November 2017 Filers K1 VISA I-129F (merged)

[K1visaHopeful 2,867]

13 minutes ago, Christy&J said:

waiting is not easy, but we should keep remind ourselves that this is part of the journey, if we can't survive this path, how would we survive another rocky path of our journey ?

I am trying to make myself busy i.e. working like crazy, going out with friends, gym, and of course interact with VJ ppl helps me to giggle little bit

Trust me, try to enjoy your time apart from him ( I know sounds stupid) but soon we will have all the time in the world with our loves one or maybe there would be time that you might need " me time " away from him/her.

keep thinking of something nice  

why do you think that you will get RFE ?

Trust that I've "been through it" in the rest of my life already. I am doing those same things (working) but I don't have any friends where I live now (I lived abroad prior to our application and move to my homeland to make it easier for the visa process) and have been forcing myself not to make any friends so I can stay home and save money for our new life. No family either as I am an orphan with no siblings. He and his family are all I have so it's hard.

 

An RFE is always a possibility and with our case, a big one. I choose not to divulge his personal business on here until we get an RFE though. I'm sure if we do I'll be asking for advice.

Edited February 8, 2018 by K1visaHopeful
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[CaseyCobos 100]

27 minutes ago, K1visaHopeful said:

Yup!! He's (petitioner) got his eye on the goal moreso than me and he has to remind me constantly. I'm lonely and irritable with him. I worry we won't have enough evidence of happy times between NOA1 and the embassy interview....thats how depressed I am. And I also worry that we'll get denied and won't have any other options. I'm having a really hard time😔

Ooo our partners sound the same lol. I’m the beneficiary too and he’s so chill about it all. Like I’m stressing out and thinking about worst case and he’s like “we’re one day closer!” 

I completely agree with the lonely and irritable.. not even for a reason.. just because of the distance.. 

[Christy&J 837]

14 minutes ago, K1visaHopeful said:

Trust that I've "been through it" in the rest of my life already. I am doing those same things (working) but I don't have any friends where I live now (I lived abroad prior to our application and move to my homeland to make it easier for the visa process) and have been forcing myself not to make any friends so I can stay home and save money for our new life. No family either as I am an orphan with no siblings. He and his family are all I have so it's hard.

 

An RFE is always a possibility and with our case, a big one. I choose not to divulge his personal business on here until we get an RFE though. I'm sure if we do I'll be asking for advice.

 I hear you, I think right now being positive is the only thing we can do right now.

it wont be easy but it's worth it.

and the good thing is, everyday means 1 day getting closer to our loves one  

[nykolos 711]

3 hours ago, CaseyCobos said:

Anyone struggling emotionally with this wait? I feel like every fourth day or so I’m having mental breakdowns or disagreements with my bae.. knowing I’m not going to see him for another few months really sucks.. I can’t imagine how the May/June/Juliers feel

You can cure those mental breakdowns by purchasing a airline ticket, if that's not an option, theirs video chat.

 

  

 

 

[CaseyCobos 100]

1 hour ago, nykolos said:

You can cure those mental breakdowns by purchasing a airline ticket, if that's not an option, theirs video chat.

 

  

 

 

We video chat everyday. I’m not in the financial position to visit him again before we get approved. Unless you’d like to buy me one  lol

[Mike & Tanja 309]

5 hours ago, CaseyCobos said:

Anyone struggling emotionally with this wait? I feel like every fourth day or so I’m having mental breakdowns or disagreements with my bae.. knowing I’m not going to see him for another few months really sucks.. I can’t imagine how the May/June/Juliers feel

Same here. Kind of counting the days until we will see us finally again, even if I can't count as I don't know, when everything is done

[CaseyCobos 100]

11 minutes ago, Mike & Tanja said:

Same here. Kind of counting the days until we will see us finally again, even if I can't count as I don't know, when everything is done

Just have to keep thinking “one day closer to being together”. Not really a countdown.. but still counting down lol..

[Yuilicious 65]

19 hours ago, K1visaHopeful said:

Trust that I've "been through it" in the rest of my life already. I am doing those same things (working) but I don't have any friends where I live now (I lived abroad prior to our application and move to my homeland to make it easier for the visa process) and have been forcing myself not to make any friends so I can stay home and save money for our new life. No family either as I am an orphan with no siblings. He and his family are all I have so it's hard.

 

An RFE is always a possibility and with our case, a big one. I choose not to divulge his personal business on here until we get an RFE though. I'm sure if we do I'll be asking for advice.

