Wife wants to lie

[JFH 12,190]

Sounds like our OP was used as a means to bypass the very long wait for a petition for a sibling. 

[Ischnura 285]

Anyone else spend half of this thread hungry?

[NYCruiser 423]

13 hours ago, LumbertJones said:

I am still with her because I just learned yesterday that she won't live with me, ever.

Be careful brother. She can start the process for a wawa. Don't be with her in the same room. Pull the affidavit ASAP even today, send an email to USCIS and copy the Embassy of her country on this. Sometimes, they approve the Green Card without an interview. Of course, at the 2 year expiry she will need you again with documentation so she will try and file a WAWA against you, so don't have any contact with her ever!!

[Ahmed&Freda 628]

8 hours ago, Aster said:

After how many days you applied! 

I applied for k3 as soon as I received my noa1.  

Edited November 18, 2017 by Ahmed&Freda

[broppy 204]

8 hours ago, RO_AH said:

Forget the divorce and go for annulment. The marriage was not consummated or as they say here no test drive so you can get an annulment.

Lack of consummation is not generally considered to be grounds for annulment. It depends on the State, but annulment usually involves a legal impediment to the marriage (e.g. bigamy, incest, fraud, duress, etc.). 

[mallafri76 1,012]

14 hours ago, sema said:

The country she from is not really important, coz then you start to stereotype, there is good and bad pple in every country.

The guy just got a really raw deal

There’s a reason behind the stereotyping though. Of course not everyone from the same country is the same but there’s a certain cultural similarity to a majority of the people from any given country. 

[Zzyzx 106]

1 hour ago, broppy said:

Lack of consummation is not generally considered to be grounds for annulment. It depends on the State, but annulment usually involves a legal impediment to the marriage (e.g. bigamy, incest, fraud, duress, etc.). 

In this instance a good cause of fraud may easily be proven.  

 

OP, I would be going for the trifecta at this point.  Write, infopass appointment and file for divorce and/or annulment.  This will assure you have all bases covered.  Make sure you get the ball rolling on all three Monday, since this next week is shortened due to the Thanksgiving holiday.  Good luck and keep us informed.     

[mikeyp123 15]

I’d hang her out to dry brother. After that kind of betrayal how could you even consider letting her benefit from her manipulating you?

[NYCruiser 423]

17 minutes ago, mikeyp123 said:

I’d hang her out to dry brother. After that kind of betrayal how could you even consider letting her benefit from her manipulating you?

On the AOS, don't both the USC and beneficiary state they are in a honest marriage (or something to that effect?). How did you sign the I-485 then when you knew things were not up to par 100%? This might cone up if you go to the interview. Pulling the affidavit, notify USCIS etc..is the best option

[CDJ2016 3]

15 hours ago, LumbertJones said:

I entered into what I thought was a good faith marriage with a girl I actually loved. I thought we would be living together when she came here; but the moment she arrived she moved in with her sister. 

She now wants me to lie during our AoS interview to say that she does live with me.

I've only hung out with her a handful of times in the past 10 months which in itself is upsetting. She has made it clear that she will never live with me. She's totally in this for the G/C alone. 

 

It's crazy how quickly she changed after stepping foot on US soil. 

 

Any advice on what to do?

By definition you are conspiring to commit benefit fraud against the Federal Government.  DANGEROUS... Don't Lie....False misrepresentation of material fact = jail. 5 years jail for YOU....Those charged with marriage fraud may also be charged with visa fraud, harboring an alien, conspiracy and making false statements. As of this moment she is guilty of marriage fraud, (A foreign national defrauded a U.S. citizen who believed the marriage was legitimate.)  If you don't turn her in 1. someone else will for sure turn you in or  2. The GOV agent will pick up on it and arrest you both - consult a lawyer , ask here at top web site... 7 bucks and you'll know what u need to know - .......One thing for sure..... if you lie at AOS you willfully (knowingly)-  commit a federal crime... 

 

The most direct way to report fraud is to contact the United States Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) division. They are the police force for immigration. You can contact them by phone and remain anonymous - 1-(866)-DHS-2-ICE or visit the website at "ice.gov". These hotlines are specifically designated for reporting immigration violations.

You could also contact the USCIS directly at 1-(800)-375-5283. When you speak to a live representative, you can make sure your information is properly recorded. You could also schedule an InfoPass appointment to personally meet an USCIS official to discuss the marriage sham.

Law Dictionary: How To Report Immigration Marriage Fraud

 

 

[RO_AH 1,659]

3 hours ago, broppy said:

Lack of consummation is not generally considered to be grounds for annulment. It depends on the State, but annulment usually involves a legal impediment to the marriage (e.g. bigamy, incest, fraud, duress, etc.). 

Well it's extremely hard to get an annulment if it has been consummated. In this case the fact that she did not live with him, and entered into the relationship fraudulently combined with the fact that the marriage was never consummated makes an extremely strong case for annulment.

[Jones0987 9]

19 hours ago, LumbertJones said:

I entered into what I thought was a good faith marriage with a girl I actually loved. I thought we would be living together when she came here; but the moment she arrived she moved in with her sister. 

She now wants me to lie during our AoS interview to say that she does live with me.

I've only hung out with her a handful of times in the past 10 months which in itself is upsetting. She has made it clear that she will never live with me. She's totally in this for the G/C alone. 

 

It's crazy how quickly she changed after stepping foot on US soil. 

 

Any advice on what to do?

send her ### back. she played you. why should you question it? whats fair is fair, whats not is not. 

3 hours ago, mikeyp123 said:

I’d hang her out to dry brother. After that kind of betrayal how could you even consider letting her benefit from her manipulating you?

EXACTLY!

[Noe&Estella 57]

Report her immediately to the NVC & US Embassy what attention was the whole time. Tell them she scammed you as soon as she touchdown here in the U.S. Don't waste time reporting her because then you will be questioned if you knew this why didn't you ever attempted to report her. 

I know there will be other's that will say they can't do anything because she's already here but they can at least have it on record that she isn't even living with you and she wants you to lie. When her time comes they know about her attentions and boot her out!!!

[Esme2504 48]

This is why they should screen harder at the interview. This is BS, their is real couples out there that really love each other and not able to get a visa and some ppl who are not in love and only want a GC get it so easy.  If I were you I would not let her get away, that. 

[MeAlone 161]

5 hours ago, RO_AH said:

Well it's extremely hard to get an annulment if it has been consummated. In this case the fact that she did not live with him, and entered into the relationship fraudulently combined with the fact that the marriage was never consummated makes an extremely strong case for annulment.

it all depends of the judge and how do you make your case. The annulment has grounds, check your state the annulment application and see, consummated or not, doesn't matter, you can get the annulment by fraud, attach all chats or evidence in writing, make a latter explaining and, ask for annulment, in case the judge doesn't see enough evidence for annulment, gives you a simple divorce anyway. But as I see you can get the Annulment by Fraud