ROC. Request for more evidence/ same-sex marriage

[C-ma'am 684]

15 hours ago, Sukie said:

Your issue has nothing to do with being a same-sex couple.  Your issue is more that you are a mature couple who have been independent and are now just trying to mingle your separate lives.

 

You have given us a lot of good information about WHY your financial situation is what it is.  Now, you need to write a letter and both of you sign it, and explain everything you have told us.

 

1.  Why you have separate health care.

2.  Why your driver's licenses have different addresses.

3.  How you handle every day expenses (and trace to your statements)

4.  Re-iterate that you have made wills, and that the real estate will go to you if your partner dies.

5.  Be very deliberate - over explain.  Cross reference your explanatory statements to documents that prove your statements.

 

You will be fine.  You just don't look like a young just-starting-out couple.

 

My spouse is not my my deed.  She is also only on ONE car, not both.  But she is on the homeowner's insurance and on both car insurances.  This was not an issue - but I explained it up front.

 

Good luck!

 

Sukie in NY

^^^ This.

[NYCruiser 423]

This is interesting. We do not have both of us on the House Deed, however, he is on the car, health, Homeowners, Homewarranty Insurance,Company Car authorised driver, travel together, family photos, Wills, Healthcare proxy and Power of Attorney, 401 beneficiary, savings/checking accounts/credit cards.

I will be amazed if we get an RFE, but maybe not now?

[Ksenia_O 696]

7 minutes ago, NYCruiser said:

This is interesting. We do not have both of us on the House Deed, however, he is on the car, health, Homeowners, Homewarranty Insurance,Company Car authorised driver, travel together, family photos, Wills, Healthcare proxy and Power of Attorney, 401 beneficiary, savings/checking accounts/credit cards.

I will be amazed if we get an RFE, but maybe not now?

Since it currently takes more than a year to process I-751, I will be amazed if we don't get an RFE ..at least  for an updated info..

[NYCruiser 423]

1 hour ago, Ksenia_O said:

Since it currently takes more than a year to process I-751, I will be amazed if we don't get an RFE ..at least  for an updated info..

I hear its 1,5 years now. So an InfoPass Appointment + an RFE for Updated Information will be in order. I think the only hole in our application would be adding Spouse's name to the Deed. Plus, scads of Bank,Utilities, pictures etc to be added to the RFE. Anyone else has got an RFE after a year?

[Jeanne Adil 1,651]

i did a quick claim deed (only small fee to file in my county) to add my husband before he came to US

Had to commingle assests for CR1 visa from Morocco

[ChrisDC 12]

After submitting all the documents requested by the RFE, my greencard has finally been approved!!!! Thanks very much for your help. Now, it's time to start my naturalization process. THANKS!

Edited February 6, 2018 by ChrisDC

[Waittrain 17]

COngrats!