Hello!!!

Just wanted to tell you that it is okay to feel how/what you're feeling right now. Sure, I try to enjoy my day and be thankful for having my fiance in my life, but sometimes forcing myself to be positive makes it worse. I know no one here is saying we have to force ourselves to be positive, but that's just something I do to myself sometimes. It is also harder for you since you don't have friends near you.. When I went to the states for the first time, I was soooo depressed because I had no one with me so I understand the feeling of loneliness. And I can't imagine that you're going through this process with that situation. So even though you may not be able to give yourself a round of applause, I will!! I also understand that you feel you have to stay home and save money for future. I feel the same way so I haven't seen my friends for a while now, and some of my friends (even though they are really good people) seem not understanding that.. Any feelings you have are important; sad, mad, happy and more. I can't give you any advice since I am also struggling with it, but just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this even though you may feel like it. And you have every right to feel how/what you feel:)

Of course, I try to keep it positive as much as I can, and I love seeing the positive posts here. When I get really frustrated and worried about my visa situation, I come here and read everyone's post. I love my friends, but they don't really understand what I am going through because they have never done it. So I am really thankful for having this website where I can share my thoughts and read everyone else's!:)

[K1visaHopeful 2,867]

3 minutes ago, Yuilicious said:

Hello!!!

Just wanted to tell you that it is okay to feel how/what you're feeling right now. Sure, I try to enjoy my day and be thankful for having my fiance in my life, but sometimes forcing myself to be positive makes it worse. I know no one here is saying we have to force ourselves to be positive, but that's just something I do to myself sometimes. It is also harder for you since you don't have friends near you.. When I went to the states for the first time, I was soooo depressed because I had no one with me so I understand the feeling of loneliness. And I can't imagine that you're going through this process with that situation. So even though you may not be able to give yourself a round of applause, I will!! I also understand that you feel you have to stay home and save money for future. I feel the same way so I haven't seen my friends for a while now, and some of my friends (even though they are really good people) seem not understanding that.. Any feelings you have are important; sad, mad, happy and more. I can't give you any advice since I am also struggling with it, but just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this even though you may feel like it. And you have every right to feel how/what you feel:)

Of course, I try to keep it positive as much as I can, and I love seeing the positive posts here. When I get really frustrated and worried about my visa situation, I come here and read everyone's post. I love my friends, but they don't really understand what I am going through because they have never done it. So I am really thankful for having this website where I can share my thoughts and read everyone else's!:)

Thank you! I really appreciate you taking the time to comment and your understanding and support.❤

[Naes 12,205]

And I saw the fourth approval of November 16... November 16s beware we have a rogue adjudicator made you guys his mission!

 

i may or may not go there to punch him in the balls but it has nothing to do with you guys so no worries!

[K1visaHopeful 2,867]

14 minutes ago, Naes said:

And I saw the fourth approval of November 16... November 16s beware we have a rogue adjudicator made you guys his mission!

 

i may or may not go there to punch him in the balls but it has nothing to do with you guys so no worries!

How many applicants in November, @Naes?

[Naes 12,205]

6 minutes ago, K1visaHopeful said:

How many applicants in November, @Naes?

Total November or got noa2?

ive counted 4 noa2 from November 16.

 

i dont have the data with me but it was around 4000s need to check what was it like for November 16.

Edited February 9, 2018 by Naes

[K1visaHopeful 2,867]

1 minute ago, Naes said:

Total November or got noa2?

ive counted 4 noa2 from November 16.

 

i dont have the data with me but it was around 4000s need to check what was it like for November 16.

Yes total K1 applicants for Nov.

Let me know both...Nov Total and Nov 16th total if you can/when you can please and thank you muchly😁

[Naes 12,205]

Btw I'll be running a scan on November tonight just to be sure about no updates part...

[Naes 12,205]

29 minutes ago, K1visaHopeful said:

Yes total K1 applicants for Nov.

Let me know both...Nov Total and Nov 16th total if you can/when you can please and thank you muchly😁

Ok so this is for the November 16 only:

 

i couldnt stop myself (but can't do much)

 

1 updated approval: 1/18

and from 4 approvals that we heard here: 2 noa2 dates are 1/24, 1/31

 

either they are going to say the latest date was November 16 as of January/31 which doesn't make sense unless they make a run through slaughtering and September in the next 2 months... I have noooo clue..

 

Will make the full scan tonight