K1 Interview Administrating Process

[sali89 1]

Hello together,

 

I am from Germany and I have been together with my fiance round about 3 years together. I had an interview at the consulate in Germany.

Everthing went well. They did not tell me if the visa is approved. Officer told me they gonna send me an questinnnair I have to submit which I did already.

I was a few time in the U.S.A. My esta got denied from now where. Then I applied for a B2 Visa and I had submit the questionnaire for this one as well. After 3 month I decide to cancel the B2 process.

Now the same with the K1 Visa. I am thinking that something is wrong with my fiance and really thinking if am gonna really marry him.

He told me when he visits me he going through security checks a few time, in checkin, in security, even in gate. Before the K1 noa2 was approved the FBI and national security came also to his house. There is a female friend which is living for now in his house. The fbi knew everything about her and since this woman is in his house my esta got denied and all the other stuffs. I can not find anything out and thinking not to marry him.

[Unlockable 7,315]

Best to have a discussion with him to let you know you are having second thoughts.

 

Moving yourself and your life to another country is a big ordeal. You don't want to add further stress if you are unsure if you want to continue with marriage. Have a talk with him on everything you are feeling and proceed with the process when you are comfortable with it.

[Meg&Andrew 297]

I completely agree with @NuestraUnion. This is not a small decision you're making. If you're having these doubts already, and with the information you have provided, I would suggest taking a step back from the process. You obviously don't know enough about your fiance to marry him, and he's obviously hiding very important information from you. That's not a good start to a marriage.  If you're unsure, dont do it.  Take some time to really get to know him before taking vow to spend the rest of your life with him. 

[sali89 1]

Thank you very much for the response. Yes I decide to make a break. It is to much for me. I will  make a break and then make my final decision

Edited October 4, 2017 by sali89

[John & Rose 7,239]

2 minutes ago, sali89 said:

Thank you very much for the response. Yes I decide to make a break. It is to much for me. I will check make a break and then make my final decision

I wish you the best and I hope that everything works out for the best.