The blue boxes and hearts on our avatars

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Gosh Khurram, and last night that you really needed to rest because you were feeling so crappy Hope you are feeling at least better.

Oooohhh I get so mad if I don't sleep well

[MaydayDas 1]

Hello Sol De Verano...how you doing?

KHURRAM SERAJ, hard night huh? who is cooking at 4 am? wow, you must be so tired, you have permission to skip the 500 posts from today and have a good sleep

[KHURRAM SERAJ 0]

LOL... I need these post to relax and VJ has helped me so much in overcoming my depression

[MaydayDas 1]

LOL... I need these post to relax and VJ has helped me so much in overcoming my depression

anyways, you the king of hearts

[WifeOHunkyJohn 2]

good morning...

[MaydayDas 1]

Good afternoon

[WifeOHunkyJohn 2]

i get the feeling you guys were up with the larks...

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LOL... I need these post to relax and VJ has helped me so much in overcoming my depression

Khurram, you know that we are here for you!

This place is great, it helps us to share with people that are also going thru this awful visa process

And feel better, who else could understand such a process?

[Emancipation 2]

This place is great, it helps us to share with people that are also going thru this awful visa process

And feel better, who else could understand such a process?

UGH that's the truth.. man.. people back home don't understand at all.. they say "you can't work yet?" BAH!!!

[WifeOHunkyJohn 2]

LOL... I need these post to relax and VJ has helped me so much in overcoming my depression

Khurram, you know that we are here for you!

This place is great, it helps us to share with people that are also going thru this awful visa process

I'm glad I found it too. This process can really take it out of you and for all the days you are on the upswing of optimism or the 'i just don't care' mood, the downer of the 'why is it taking so long' can really cut right into you

so i slink off into here, read all about the fascination people have with beer, which countries have it cheeper, and who hates abbreviations and who can't remember their meanings to hate them, and I laugh and I feel better

sadly though, as i don't drink beer, i can't really say if it is a bargain here in SoCal or if its a rip off like in some city pubs in the UK

[MaydayDas 1]

I cannot wait to tell stories about VJ to my grandchildren

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My family is actually OK with my decision and they know by know the whole process (they think I sound like an expert about this matter ) but other people wonder how I can deal with a LDR (long distance relationship) and they say Oh who knows what's he's doing and blah blah blah... they cannot believe I trust a man that is on another country and that I am fine with that

I'ts such a painful process but the good part is that there is an end to it and that's where we need to look forward to

I cannot wait to tell stories about VJ to my grandchildren

Edited May 10, 2007 by Sol-de-Verano

[MaydayDas 1]

My family is actually OK with my decision and they know by know the whole process (they think I sound like an expert about this matter ) but other people wonder how I can deal with a LDR (long distance relationship) and they say Oh who knows what's he's doing and blah blah blah... they cannot believe I trust a man that is on another country and that I am fine with that

I'ts such a painful process but the good part is that there is an end to it and that's where we need to look forward to

I cannot wait to tell stories about VJ to my grandchildren

That's pure love, to trust somebody that you do not see every day is the foundation of a lifetime relationship

[WifeOHunkyJohn 2]

There is definitely a sense of victory when you get through the process and marry the person who stole your heart and just happened to live in another country.

Even though it doesn't end, with the whole AOS and removing conditions and eventual naturalization, if that's the ultimate goal, just knowing that you made it through one set of hurdles sure makes the rest seem like a walk in the park.

My beloved is actually quite a star for his patience and understanding when little things get to me - like getting back to back touches for a week then ignored for months on end, or watching people who filed for AOS after you get approved while you still sit in FBI name check limbo.

But you know what, even though there are times this sucks like sour lemons...

... I'd do it all again for him in a heartbeat

[Emancipation 2]

well said guys!! Everytime my hubby does something that's full of understanding and compassion and love I am like secretly STICKING it to everyone who "warned" me about the whole packing up my life and moving to the US.. tee hee.. Anyway, it's such a beautiful thing to follow you heart *and my head* and for things to work out.. Sometimes things don't go from bad to worse!