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3 hours ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

So we broke up...like all the sudden today ....he changes his mind about the ticket and says there was no agreement

I'm so sorry to hear this! After all the stress you have been through this is just the cherry on top. If I could give you a hug I would :(

I-129F Sent: 21/02/2017                                                                                                                                                 Marriage: 12/01/2018

I-129F Received Date: 23/02/2017                                                                                                                               AOS/EAD/AP Sent :

I-129F NOA1: 28/02/2017

RFE: 12/07/2017

RFE Hard Copy Received: 17/07/2017

RFE Response Sent Back: 18/07/2017

RFE Received By USCIS: 21/07/2017

I-129F NOA2: 18/08/2017 (176 Days)

NVC Received: 31/08/2017 (13 Days)

NVC Left: 06/09/2017 (6 Days)

Consulate Received: 08/09/2017

Letter from embassy (Packet 3): 11/09/2017
Medical at Knightsbridge: 28/09/2017

Interview: 10/10/2017 APPROVED!!!!

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19 hours ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

So we broke up...like all the sudden today ....he changes his mind about the ticket and says there was no agreement

Sorry :(

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As my world turns....this guy went and got drnk and smoked marijuana right before he was suppose to have the medical on Thursday.....I am obviously an idiot to think he wants to come....

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3 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

As my world turns....this guy went and got drnk and smoked marijuana right before he was suppose to have the medical on Thursday.....I am obviously an idiot to think he wants to come....

Okay....my friend I have never met....we have a saying where I'm from  (the hillbilly south....and it is crude). The saying is "sh/t or get off the pot". He  (and you) need to decide what to do. You filed in FEBRUARY. I want the very best for you and your family...but this would be torture! 

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Belieeeve me Janet ...I have told him that....I even told him to go date a month ago....I told him just yesterday before he agreed on the date..like ok...dont come..lets just pick a last day and say goodbye and go our own way....I have been trying to break it off for so long....I guess it'll just have to be me....saying goodbye...idk if this can be fixed...he says hes trying to fix it...cause he like never smokes but even when i told him a month ago not to anymore ...( he has about 6 times since ive known him) he went and did this.... so idk what to do or say anymore...cause I feel this is indicative of his mindstate...he says its just a lack of judgement or a screw up....i told him my trust is completely broken....idk what to do now....im so numb

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25 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

Belieeeve me Janet ...I have told him that....I even told him to go date a month ago....I told him just yesterday before he agreed on the date..like ok...dont come..lets just pick a last day and say goodbye and go our own way....I have been trying to break it off for so long....I guess it'll just have to be me....saying goodbye...idk if this can be fixed...he says hes trying to fix it...cause he like never smokes but even when i told him a month ago not to anymore ...( he has about 6 times since ive known him) he went and did this.... so idk what to do or say anymore...cause I feel this is indicative of his mindstate...he says its just a lack of judgement or a screw up....i told him my trust is completely broken....idk what to do now....im so numb

This process is grueling. The time away from your loved one, the stress of the the paperwork and approvals, the insecurity of the outcome and interviews and the complete scrutiny of your life and your loved one's life. It puts stress on the most solid relationships (and makes everyone second guess themselves)

 

But d×m#....He needs to decide what he wants to do :blink:

 

 

 

 

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57 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

As my world turns....this guy went and got drnk and smoked marijuana right before he was suppose to have the medical on Thursday.....I am obviously an idiot to think he wants to come....

Marijuana is usually a one year ban -  I remember some children "sabotaging" their move to the USA a few years back by doing drugs; sorry this is happening to you.

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Goodbye everyone...I have requested this account be deleted. It seems this is all damned to hell so...I accept it. Thank you for everything and congrats to everyone who successfully made it.

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10 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

Goodbye everyone...I have requested this account be deleted. It seems this is all damned to hell so...I accept it. Thank you for everything and congrats to everyone who successfully made it.

I am sorry to hear that. I wish you the very best in the future. You are a strong, willful, intelligent, committed, caring, good person with a lot of love to give. You deserve the very best in life. 

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3 minutes ago, janet3 said:

I am sorry to hear that. I wish you the very best in the future. You are a strong, willful, intelligent, committed, caring, good person with a lot of love to give. You deserve the very best in life. 

Thank you janet....seems the only way this could remotely be fixed is if he just waited to test...but i dont even trust him anymore....what a flipping idiot he is.

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Just now, Lovemycroatianman said:

Thank you janet....seems the only way this could remotely be fixed is if he just waited to test...but i dont even trust him anymore....what a flipping idiot he is.

i hope you find someone better, they are out there.

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4 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

Thank you janet....seems the only way this could remotely be fixed is if he just waited to test...but i dont even trust him anymore....what a flipping idiot he is.

You are an amazing woman. You deserve better than this.

 

And you are right...he's an effing idiot to miss out on the opportunity to be with you. His loss.

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18 minutes ago, janet3 said:

You are an amazing woman. You deserve better than this.

 

And you are right...he's an effing idiot to miss out on the opportunity to be with you. His loss.

Thank you....I realize that I have worth even though he chooses not to see it ......I have many men, banging on my door and many ive passed up for him...but not anymore. 

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44 minutes ago, Lovemycroatianman said:

Thank you....I realize that I have worth even though he chooses not to see it ......I have many men, banging on my door and many ive passed up for him...but not anymore. 

Wow :( I'm sorry he did this. I think it's best all this happened now, before he moved and you got married and became even more invested.  It sounds like he doesn't know what he wants and it's not fair to you to keep jerking you around.  You will find someone who will appreciate how committed and loving you are!!

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