If I were you I would not let her get away, that. 

 

Eh, this is particularly hard to do successfully.  The government is relying on the US citizen to be the screener.  Some of them are better at it than others.

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Come on man, go with her to the AOS and as soon you get there and sworn then tell the IO that you want to withdraw the I-864 and in front of her tell the truth to the Immigration Officer, not even a  VAWA petition, later on, will be approved!

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They do not have a interview scheduled yet, he's just assuming there will be one. It's best to withdraw the I-864 now before she gets the GC in the mail.

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11 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

They do not have a interview scheduled yet, he's just assuming there will be one. It's best to withdraw the I-864 now before she gets the GC in the mail.

Oh ok,I thought USCIS schedulled the  AOS interview, then  definitely  he should  withdraw asap.

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3 hours ago, sandranj said:

Oh ok,I thought USCIS schedulled the  AOS interview, then  definitely  he should  withdraw asap.

He made it sound like they had an interview. It took a few times of asking him before he clarified they did not.

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On ‎11‎/‎17‎/‎2017 at 10:03 PM, LumbertJones said:

No test drive at all, it's bull

This can't be real.

 

No "test drive before signing lease" Classic line btw.

Hasn't lived with him since arriving in the US

 

And yet he married her AND sent in the AOS paperwork. 

 

We're being trolled. 

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                      (Priority Mail - USPS autocorrected zipcode to 60680-4187)

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On ‎11‎/‎18‎/‎2017 at 5:09 AM, LumbertJones said:

I have made up my mind there is no way in hell i'm going to lie about her living with me.

 

Any guesses on what will happen with the interview if i point that out?

 

She has repeatedly said "I can say it, you don't have to! it's my lie!" but if i'm there under oath I think not pointing it out is also lying.

 

What happens if I don't show up?

I'm in New York. Syracuse area.

Do you have an interview scheduled?

 

If so, this is what I would do.  I would show up to the interview with a notarized letter formally pulling the affidavit of support and I would let her open her mouth and lie.  Then, I'd hand the letter to the officer, describe your situation, and walk out.

 

AOS goes to checkmate and she gets a lesson in lying to USCIS.  Win/win.

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On ‎11‎/‎17‎/‎2017 at 9:09 PM, LumbertJones said:

I have made up my mind there is no way in hell i'm going to lie about her living with me.

 

Any guesses on what will happen with the interview if i point that out?

 

She has repeatedly said "I can say it, you don't have to! it's my lie!" but if i'm there under oath I think not pointing it out is also lying.

 

What happens if I don't show up?

I'm in New York. Syracuse area.

US Citizens can be prosecuted for immigration fraud - if you lie under oath YOU can go to prison....I would suggest you NEVER lie when under Oath or in any government papers ( forms etc)

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  • 08/13/2007 DS3032 and AOS bill were generated

  • 08/14/2007 Emailed choice of agent ...i'm so curious when they will accept it...hopefully soon

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