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I will have my medical exam next month and I am nervous because I had an abortion a few years ago. My fiance knows this and it happened before i met him. I just want to know if I should tell them the truth or just have a white lie. Ive read on some forums that it is safe to not tell them becaise they will not know that i had one.

 

I had abortion when  i was like 3 or 4 weeks pregnant. Need some advice. Thank you.

 

Pls dont judge me for this.

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10 minutes ago, roselove said:

I will have my medical exam next month and I am nervous because I had an abortion a few years ago. My fiance knows this and it happened before i met him. I just want to know if I should tell them the truth or just have a white lie. Ive read on some forums that it is safe to not tell them becaise they will not know that i had one.

 

I had abortion when  i was like 3 or 4 weeks pregnant. Need some advice. Thank you.

 

Pls dont judge me for this.

I had my medical 6 months ago and as far as I know it is not releavant and they won't ask you about the abortion. Why would you tell them? It's your body and therefore your decision. Don't be nervous. They just ask you questions about your overall health like known family deseases etc, take your blood and update your shot record.

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There's no need to disclose it unless asked.

 

No "white lies" with immigration...always be 100% honest.

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30 minutes ago, ty15 said:

I had my medical 6 months ago and as far as I know it is not releavant and they won't ask you about the abortion. Why would you tell them? It's your body and therefore your decision. Don't be nervous. They just ask you questions about your overall health like known family deseases etc, take your blood and update your shot record.

Thanks!

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5 hours ago, roselove said:

I will have my medical exam next month and I am nervous because I had an abortion a few years ago. My fiance knows this and it happened before i met him. I just want to know if I should tell them the truth or just have a white lie. Ive read on some forums that it is safe to not tell them becaise they will not know that i had one.

 

I had abortion when  i was like 3 or 4 weeks pregnant. Need some advice. Thank you.

 

Pls dont judge me for this.

I never understand when people ask should i lie or not. Answer is NO! If your fiance knows about it, and it is brought up at any point in the process then it would definitely be a foolish decision to try and hide it. A "white" lie is still lying. Good luck with everything

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